Life Hacks For Single People

1. Stay Single For 3 Months - at least

Image source PicsMineThis is mostly for someone who's newly single.  If you just got out of a relationship, start enjoying life on your own. Find things that make you happy and if you decide to date, make sure it's casual and don't jump into a relationship.

2. Spend A Weekend With A Married Couple - find out the truth

Image source Marriage MissionsIf you know a couple with a great relationship who are around your age and you are friendly with with, hang out with them and see what they do well. It’s easy to romanticize relationships and focus on the honeymoon period but that doesn't last for ever.

3. Take A Trip With Your Best Friend - realise why they are your best friend

Image source PinterestReconnect with your friends. You may have put them to one side whilst you were concentrating on your now defunct relationship so reach out to your bestie and have fun together, like you used to.  In the future, remember to always have room for them in your life.

4. Visit A Foreign Country By Yourself - you can be independent

Image source National StorageBe bold and be brave and take yourself off on a solo trip.  You can backpack through Europe or explore Australia.  The world is your oyster and there is nothing to hold you back except yourself.  You may find you gain a new confidence that had been supressed when you were in a partnership.

5. Find Yourself - take a breath and please yourself

Image source PeakPXThe easiest path to a healthy relationship is understanding what makes you happy.  Take time to find yourself while you are single.  Think about your goals and ambitions and don't let the next partner in your life talk you out of them.

6. Don't Fall In Love Too Fast - could be a rebound thing

Image source InsiderLearn to say no as it's much too easy to jump right back into a relationship or move on too quickly at the first sign of sparks for a long period.  Take the opportunity to find someone who compliments you and with whom you have a deep connection with.

7. Catch Up With The Old Crowd - make time for them

Image source LiveAboutRelationships, particularly a difficult one, can be hard on friendships. While you’re single, contact old friends and create a meaningful, lasting connection that will continue no matter what your relationship status is.

8. Get in Shape - look good and feel good

Image source YouTubeWhen you’re single, you want to both feel and look your best so get to the gym to shape up.  You'll have more confidence in yourself when looking for your next relationship and you could even meet someone while you're training!

9. Enjoy It - being single can be fun

Image source MaidenBeing single doesn't have to be a miserable experience and it isn't.  Treat it as a challenge to learn about yourself and take chances to discover what you like.  Take your time to meet the person of your dreams but there's absolutely no hurry.

10. Actively Meet New People - spread your wings

Image source WiredBeing single doesn’t mean you are going to spend every night propped up against the bar.  See it as an opportunity to meet new people and you may be surprised to find a friendship with somebody who is the opposite of you but who you get along with really well.

11. Be Spontaneous - no one to answer to

Image source WikipediaWithout a significant other, you don’t need to check your diaries before arranging something that interests you.  Instead, take this opportunity to be spontaneous and do what you want - there's no one to judge you now! If that means joining a new club, going clubbing, or just trying new clothes - you're free to do it.

12. Read - you've now got time

Image source RedditReading is one of the best ways to relax, entertain and educate yourself at the same time.  Many of us love reading but say we never have the time. Well, without a special someone in your life to think about, spend it with a good book.

13. Reflect - be honest

Image source BohatIn between all that working and playing, make sure you reflect on yourself and your choices.  Are you happy with what you did today? Is there room for improvement? Don’t be too critical but it's good to be honest with yourself.

14. Take Up A New Hobby - it will make you more interesting

Image source About MancsIs there something you’ve been dying to try out recently such as pottery or pilates?  Don't put it off any longer and get your teeth sunk into a hobby.  The single life is all about you so try something new and fill your time doing an enjoyable pastime.

15. Stay Out - and sleep in

Image source Funky OilNo one waiting at home means no getting home by a certain time at night - or morning.  Stay out as late as you want and don’t come home until you’re ready.  You can sleep until the afternoon if you want and laze around all day. No one will even know!

16. Learn How To Be Alone - it's a skill

Image source The DrumWhile being single can be ok most of the time, it can be hard occasionally to be alone with your thoughts.  It is, therefore, important to learn to be by yourself and to be comfortable with it, not having to rely on that other person.

17. Say Yes - when you'd normally say no

Image source AwesomeComicTake advantage of opportunities that come your way by being positive and agreeing to do stuff, no matter how big or small.  You've nothing to lose and you never know, it could open up doors for you that you would not have imagined.

18. Set Goals - the sky's the limit

Image source FreepikBeing single is not a time to sit back and let life pass you by.  Don't stay at home, knitting a scarf to stay warm as you have no one to hug you.  Discover your purpose and ask yourself what you wish to achieve and be productive.

19. Surround Yourself With Positive People - you have the choice

Image source MediumA great benefit to being single is the ability to have as much alone time as you want.  In a relationship this can be tricky and everyone needs 'me time.' Make the most of it and fill your circle of friends with positive, uplifting individuals.  It's the way forward to happiness.

20. Practice Gratitude - every day

Image source DandelionWe all get down at times - it's human nature. Implementing a practice of gratitude can help you control your thoughts and emotions and keep you from getting over-emotional and down-hearted.  As well as writing them down, recite your daily list of gratitude for a good start to the day.

21. Don't Look Back - only forward

Image source Steam AheadStay in the present and try and stop thinking abut the past, particularly your old relationship.  You can't change what has happened but you can have a say in the here and now as well as the future.  Your life my be different but that isn't a bad thing.

22. List The Qualities You're Looking For In A Partner - because you're worth it

Image source CNNAs singles, it is helpful to have an idea of what you are looking for in a future husband or wife.  It's a good idea to make a list as, in the past, you may have compromised because you didn't want to be alone but it didn't work out.  It could prove invaluable.

23. Volunteer - to worthy causes

Image source South West ArgusWhen you are single, you have more time on your hands, so why not spend it doing good, such as volunteering.  As well as helping, it will make you feel better about yourself and understand how fortunate you are compared to others.

24. Pray - even if you're not religious

Image source SecureGamePraying isn't just for the religious.  Anyone can do it and it can give you an inner peace, especially if you pray before bed.  It can make you think more deeply about yourself and what you really want out of life, a feeling of clarity.

25. Clear Out Your Home - fresh start

Image source QuoraNow you are the only one in your home, have a big sort out and pack away stuff from your past relationship.  Give stuff to charity and deep clean you property.  A tidy home is a tidy mind and you'll feel you have done something worthwhile.

26. Learn To Love Yourself - it's the first step

Image source Daily MailStop comparing yourself to others as they are probably doing the same thing as you!  Don't worry about their opinion and if you have made mistakes, so what - no one is perfect.  Start putting trust in yourself and your decisions and you'll be on the way to loving yourself.

27. Learn A Language - besides the language of love

Image source Goldthorpe SlidesLearning a new language will occupy your mind, tick off a new talent and enable you to meet new people (if you are learning at night school or college).  Discovering something new that you can accomplish is a big confidence booster.

28. Stop Comparing - accept for what you are

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If you’re feeling down about being single, we know it can be tough to see your friends and family moving forward in their own relationships.  Stop there - because you aren't feeling great.  Just because a couple look totally into each other, doesn't mean they are so don't judge and don't compare.

29. Date Yourself - we're serious!

Image source Metro UKConsider this a time when you get to date yourself and be your own partner.  You can give yourself all the love you would expect from your significant other and you can buy yourself a bunch of flowers. This isn't a game and will show you how you should be treated.

30. Remember You Won't Be Single For Ever - there's a lid for every pot

Image source PetaIf you want to get into a relationship in the future, then you are likely to do so but they are not all a bed of roses.  You have to make sacrifices to please others and there are always ups and downs in partnerships.  However, if this is still what you want, mix with different groups of people and the one for you could well be waiting.

31. Try Different Books - you'll discover new things

Image Source: knowyourmeme.comWe know that reading is great escapism, but it's also a great chance to learn new things. So, just like you're going out of your comfort zone in real life, do the same with your reading. You might just learn something new about yourself, and bring a new perspective into your life.

32. Be More Selective About Your Friends - you need people there who know you

Image Source: PinterestYou might be thinking: now isn't the time to sacrifice friends! I need them! But have a think: do they really make you happy? Now is the time to rethink some of those friendships you've had for years and whether they're actually serving you now. Remember, you can always go out and meet new people.

34. Put Yourself First - it's all about you

Image Source: selfcaresundaylove.comIt's not selfish to put yourself first! Us singles have to do what we can to stay motivated, and if that means ignoring everyone and spending a day in your dressing gown watching TV, do it. Nobody's going to judge you but yourself - and we've already covered accepting yourself for

35. Update Your Wardrobe - dress like the person you want to be

Image Source: independent.ieConfidence comes from the inside, true. But we all know how uplifting a new outfit can be, especially when you're not feeling your best or most loveable. So, if you haven't already, now is the time to update that wardrobe. What have you always wanted to wear but never thought it was 'you'? Try it!

36. Friend Zone Everybody - romance is not on your mind

Image Source: 9gag.comYep, you read that right. It's time to get the friend zone manual out! If you're ready to embrace the single life, then it'll help if you've friend-zoned all of your friends - just in case. You don't need romance getting in the way of your best single life.

37. Embrace Wedding Season - there's fun to be had

 Image Source: herecomestheguide.comI know - wedding season is traditionally seen as hell for single people. All that talk of love, lots of couples, being the loner at the table... It sounds terrible. But it can also be incredibly fun. Embrace your single life - dance your heart out, eat everything, try every drink, and get chatting to people.

38. Do Some Self-Therapy - you need it

Image Source: ChantyI'm not suggesting that everyone is single needs therapy - I'm just saying that applying some therapeutic actions to your life right now might do you good. One of the most basic is: to remember that your thoughts aren't facts. They only have sway over you if you let them.

39. Forget About Past Relationships - even if they still hurt

Image Source: Favim.comIt can be easy to delve into those past relationships now that you've got space and time away from them. What went wrong? Why did we break up? But that's not helpful for you right now. Even if they were traumatising, try to turn your back on past relationships and focus on how you're turning your life around for the future.

40. Try Dating Apps - but just for fun

Image Source: tumblr.comDating yourself is the most important thing right now. Focus on you, and everything around you will work itself out. But... dating apps can be fun. You'll find some excitement in chatting to new people, and even if you're not ready for anything, you might get some fun dates out of it.

41. Forget About Finding The One - they might not exist

Image Source: pinimg.comThe sooner you let go of idealistic notions about 'the one' or 'soulmates', the sooner you'll be happy just seeing how things go. Don't put pressure on people you meet (remember, you're meant to be friend-zoning everyone!) and just go with the flow. If things are meant to be, they'll happen without you putting pressure on it.

42. Don't Put Yourself on a Pedestal - you don't have to change

Image Source: twimg.comAfter a rough breakup, it's easy to think that you won't find anyone right for you unless you change. Banish that thought from your brain - you don't need to start criticising every little thing about yourself. Get yourself down from that pedestal and start seeing yourself for exactly who you are.

43. Talk To People - your friends are there for you

Image Source: Favim.comIf you're really going through a bad time, it's really important that you talk to people. Baring your heart after a breakup might seem like the last thing you want to do, but your friends are there for you and will help you through your emotions. It might even make you feel closer to your friends.

44. Talk About Your Relationships - it might be fun

Image Source: urbanmatter.comAs well as talking about your feelings with your friends, it can also be fun to reminisce about past (and even present) relationships with everyone. What's the most ridiculous thing that your ex ever did? What incredibly annoying personality trait used to annoy the hell out of you? Speaking about your relationships can help you get over them, and start to laugh again.

45. Change Your Mindset - it'll make dating easier

Image Source: tumblr.comIt's easy to consider your single life as something that you have to work extra hard to get out of. But that's not the case! You shouldn't go into dating with the goal of simply "not to be alone". See getting a partner as an extra in your life, not your sole reason for existing.

46. Identify Your Negative Patterns - it'll help you

Image Source: tumblr.comWe're back in therapy with this point. The time that you're single is a good chance to stop, step back, and understand some of your negative thinking. Do you think you'll be single forever? Why is that? Identify your negative thoughts, write them down, and they'll be less likely to reappear.

47. Start Saving - for your future goals

Image Source: tumblr.comWhile you're probably off having the time of your life alone and with your friends (including travelling, attending parties, and generally enjoying yourself), this is also a good time to start saving for your future. You don't need a partner to buy a house! Or get a new car! Or save for the holiday of your dreams! Start now, and you'll be one step closer.

48. Change Your Routine - start a new tradition

Image Source: pinimg.comYou might be feeling stuck in a rut after your breakup - which makes this the perfect time to switch up your routine. This could include starting a new annual tradition with your friends, getting up earlier, implementing a new nighttime skincare regime, or starting every day by journalling for 10 minutes.

49. Don't Settle - and be patient

Image Source: pinimg.comIf you're feeling really down, it's probably tempting to get back on the dating wagon. But there's a risk here that you'll settle for anyone, just so you're not alone anymore. Instead, try the other tips on this list (focus on yourself, try not to rebound), and don't just go for the first person that comes around that gives you attention.

50. Get a Pet - they deserve your love

Image Source: iheartdogs.comI know we said that you have to learn to love yourself before you love anyone else - but animals are so cute! And what's the harm in practising empathy and care and learning to love an adorable little creature? It'll certainly distract you from dating, and be a good talking point on any future dates.

51. Revisit Your Favourite Places - it'll remind you what makes you happy

Image Source: RedditThere's something to be said for travelling to new places - it'll take you out of your comfort zone and remind you that you're strong and capable. But when you're first struggling with your breakup and loneliness, it can also be helpful to revisit some of your favourite places - perhaps places you visited with your ex. Make new memories there to replace the ones you had.

52. Connect With Your Family - you may have neglected them

Image Source: tumblr.comIt's easy to forget about family when we're trying to build friendships and get over people. But they're also there for you, and if you're on good terms with them, it might help you to spend time reconnecting with your family while you're single. Having those strong relationships there will help you in the future.

53. Separate Your Thoughts - and get your ex out of your brain

Image Source: buzzfeed.comIt's easy to think in terms of "we" when you're part of a couple. You start to forget that you can make decisions on your own without discussing them with someone you're close to. So, now you're alone, spend some time dissecting your brain and getting rid of your ex's voice in your head.

54. Treat Yourself - how you'd like to be treated by someone

Image Source: The Asian AgeThis might sound corny, but aside from taking yourself out on dates, you should also start to treat yourself every day like you'd expect your partner to treat you. This exercise will give you a good idea of what you're looking for in a potential partner, but it's also a good way of instilling some self-love.

55. Learn to Grieve - it might help

Image Source: PinterestThis one is a little morbid, but trust us, it will help. After a breakup, you might feel some of the tell-tale signs of grief as you mourn the loss of your life together and the future you had envisaged. Don't force those feelings away - spend time with them and learn how to grieve that in your own way.

56. Think About What Makes You Miserable - really

Image Source: RedditA lot of these hacks focus on finding what makes you happy - and that's really important. But it's equally crucial to think about what makes you miserable, whether that's in life in general, in your friends, family, or future partner. Then, try to avoid repeating these behaviours and patterns.

57. Get Off Facebook - it's probably making you sad

Image Source: Digital Mom BlogGetting depressed seeing all those life updates from school acquaintances and family? Sick of engagements? Then get yourself off Facebook! Disconnecting from this social media, in particular, will help you focus on your own life and happiness, and you really don't need to know what's going on with everyone anyway.

58. Reconnect with Your Childhood Self - even if they're cringe

Image Source: TwitterWhat was your biggest goal when you were a teen? What made you happy as a kid? Now that you're focusing on yourself and your new goals for the future, it can help to think about your childhood and what gave you joy back then. It could give you tips about where to focus your energy now.

59. Start a Side Hustle - and start saving

Image Source: davissuneps.comA side hustle is a great idea for more than one reason. You'll be pouring your energy into something that you enjoy, spending time with yourself, and making money out of it. What could be better? Side hustles are a great way to prioritise your own happiness right now, and could lead to even better career opportunities for you.

60. Surrender to Singlehood - it might be what's best for you

Image Source: Pinterestif you're still sad and worried after reading all these tips, then it might actually be time to surrender to the idea that you might be alone forever. But that's not necessarily a bad thing! Remember, you can prioritise your own happiness - and having a partner is no guarantee that you'll be happy forever.