1. Set Routines - you'll save so much time

Image source /RedditStructure provides kids with a sense of security and a schedule allows single moms to plan ahead, thus maximizing their time. Scheduling your meals and your child’s bedtime at exactly the same time every day should make life easier for you. Once you have established that, you can then start slotting in other activities.

2. Do Some Clever Multi-Tasking - you'll be delighted with the results

Image source / RedditIf you’re fed up of spending your evenings catching up on household chores, look at ways you can multitask during the day, so it works for you.  As an example, you can finish folding laundry while you are keeping your child entertained.  Maybe try playing a matching game with all the socks or use the clothes to test your child on colors.

3. Synchronize Your Work Schedule - less stress

Image source / WOW ParentingOne of the most common single parent challenges must surely be finding ways to juggle work along with family responsibilities.  Some moms need to accommodate drop-offs and pick-ups into their work timetable so try looking for a position that can give you the flexibility you need to take care of your child.  Working part of the time from home could be a great asset.

4. Don’t Spoil Your Child Out Of Guilt - not beneficial in the long run

Image source / Verywell FamilyMany single parents feel the need to make up for things they think their child is missing out on, like their child not receiving as much attention as mon would like to give.  This can lead to spoiling the young one, out of guilt.  Try avoid doing this as it won't be beneficial in the future.

5. Prioritize What's Important - don't be hard on yourself

Image source /RedditKeeping a home in order, unfortunately, doesn't come instantly or easily.  Some single parents struggle with the pressure of maintaining a perfect living space.  In order to avoid feeling overwhelmed with everything you need to do, prioritize tasks and let go of the things that aren't urgent and could wait another day or so.

6. Invest In A Qualified Babysitter - for peace of mind

Image source / ParentsIf you’re in a situation where you require regular childcare, it’s usually worth spending a little more on a qualified babysitter rather than relying on family and friends.  Try not to get into the habit of allowing older kids to watch the younger ones.  A professional can provide a stimulating and safe environment which is what you obviously need.

7. Resenting Your Ex? - go for a run!

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Resentment involving your ex is a huge waste of time and can end up escalating.  Channel your feelings into physical exercise or be the bigger person and bake something for your kids to take with them when they are visiting your ex partner.  If your anger is deep rooted, see a therapist and get yourself well, for your kids' sake.

8. Find a Community To Support You - it can be priceless

Image source / Lafayette MomEven though you’re a single parent, don't fall into the trap of believing you are completely alone in all of this, apart from your family, friends and neighbors,  There are support groups for single parents, religious groups and other parents at your child’s school for carpooling opportunities.

9. Spend More Time With Your Child - they will appreciate the affection

Image source / RedditPoint out something your child did well and remember to praise them for it.  It will go a long way.  By playing with your child, you'll be amazed at how much you learn about their personality.  Reading with your child goes a long way towards discovering their thoughts and feelings.

10. Communicate Clear Limits - to enforce rules

Image source / Parenting For BrainHaving a clear set of enforced rules and being consistent with them, helps your child learn self-control and responsibility.  Children as young as two can understand and follow simple rules. Take the time to explain the house rules to your child and let them know their limits.

11. Find Inspiration To Keep Going - there's strong people out there

Image source / RedditSingle parenting is challenging, and it’s tough to figure out how to be the best single mother you can be.  Find comfort in knowing there are many great examples of successful single parents who have made amazing contributions or raised exceptional.  Look at former Presidents Obama and Clinton who were both products of single parent households.

12. Surround Your Child With Strong Male Role Models - really important

Image source / RedditJust because dad isn’t around, your child does not have to miss out on having strong male role models. Identify a male family member or friend who you have a strong connection with and give your child the opportunity to bond with him. It could be your own father, brother, uncle or a very good friend.

13. Stay Calm And Positive - helps you stay patient

Image source / PsychologyWhen your child is young, it’s important to manage your expectations and to give them tasks and responsibilities appropriate for their age. It will probably be challenging to keep your temper as you don't have a partner in the home to share responsibility.   This is why it is important to understand your own trigger and develop strategies to keep calm.  Yelling won't get you very far.

14. Empower Yourself To Become A Better Mom - you can do it!

Image source / TimeA common problem that single moms have to deal with is compensating for the absence of a father. No matter how hard you try, you should accept it’s beyond your control. Instead, focus on your capabilities as a parent and spend your time and energy thinking about what you can offer your child.  This is far more empowering than obsessing about the other parent’s issues.

15. Make Time for Self-Care - helps you feel good about yourself

Image source / GellifiQueIn order to do the bet you can, as a single mom, be sure to take care of yourself. Regular exercise, a healthy diet and a decent amount of sleep can really make a very positive impact on your life. It’s also good to schedule a bit of kid-free time and do something you  enjoy, a manicure, some retail therapy, anything!

16. Practice A Laid Back Approach - for more quality time

Image source / NBC NewsIf you find yourself always racing against time, it’s not about comparing yourself to other moms, which is very unhealthy anyway.  It's how you constantly compete with yourself.  If you haven't ticked everything off on your 'to do' list', let them wait and spend time with your child. Try a more laid back approach and ease off the pressure that you’re feeling.  Put quality time with your child first.

17. Be Honest With Your Kids - don't be afraid to say 'no'

Image source / redditWhat may be a reasonable request from your kids one day can be a definite no-go on another. Your time and resources are not endless and instead of hiding your frustration, be totally honest.  Kids can be capable of being reasonable and rational they are treated in a mature manner.  They may even learn to follow your example!

18. Create Rituals - makes it so much easier

Image source /Over 40 And A Mum To OneDifferent sorts of rituals have been shown to reduce anxiety and grief, as well as boosting confidence in single parent situations.  Regardless of your relationship status, simple rituals such as sitting down at the dinner table a few nights a week or reading a story before bed, can help both you and your kids feel grounded.

19. Take Care Of Your Health - you need to carry on doing a great job

Image source / RedditWhen you are the sole provider for the household, your health and wellness need to take center stage.  Most single parents will put the kids’ medical appointments first, but it's important for you to stay healthy.  As tricky as it is to find the time for check ups, it's critical as preventative care is a whole lot easier than dealing with an illness.

20. Avoid Food Shopping With Your Kids - too stressful

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Food shopping with your kids can be a long, drawn out experience.  Tantrums in young kids and sulking with older children, all contribute to mom wishing she was back home, putting the groceries away.  Arrange, in advance, when you will be paying a visit to Walmart and do it alone.  .

21. Get Those Cashback Offers - and coupon apps

Image source / Search Engine LandIf you've heard of 'Ibotta', make sure you, especially as a single mom, sign up for it.  You can save money on everyday items, as much as $200 in 6 months. Every bit helps when money is tight and there is little room for treats for your kids.  Once you sign up to one app, others may contact you with further discount codes.

22. Pick A Parenting Style - and stick to it

Image source / RedditMany parents jump right into parenting and quite often feel unprepared.  It can help if you research different parenting styles, like positive discipline and look into which ones might work for your own family.  Depending on the personalities of yourself and your children, some methods could work better than others.  Which ever you choose, stick to it. .

23. Declutter Your Home - only keep what you use

Image source / RedditFor a less stressful family life, an organized house is essential. When there are toys everywhere, piles of laundry in every room and thousands of bits and bobs on every surface, your brain is working overtime.  Decluttering can be done gradually and it will be so worth it.

24. Rotate Toys - your kids won't mind

Image source / My Bored ToddlerIf your home has toys everywhere, spilling into different rooms in the home, then it's time to rotate them.  Place a basket of toys in the main living area that your children can play with and each week, rotate which toys you place in that basket.  Maybe blocks and puzzles are put out together and cars and dinosaurs on another week.

25. Forget About Dinner - no need to be a slave to the cooker every evening

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We certainly aren't telling you to starve your kids but it does no harm for a simple alternative a couple of nights a week.  It will save you time and possibly money if you do frozen pizza and get the kids to add their favorite toppings or, alternatively, melted tuna and cheese paninis.  You'll feel more relaxed, not being tied to the cooker!

26. Vent - it has to be done sometimes

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Everyone needs to vent at some stage and single moms have every reason to do so.  If you don’t have kid-free time, invite a friend over for coffee and let it all out to them.  It will allow you to get everything off your chest and more importantly, you'll feel better so be more able to deal with your children.

27. Forget Being Perfect - it doesn't exist

Image source / Bernard Young PoetRegardless of whether you're a single parent or part of a two parent family, there’s no such thing as perfect.  Putting less pressure on yourself will help reduce the stress that both you and your kids feel.  Lean on your support system and structure, and give yourself a break. You’ve got this!

28.  There Is 'Clean Enough' - don't drive yourself crazy

Image source / RedditAn important lessons to learn as a single mom with young kids is that there is such a thing as 'clean enough'.  As long as the home is mainly germ free, then dusting and vacuuming can be put off.  Once you've  that decision, you will feel more relaxed and your kids will pick up on this - so good all round.

29. You Can Cope As A Single Mom - because you have to

Image source / RedditWhen somebody asks a single mom how she does it, the real answer is that she has no choice and has to get on with it.  It's not plain sailing, that's for sure and you learn from your mistakes but women are tough and make great single parents, even if it's not out of choice.

30. Celebrate Because You Deserve It - in your kids' eyes, you're a star!

Image source / InsiderWhenever your child accomplishes something, be sure to celebrate it.  Let your child know just how proud you are of their progress.  Don't stop there - be proud of yourself as well!  Any successes your child experiences is proof of how well you are doing as a mom so celebrate that all your hard work is paying off.