Signs He Is Too Flirty

1. He's always making innuendos

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One of the ultimate signs that a guy is too flirty is when he keeps making innuendos. You can see what kind of track his mind is on, and whatever you say he seems able to turn it into some kind of innuendo. This guy is flirting with you! And probably everybody else too.

2. He's always complimenting you...and others

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Compliments are great, we all love to hear some words of affirmation. It can make you feel great and can be a well-needed confidence boost. Yet, they're only really special coming from somebody who doesn't hand out compliments to literally everyone...

3. He's super touchy-feely

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It's nice to be tactile when you're dating, a hand on the knee, a pat on the shoulder, a hug. But when this is all of the time and he's super touchy feeling it makes you question if he's just a very flirty person and he's actually like this with everybody not just you!

4. He always asks about your dating life

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There's a reason that he's always asking about your dating life. When he's interested in you he'll be jealous of the thought that you're involved with another guy. He wants to know that you're single to see if he's got a chance with you! But, this can also be a sign that he's a flirt!

5. He tells you he's attracted to you and likes you, but makes no commitment

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He piles on the compliments, and he makes it VERY clear that he's super attracted to you, and that he likes you....yet he's never made any suggestions about making any kind of commitment to you or becoming exclusive! Girl, he's too flirty! And his intentions may not be to make you his girlfriend.

6. When he's out, he seems to know all the girls

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You immediately know a guy is flirty when you go out and he knows all the girls. They all come up to him, hug him, they know his name and they all seem to be VERY friendly. There's being sociable...and then there's being way too flirty with everybody.

7. He turns any conversation into a flirty direction

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You could be talking about nature, talking about your hobbies, talking about education...and SOMEHOW this guy always seems to be able to steer the conversation in a flirty direction. We've all experienced someone like this at some point. It's one of the clearest signs that he's too flirty.

8. He's always looking at your lips when he's talking to you

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Textbook flirting 101 is to look at somebody's lips when you're talking to show that you're interested and to initiate a kiss. So if this guy won't stop staring at your lips, he's probably not listening to what you're saying. He's probably thinking about kissing you instead because he's WAY too flirty.

9. He's openly flirty with other people in front of you

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So we all like a flirty guy...when it's with US. But nobody at all wants to see their guy or the guy they like flirting with other girls right in front of them. It's going to hurt! But when a guy is too flirty this will be something he will definitely do because to him it's just habit!

10. He's more interested in your appearance than your personality

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Don't get us wrong, it's great to feel like the guy you like finds you physically attractive. But this is just surface level. The main thing is that you feel like they appreciate and admire your personality. When a guy is too flirty he may make you feel like he's only interested in your looks!

11. He sends winky faces on every message

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The winky emoji is a controversial thing. Is it too much? A winky face at the end of a text can totally change the meaning behind it. Look, one or two and we can let it slide. But if he can't send a text without a winky face then we know for sure then this guy is TOO flirty!

12. He gets excited when girls are around

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When you're with him and he sees other girls you may be able to notice that he gets excited to see them. You may notice a switch in his demeanor. You can see his attention perk up and he's become more lively and engaged, but his attentions are now elsewhere.

13. He's super playful and never serious

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Having a playful side is a great trait because it can make someone fun to be around and it can bring out a playfulness in you too. But someone has to have both playfulness AND a serious side too. Otherwise, the relationship will be meaningless and shallow.

14. He's always checking you out

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If he's always checking you out and nobody else then fine. But you know that this guy is checking you out constantly, and he's probably doing it to a lot of other girls too. And, sometimes we don't want to be checked out...we just want to be appreciated!

15. He always makes intense eye contact

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Eye contact is important. There's nothing more flirty than prolonged eye contact and just a look can get the butterflies in your stomach swooshing. When you're on a  candle-lit dinner this is the perfect time for it. When he's doing it non-stop it's a sign that he's too flirty.

16. He's always trying to create a sense of intimacy between the two of you

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Whatever you may be doing he's trying to get close to you and make it more intimate than it actually is. It can be cute, but when he's too flirty he'll do this all of the time, trying to create intimacy instead of just enjoying the moment for what it is with you.

17. He's over-familiar with women

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While it's a great trait to be friendly and sociable, you know in your gut when someone is being over familiar with everyone. And if they're like that with loads of women then you can probably assume that this guy isn't loyal to you because he's just way too flirty.

18. He tries to make it seem like you're the only person he's interested in, yet his behavior says otherwise

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You're the most beautiful girl in the world. You're the only one for me. I've never met anyone like you before. Aside from being mildly flattering, talk is cheap if there's no meaning behind the words. The one way to see if a guy means what he says is if his actions live up to them. And if he's too flirty he'll say a lot of great things and his behavior just won't match.

19. He makes sexual references

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Consistent sexual references are just inappropriate. There's a time and a place where they may be more acceptable, but if he makes too many sexual references you know that this guy has one thing on his mind, and his intentions are anything but true with you.

20. He talks about girls from the past

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If you're dating a guy or you like him the LAST thing you want to hear him talking about is other girls. It's human nature. And let's face it we want to be the only girl he's talking about in THAT way. If he's talking about exes and previous dates, it's time to move on.

21. He tries to make you jealous

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Oh, the wrath of the green-eyed monster. Although it's totally normal to get a little bit jealous sometimes when we really like someone, it's not a nice feeling. And when someone actively TRIES to make us feel jealous then it means that he's a flirt, and you cannot know his true intentions!

22. He uses a LOT of flattery

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Flattery in small doses can be very charming. But too much does make you start to question 'Is this guy genuine or is he saying all of the things he thinks I want to hear'. See how he acts around other people. Do they get the full charm offensive too? If so, he's too flirty!

23. He'll try and steer activity or conversation in an intimate direction

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Flirt alert. One of the biggest signs that a guy is too flirty is when he can change any kind of topic and make it intimate. Only a flirt manages to go from talking about the weather...to talking about something completely different and perhaps a little inappropriate!

24. He invites you on romantic dates

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Who doesn't love to be taken on romantic dates? There's nothing better than when a guy wants to woo you and he wines and dines you. But it's nice to have some cute dates too so that they aren't all just in a romantic intimate setting and you have time to have fun and get to know each other too.

25. He downplays any concerns you have about him being too flirty

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You may have mentioned to this guy that you're a little bit concerned that he's too flirty because he seems not only to flirt with you but...literally everyone. He'll play it down and pretend that he's 'just a friendly guy', they're 'just friends', oh and you've 'got nothing to worry about!'

26. He uses pet names for multiple people

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Pet names are a divisive topic. Some people love being called my 'boo' or 'babe', but for others the mention of anything of the sort literally makes them heave. Anyway, you know if he has pet names for everybody this guy is just a complete flit!

27. Girls are always texting him

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You're out with this guy, and his phone is constantly pinging. You can see the different names of girls flashing up on his phones. he's getting texts, and DMS and it's definitely not work emails. This guy predominantly has girls texting him, not because he's super friendly, but because he's a flirt!

28. He makes references that you're super attracted to him

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We all know that kind of guy who thinks everybody wants him. So when he's too flirty he'll constantly suggest that you're into him and you're attracted to him. Even if you are, he's displaying that he's overconfident in thinking that you want him and that you'll do anything to get him.

29. He gives suggestions that you're dating

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On a similar track, he'll make suggestions that you're dating. This can be exactly what you want to hear...when someone MEANS it. But if he's saying it with no intention it's just empty words and it is giving you the wrong message and leading you on which could get you hurt in the long run.

30. Conversations are never deep

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The conversations between the two of you are never that deep, they seem very superficial. You may try and initiate a topic to really get to know him better and to dig a little bit deeper into exploring your connection and compatibility, but you seem unable to get there!