These Are The Traits Men Find Most Attractive In Women

By Carole 1 year ago

1. Caring Nature - looking after him!

Image source Helpguide.orgMen and women are instinctively attracted to people who would potentially look out for them if something were to happen further into the future. Most women are born with the nurturing instinct already but not many show it.  This obvious trait will keep a guy interested.

2. Calmness - not being over-impulsive or dramatic

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Whilst females tend to be drama queens at some time or other and guys are prepared for this, having a calm nature and being able to talk through decisions in a relaxed manner is a sure sign to keep that member of the opposite sex interested. It's also good in the art of communication.

3. Loyalty - he wants to gather those points!

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No one on this planet wants to be betrayed and when a man meets a woman, he will look at the way she acts and treats those close to her.  If she speaks badly about her friends to him, behind their backs, then loyalty is not high on her agenda an she won't be high on his!

4. Genuine - the real deal

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Because of the way of the world as it is, it's easy to stick up a picture of ourselves on social media and write whatever we think is attractive to others.  A real man is looking for a genuine woman which is one of the most attractive qualities he could find to make his perfect match.

5. Intelligence - you don't have to have a degree

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There is a saying that beauty is only skin deep.  If there's not much going on behind that pretty girl's face, the guy may well lose interest.  He doesn't want to necessarily speak about politics but a conversation about the showbiz section of 'Mail Online' might not cut it for him.  Placing a value on education bodes well for a future, maybe with kids.

6. Maturity - nothing to do with age

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Maturity has nothing to do with the age of a person.  Don't be puzzled by this statement. Mental and emotional maturity is a quality many man  are looking for because no one has time to date a childish woman if they are seriously looking to settle down with her.

7. Cleanliness - it's what's under the make-up

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Beauty is much more than make-up and the latest hairstyle.  Men find women much more attractive when they are well groomed and smell nice.  The scent of clean hair and fresh moisturiser on the skin goes far beyond a painted face and think it looks even sexier.

8. Friendliness - being comfortable around others

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If you ask a man to list the reasons why he loves his wife or partner, one of his responses may be about how she makes friends easily and how she treats everyone with kindness and respect.  Humility is a very attractive quality and goes far in a man's quest for the perfect woman.

9. Romantic - being spontaneous

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It makes complete sense that both men and woman are looking for a partner who is at least a little bit romantic.  It's so nice to feel like that spark is always there, even with small gestures such as booking a table at a favourite restaurant or buying your guy the rum truffles he adores!

10. Punctuality - give or take a second!

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Only joking about being so precise but nobody likes to be kept waiting and if you're standing by the door with your shoes on while your lady is still in the shower, it's annoying.   While it's no big deal, it goes back to respecting the other person and their feelings.

11. Compassionate - thinking about others

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It's easy to fall into the habit of wanting more or being demanding.  When a woman concentrates on her own needs, she can forget to understand her partner.  He may be quiet for a reason and if she doesn't pick up on it, he isn't going to feel supported, especially if he is always there for her.

12. His Mother's Traits - makes him feel secure

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A research study looked at how likely men (and women) are to be attracted to certain eye and hair colours in their chosen partners and they found that the men preferred the colour that was the same as their mothers.  Guys were shown to be attracted to a woman who reminded them of their mums.

13. Sense Of Humour - appreciating HIS jokes!

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The men surveyed didn't rate funny women as being any more desirable than a less humorous one but what they did find very attractive in a female was if the woman laughed at their jokes.  It made them feel appreciated and special and showed the woman cared.

14. Head Tilt - but only if it's the right way!

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According to two Australian researchers, one thing that a man surprisingly found attractive in a female was the way in which she tilted her head.  It showed she was concentrating on him and listening to every word.  Men said it looked 'sexy without trying'.

15. Adventurous - open to risks

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This one goes both ways, and it turns out that both men and women find certain risk-taking behaviours very attractive when searching for a potential match made in heaven. A male seems to love a girl who is open to doing something out of her comfort zone.  It makes her interesting and wanting to please.

16. High Pitched Voice - but don't break a window!

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You would think that a husky voice would be a sexy one but studies have shown that what men are really attracted to is actually a higher-pitched voice. According to one study by University College London, high-pitched voices were found to be almost universally more attractive to men as they thought this might relate to a good looking woman with a small frame.

17. Ovulation - got that certain glow

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The science behind this one is quite fascinating.  Ovulation might not be a specific trait but it is linked to some traits that men find attractive. According to a study in the journal Hormones and Behaviour, men were more likely to rate women as being the most attractive during the most fertile point in their menstrual cycle.

18. Waist To Hip Ratio - yes, it really is a thing!

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When it comes to overall body shapes, we always hear that it's the hourglass figure that's most attractive like Marilyn Monroe.  It is the personal taste of the man what type of woman he finds most sexy but research showed this was a definite tick for lots of guys.

19. Average features - means more than average woman

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Regarding facial features, there are certain characteristics that seems to hold universal appeal. According to the book 'Falling in Love: Why We Choose the Lovers We Choose',  studies revealed a preference for women with big eyes, small noses.  Another study showed high cheekbones and a big smile did it for them.

20. Bust Line - bigger isn't always better

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It's often thought that bigger is better when it comes to breasts but that isn't necessarily the case.  Men are like Goldilocks when it comes to busts and don't like them too big or too small!  Instead, women with the most attractive bodies are found to be those who have medium sized breasts.

21. Good Hair - soft and silky does it

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A 2013 survey conducted by dating website Zoosk.com showed that men notice a woman's hair, even before her face!  A whopping 80% agreed with this and it was a surprising result for the woman who never expected this to be the case.  The guys preferred long locks, worn loosely over the shoulders, so there you go!

23. Long Legs - even with a short body!

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When it comes to legs, it's all about the length.  Some men prefer a short girl in high heels, giving the impression of long legs whilst a fewer number of guys went for very tall girls with legs that went on for ever!  A pair of stockings on them got the thumbs up from 97%!

24. Shorter than him - makes him feel protective

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Taller people tend to be viewed as more authoritative and successful.  This dates back to ancient times where prehistoric tombs found skeletons of taller people were placed in crypts while the shorter people were buried in mass graves.  Many men prefer a shorter female so they can feel protective over her.

25. Right Kind Of Walk - a swinging gait is good!

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On the list of what a man finds attractive in a woman is the way she walks.  Every female walks differently but a slight 'swing' is preferable as the guy can spot the girl from a distance and looks forward to meeting her nose to nose!  With her long, loose hair (as previously mentioned) she's a walking angel!

26. The Colour Red - passion sizzler

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One of the stranger things that attracts men to the opposite sex is the colour red!  The colour has long been associated with passion and love and it is considered an alluring hue.  It is thought that men subconsciously think of a woman's lady parts when they see red.

27. Perfect Smile - even if teeth aren't perfect

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It's no big news to learn that a smile can make a man go weak at the knees - not just a small grin but a big, open smile is a very attractive trait.  Apparently, it gives the impression that the woman is comfortable and confident in her own skin as well as being open to commit to a relationship.

28. Small Feet - associated with femininity

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Small feet have been associated with beauty and femininity for centuries. The Chinese practice of foot binding goes back to the 10th century and young girls would have their feet broken and bound to keep their feet tiny.  Guys are attracted to petite women with small feet but, obviously, it wouldn't be a make or break if she's a size 7.

29. Being A Dog Owner - ability to commit

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Men who have pets of their own want their date to love animals as much as they do. If they both have dogs, then it's all going in the right direction.  If both are cat owners, this also works well but doesn't have the same impact, probably because cats are more independent.

30. Having A Certain Smell - hormone related

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One trait that men are attracted to is one that they aren't even aware of.  They can be drawn to the scent of a female who has high oestrogen and low progesterone levels. Besides this smell, a light perfume, nothing too strong, will keep him wanting to be close to the woman.

31. Self-Confidence

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Confidence is a huge turn on for anyone, really, and especially for men looking for a woman. A woman who is confident in herself - but not arrogant - shows that she knows who she is and what she likes. A woman who isn't afraid to be herself and also reveal what makes her unique.

32. Independent Woman

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Independence is just as attractive as confidence. It shows that you don't need a man to depend on and that you can take care of yourself, which means a man can be secure in the knowledge you won't rely on them for everything. A successful relationship can be more likely if you're both self-sufficient, too.

33. A Good Heart - Kindness

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Kind and caring people are more attractive, and a woman who is kind to those around her - including her partner - and also generous with her time will be more appreciated by a man. It's a very endearing quality to care for others and do what you can for them.

34. A Little Bit Mysterious

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This is a little different than playing hard to get - it can just be about leaving things open to be learned about you. If you still have mystery about you and a man is interested, he will enjoy cracking the mystery and delving deeper into who you are, and what there is to learn about you.

35. A Passion For Life

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Being excited about life, grateful for every day and eager to explore what life has to offer are all attractive qualities, especially for a partner, because it means something exciting for your potential life together. Being eager about every day and open to exploring new things is a great quality.

36. An Optimistic Attitude

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Negativity is a part of life, and of course you can't be positive all the time. But if you're negative about every single thing, 24/7, it's going to be a bummer for your partner, which is why men can be attracted to more positive and optimistic women. Trying to look on the bright side is a plus.

37. A Good Listener

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It's not only about listening, but it's about being interested in what you're hearing, wanting to learn more and giving your undivided attention. Attentiveness and concern with what he has to say will be an attractive quality and will make it more likely he wants to be around you!

38. Sex Appeal

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There isn't one accepted way to be sexy, because every man will have a different idea of what 'sexy' is. It's not necessarily curves and tight clothes - sexy can also be being flirty, having a way with words, or something that's unique to you like the particular way you push your hair from your face.

39. Being In Good Health

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This isn't just about your body shape and your looks - being in shape and being healthy is attractive to men because it means you take care of yourself. It doesn't depend on being a plus size, it's more about actually being dangerously overweight or in bad health where you have to worry.

40. Having A Strong Personality

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A woman speaking her mind and knowing her own opinions and what she stands for is a very attractive quality. It means she's comfortable in who she is and not afraid to let her own personality shine through. Men can be drawn to women with strong personalities.

41. Having A Good Sense Of Style

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Obviously what you wear is going to have a huge effect on how attractive you are to others, but also a good sense of style gives off the impression that you put thought into how you look and that you care about looking good, which can be an attractive quality.

42. Traditional Feminine Qualities

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This doesn't mean that you have to behave like a shy Victorian maiden, but those traditional feminine qualities like being ladylike, treating people with respect and being kind and gracious can all be a plus in the eyes of a man with traditional values.

43. Being Supportive

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Being a very supportive partner is always a plus, because it means they can depend on you, trust in you and feel like it's a true partnership. If you're a supportive person who's always going to have your man's back, that's a huge plus.

44. A Woman Who Is Loving

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Making someone feel loved and appreciated is always important, in any relationship, whether friends, family or romantic. A woman who can make a man feel like he's truly loved is going to make him appreciate every second he's with her.

45. Commitment To Family And Friends

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The traits a man can find attractive don't have to be directly to him. The commitment and loyalty a woman also shows to other loved ones, like family and friends, can also be attractive because it shows the man that she cares about those she loves and will always stick by them.

46. A Woman Who Can Cook

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First off - no, this definitely isn't about the horrid stereotype of a woman belonging in the kitchen because no thanks. This is more just the bonus of a woman who is a great cook and enjoys cooking, because a man knows he'll be able to enjoy a good homecooked meal or two.

47. Red Lips

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We've already mentioned about the colour red being a huge plus for a guy, but red lips in particular can offer something specifically appealing. All because of the lips being where a man would focus for someone he likes, combining that with the alluring colour of red is a double whammy!

48. Putting That Feminine Touch Into Everything

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Women are skilled at making anything and everything look beauty, especially when it comes to decorating the home or making a space cosy - and men love that, because they know they can't do it to that level themselves.

49. Good Posture

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People with good posture just look more appealing, literally because they're body is looking in better physical condition! Good posture can give out more confidence, make a woman look taller and also reflect that she looks after herself, too.

50. An Equal Partnership

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There's something very attractive of knowing that you're going to be in equal partnership with someone. That this woman is someone you could consider an equal, and would do so for you in return. That you can depend on each other and always be a team!

51. Being Cheerful -Especially When Times Get Tough!

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Men are particularly drawn to cheerful women because they radiate positivity. Their natural warmth can indicate solid emotional stability and resilience, which will generally make a relationship much more enjoyable and rewarding. Plus, a positive attitude often fosters better communication and connection, which contributes to a fulfilling and harmonious partnership.

52. Smart Remarks

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We don’t mean stirring the pot or causing arguments, but the occasional bit of banter is a really attractive thing to a man. It shows you can take a joke while making his heart beat faster at the same time! If you make your banter flirty, then your man will love it or the more. Plus, it will help keep him on his toes.

53. A Cheeky Wink

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Men love flirty gestures, and won’t be able to resist a cheeky wink (as long as you can do it without looking like you’re nervously twitching). If you find it hard to wink, you can practice in the mirror. It may seem dumb at first, but it’ll definitely give you a skill in the long-run!

54. Showing A Bit of Skin (But Not Too Much)

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We’re not saying you need to show all your worldly goods, but a few subtle nearly-there peaks can work wonders. A slightly lower-cut top or a subtle shorter skirt encourages those second and third glances, and will drive their curiosity wild. Just be sure not to overdo it, as it gives the impression you’re trying too hard.

55. Asking For Help Sometimes

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Men really like it when women ask for their help because it fulfils a natural desire to feel valued. While they like women to show independence sometimes, feeling needed can actually boost a man's sense of purpose and competence. This also creates a positive connection, fostering a sense of partnership and cooperation in relationships.

56. A Freak In The Sheets

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We think most men would agree on this one. Men can’t get enough of dirty women (look at how many men watch porn) so it’s no great surprise that they like a woman who’s confident in her moves. So don’t be afraid to show them who’s boss in the bedroom!

57. No Mind Games

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Men generally don’t appreciate mind games – nor do they like being manipulated into something. Whether you’re trying to one-up him after an argument or get him to move in, it will eventually blow up in your face. It can also cause major problems in your relationship further down the line.

58. Strength - Because It Helps Them Feel Strong Too

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Strength in a woman can be super attractive, as it signals capability and lots of self-assurance. This can help foster a sense of equality and mutual support in a relationship – because if one of you is having a tough time, the other person can use their strength to provide support.

59. The Ability To Take Control

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Most men generally like wearing the pants in their relationships. This is because they like being in control and taking on a more masculine role. However, many will still like it when a woman takes the lead on decision making, so it can be a tricky balancing act for us ladies!

60. Determination - Because You Shouldn't Give Up Easily!

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Most men tend to appreciate determined women because determination often oozes confidence, ambition, and a strong sense of purpose. And these qualities are super attractive! As determined women are much more likely to pursue their goals with tons of passion and drive, it generally makes them more interesting and inspiring.

61. She Can Present Herself Well

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It’s not just about looking sexy 24/7 -it’s about dressing and presenting yourself well for the right occasion. Instead of going for a meal with his family in a dress more suited to the beach or a night on the town, you should focus on presenting yourself confidently in suitable, well-fitting clothes.

62. Using The Right Kind of Perfume

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The right perfume can drive men wild! But it can be hard to suss out which scents they like straight away. Some like bold, heavy scents, while others prefer something more subtle. Try and figure out what your man likes (test a few out and see what happens) as this will boost his physical attraction to you.

63. A Woman Who Can Make Her Man Look Good

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We don’t mean this in an arm candy kind of way. It means allowing him to rescue you now and then (because they love helping a damsel in distress) and having his back no matter what. He’ll be super pleased it if you brag about him to his family and pals.

64. She Doesn't Get Needy

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We hate to break it to you, but men really aren’t keen on needy, clingy women. While this doesn’t mean that you can’t speak to him about things that are bothering you, try not to overdo it, and be sure to choose your moments wisely. Calling him while he’s out with the boys won’t go down well…

65. A Woman That Can Make Him A Better Man

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Men often call their wives and girlfriends their better halves – and for good reason! The best partners around are the ones that help a man be the best he possibly can be; those that encourage men to try and do more, and support them through the good times and bad.

66. Good At Stroking His Ego When Needed

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We all know that men have huge egos – even the ones that say they don’t! So sometimes, you’re going to have to stroke that ego to give him some reassurance. You don’t need to overdo it – just give him some confidence that he’ll smash that presentation at work, or can get through that tense family get-together.

67. No Gold Digging

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Okay, so this should be a no-brainer, but you be surprised by how many women go after men for their money (we know some men do this with women too!). Most men really aren’t down for wives and girlfriends who are only in it for the cash, so tread with caution.

68. A Good Talker

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Women who are happy to chat with others tend to go down well with men. They not only show that they’re fun, but can also adapt to different groups of people. Whether she’s working the room at a family event or chatting with the boys, she’s able to turn herself into a social chameleon.

69. A Partner In Crime

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Men absolutely love it when their other half is their partner in crime. You go on adventures, spend your time rolling around with laughter, and support each other no matter what. Because being in a relationship is just like being on a team – if one person doesn’t step up, everyone loses.

70. Accepting Of His Flaws

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Everyone has flaws – whether they like to admit it or not! While many of us will try and improve these flaws, we also need to accept that we’ll never be perfect. Which means picking apart a man’s flaws is a big no no. It’s not fair to make someone feel like they’re not living up to expectations.

71. A Clear Communicator

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Clear communication is key in any relationship – especially romantic ones. So instead of expecting your man to be able to read between the lines or playing mind games, it’s much better to be open and honest while keeping things light in tone. This can really help prevent arguments and disagreements.

72. She's Comfortable Hanging Out With The Boys

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We’re not saying you need to start chugging beers to become one of the boys, but hanging out with his friends will make him really happy. It’s about making an effort with the people he cares about, so try and get involved and get stuck in. He’ll thank you for it later.

73. She Isn't A Drama Queen

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Drama never goes down well with men (even when it’s drama they’ve ended up creating) so try and rein things in a bit. Constant problems and headaches can get tiring – not just for your man, but for you too. Try and take a calmer approach, which will benefit you both.

74. She's Not Afraid To Show Vulnerability

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Vulnerability is a big part of strong relationships. If you’re too afraid to show who you really are or open up about things that have happened in the past, you can’t really move your relationship forward. Men also love solving problems, so they’ll do their best to help and support you where they can.

75. She Doesn't Get Crazy Jealous

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Let’s face it – jealousy doesn’t look good on anyone. So if you’re getting controlling with who he hangs out with and when, he definitely won’t thank you for it. And those who decide to go through texts and hack into Facebook accounts will immediately be shown the door. You’ve been warned!

76. She's Good At Compromising

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Just like clear communication, compromise is an absolute fundamental in successful relationships. We’re not saying he should get his way all the time, but you shouldn’t be able to either! It’s not about picking apart who’s right and who’s wrong in every little instance – it’s how you fix things that counts.

77. She Helps Him Work Toward His Goals

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You’re supposed to be your man’s biggest cheerleader, so you should be supporting him no matter what. If there are things that he wants to achieve, remind him he’s great and help him along the way. He’ll appreciate it a lot, and will want to do the same for you too.

78. ALL The Direct Eye Contact

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We’ll level with you- eye contact is super attractive to men. This is because it signals clear engagement and interest, making it a powerful non-verbal cue that sparks attraction and builds rapport and connection. It also shows men that you’re a confident person who’s not afraid to hold their gaze.

79. Ability To Forgive

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Men can find the ability to forgive attractive in women because it reflects emotional maturity, empathy, and a capacity for understanding. Forgiveness can strengthen relationships, build positivity, and also demonstrate resilience. If you’re able to move past conflicts (even the ones that have caused you a lot of pain) it helps foster trust and deepen your emotional connection.

80. Isn't Narcissistic

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Dating a narcissist really isn’t easy. This is because they can be selfish, arrogant, controlling, and lack empathy for anyone but themselves. Men generally find non-narcissistic women attractive because they’re way more empathetic, supportive, and focused on mutual growth, so they’re much more likely to be a better romantic partner.

81. Natural Creativity

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We're not just referring to crafts and making things here. Women who can think outside the box and try new ideas are really attractive to men, as it shows that they’re not afraid to do things a little differently. It signals intelligence, confidence, and open-mindedness too, which are great attributes to have in a partner.

82. Discipline

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Men find discipline seriously attractive in women because it shows self-control, determination, and responsibility. These qualities suggest a person who can manage their life effectively, make wise decisions, and achieve goals. Discipline also indicates a strong work ethic and the ability to handle challenges, which are good omens for a potential relationship.

83. Goal-setting Skills

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Who doesn’t love a goal-setter? Women who are determined to achieve their ambitions tend to attract men who have the same attitude. And that’s a match made in heaven! Women who set goals demonstrate they have tons of drive and focus, which is a serious advantage in the dating world.

84. No Social Media Addiction

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Let's face it – nobody wants to have a partner who’s addicted to their phone. Men find it particularly off putting, as it suggests you’re not willing to give them (and your relationship) any attention. So it might be time to stop scrolling through Instagram and focus on the real world for a while.

85. Doesn't Take Themselves Too Seriously

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If you tend to be a little self-important, you might want to start easing up a bit. Men like women who don’t take themselves particularly seriously, as it shows they’ve got a good sense of humor and an ability to laugh at themselves. So relax and enjoy a few jokes!

86. A Little Bit Of Charisma

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A little bit of charisma can really help a woman when it comes to dating. Men are drawn to charismatic women as they have charm, and confidence, and are able to carry themselves well in different social situations. This bodes well for a relationship, as charisma generally brings a lot of good energy to the table.

87. Showing Interest In Things That Mean A Lot To Him

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Let's face it – don’t we all appreciate it when our other half takes an interest in something that means a lot to us? Guys absolutely love this, as it shows you’re keen to make an effort and learn more about him. And you might just find new passions and interests along the way!

88. Full Lips - But Not Too Big!

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Full lips on a woman are usually a sure fire hit, but be careful not to go too big. The rising trend in fillers means that some women can actually get addicted to puffing up their lips, and guys don’t find them that attractive once they reach a certain side. Remember that you’re looking to enhance your lips, not ruin them!

89. Being The Hostess With The Mostest

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It’s not just about being a good cook – it’s about making your guests at ease too. Men love women who naturally care for others, so those little moments looking after some visitors (offering drinks, creating party bags for the kids etc.) will show your man that you’re a kind, nurturing person.

90. Clear skin

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Okay, so we know that hardly any of us will ALWAYS have clear skin (thank you time of the month!) but showing off glowing, healthy skin is a guaranteed hit with men. So if you’ve got into your stride with your skincare routine, don’t be afraid to ditch the heavy makeup.

91. Keen To Learn

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Showing an aptitude for learning (no matter what your age) is a really attractive trait in both women and men. It signals that you’re naturally curious and keen to expand your knowledge, which means you’ll be open-minded in your relationship. It’s also thought that a person who enjoys learning is generally better at communication.

92. Openess To New Things

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Speaking of open-mindedness – if you’re happy to try out new things, it shows a man that you’ve got that adventurous side that can drive them wild. This means a potential relationship can be exciting and packed full of possibilities, which adds a lot of depth and energy to your dynamics.

93. She Knows What's Going On In The World

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We’re not saying you need to be aware of absolutely every news event in the world (because nobody is) but having a general grasp on current affairs demonstrates that you’re intelligent and informed. Men find it attractive as they know you’ll be able to have a meaningful conversation and communicate well.

94. A Few Tattoos and Piercings

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Okay, so we know not every guy out there will want a woman who is covered head to toe in tattoos and piercings. But a few subtle ones have been found to be super attractive to men, according to a recent study. So if you’re not unsure about whether to have that new tattoo, go for it!

95. Mirroring Their Gestures

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Did you know that mirroring a man’s body language can actually create a subconscious sense of connection and rapport? That’s what the science says anyway! Titling your head the same way or stretching in sync with him shows that you’re similar and have a shared understanding, which quickly creates intimacy.

96. Assertiveness

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You don’t have to go full dominatrix, but men find assertive women attractive because assertiveness can display confidence, independence, and an ability to clearly communicate. These qualities are generally appealing as they suggest a partner who knows what she wants, can express her needs, and is capable of taking initiative.

97. 'Natural' Hair Colors

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Gentlemen don’t always prefer blonds. In fact, numerous studies have shown that men generally prefer more ‘natural’ hair colors; anything too wild can suggest she’s ‘fake’ or a bit too outrageous. So don’t be shy about embracing your natural locks, as it may serve you well in the dating scene!

98. Good Hygiene Habits

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Never underestimate the power of good hygiene habits. We’ve probably all been on a date with someone that had bad hygiene, and it can kill a romantic vibe stone dead, regardless of their looks or personality. Men have high expectations of women’s hygiene habits, so make sure you’re up to standard.

99. Less Makeup Is More

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Men love natural features on women, so go easy on the heavy makeup and opt for a more subtle look. They want to see the real, authentic you! It signals that you’re confident in your own skin, generally low maintenance and down to earth, which makes you much more attractive as a potential partner.

100. Responsiveness

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Who doesn’t like a responsive partner? We’re not saying you need to be glued to your phone 24/7 to respond to his every beck and call, but giving him adequate attention and not ignoring or ghosting him means he’ll feel comfortable and assured. We hope men start returning the favor!

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