
12 Things Emotionally Mature Men Do Differently
They Communicate Effectively
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They Embrace Vulnerability
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They Prioritize Self-Care
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They Respect Boundaries
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They Apologize Sincerely
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They Handle Conflict Constructively
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They Show Empathy
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They Give Space When Needed
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They Are Supportive
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They Foster Trust
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They Manage Their Emotions
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They Celebrate Differences
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They Support Personal Growth
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They Share Responsibilities
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They Are Grateful
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They Show Affection
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They Make Time for Quality Moments
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They Handle Stress Positively
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They Are Responsible Financially
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They Encourage Independence
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They Keep Promises
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They Seek Growth
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They Maintain a Sense of Humor
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They Plan for the Future
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They Celebrate Achievements
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They Nurture Intimacy
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They Avoid Manipulation
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They Keep Jealousy in Check
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They Learn from Mistakes
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They Appreciate the Present
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They Don't Blame Others For How They're Treated
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Men who are emotionally immature might jump to conclusions about the actions of others and blame them for being 'rude' or any other negative emotion. But emotionally mature men will instead try to understand on a deeper level why someone might be lashing out at them, and try not to blame other people for their actions.Advertisement
They Do What They Can To Understand Why People Are Lashing Out
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Someone who isn't very mature emotionally might dismiss other people as being idiots or just plain rude, but with emotional maturity comes the understanding that every person is going through something different that we don't see, and to take a step back and understand that.Advertisement
They Don't View Life As Black And White
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The world definitely isn't black and white, but it takes a great deal of emotion and compassion to understand that things are more gray and that every person is different. Emotionally mature men will be more open-minded and objective about everything that's going on around them.Advertisement
They're Happy To Admit They Don't Know Everything!
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It takes a lot to admit when you don't know something! And emotionally mature people know that it's okay to sometimes say that you can't do something, or that you simply don't know, instead of stubbornly trying to act like you know better, or spend time trying to find the answers to prove a point!Advertisement
They Don't Think They're Very Unique Or Special
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People who still need to learn and grow with their emotions might feel that they're 'out of touch' with everyone else and feel like they're different (in a special way). While every person is definitely unique and special in their own way, emotionally mature people seek to find connections and things that bring us together.Advertisement
They Don't Think They're Better Than Anyone Else
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And someone who is still a little emotionally immature might think they're superior than everyone else, and that the reason they feel so out of touch with connections is because they're simply superior and nobody else understands than. But a man emotionally mature will recognize that they're definitely not superior.Advertisement
Their Confidence Comes From Within, Not Without
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It takes a true sense of maturity and calm to finally accept who you are as a person, without trying to impress people or be someone you're not. An emotionally mature man will have finally found acceptance in who he is, and he knows that validation comes from his own confidence, and not someone else's opinion!Advertisement
They Don't Suffer From Imposter Syndrome
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People who doubt themselves and have insecurities may often suffer from imposter syndrome, which is where you don't believe you've earned/deserve the success you currently have. A person who has reached emotional maturity will know that they've worked hard, and deserve this success.Advertisement
They've Accepted Not To Be 'Perfect' At Everything
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Nobody is perfect, and when you finally realize that you don't need to be perfect at everything to still be worthy, you can be called emotionally mature! Making mistakes is the only way to learn and grow, so letting yourself make mistakes is how you're better going to develop emotionally.Advertisement
They Don't Hold A Grudge Against Their Parents
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People who are struggling emotionally will often look to their upbringing and their parents, maybe even blame their parents if they themselves didn't do well with showing emotion. A person who has matured with their feelings won't hold anything against their parents and understand that they can't hold their parents to an impossibly high standard.Advertisement
In Difficult Situations, They Don't Play The Blame Game
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You can really see a person's true colors in the worst times compared to the best times. In times of difficulty, if the person lashes out and looks to blame anyone but themselves, they're emotionally immature. The opposite is when a man can accept the difficult situation is a learning opportunity, without blaming anyone else!Advertisement
They Understand That Actions Speak Louder Than Words
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It's easy to say something, or make false promises, but actions really do speak louder than words, especially in romantic relationships. Emotionally mature men will make sure to always follow through on their promises, or say little while doing a lot for the people they care about.Advertisement
They've Stopped Blaming Themselves For Past Mistakes
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You really do need to let go of your own past mistakes to forgive yourself and move forward - and an emotionally mature person can do that. They will have accepted that they can't judge themselves for what they did/wanted years and years ago, when they're a different person now.Advertisement
They've Let Go Of Things That Have Gone Wrong In Their Past
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This also means completely letting go of certain things from your past which you know no longer serves you. An emotionally mature man will be able to recognize and accept memories or people they simply need to let go in order to move forward on the right path!Advertisement
They're Completely Comfortable In Their Own Skin
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There's nothing wrong with trying to better yourself and learn more, but an emotionally mature man is going to do this as a bonus well appreciating themselves, just the way they are. They don't feel the need to look better, act smarter, or be better than everyone - they just live as their authentic selves!Advertisement
And They Don't Need Validation From Anyone Else!
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With this also comes the acceptance that you don't need validation from anyone else. An emotionally immature man might feel bummed out if other people think less of them, or if they're not getting the compliments or approval their looking for. But reaching a stage of peak emotional maturity means that you don't need anyone else's validation in what you do.Advertisement
They Have A More Realistic View Of Disappointment
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That isn't to say that you should continually be negative or pessimistic, but being mature in your emotions means accepting that sometimes things just don't work out no matter how hard you try, and knowing how to be prepared for that disappointment when it comes.Advertisement
They've Accepted When They're Anxious, Rather Than Fighting It
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A lot of men struggling with their emotions might feel like that they need to hide when they're afraid or feeling anxious, so that they can seem confident all the time - but the opposite is true of an emotionally mature man. They can openly admit when they're afraid or anxious.Advertisement
They Take Their Time With Relationships
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Emotional maturity is extremely important for successful relationships, and a man who has this will take his time with relationships so that he doesn't rush into anything, so that he can get to know a person at a steady pace and also be sure he takes the time to understand his own feelings.Advertisement
They Appreciate What's Here In The Present
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People driven by their dreams or goals of the future may let their emotions get the better of them, because they're so focused with what they want that they might neglect the here and now. But an emotionally mature man knows how to make the best of the present moment.Advertisement