Body Language Signs He Is Attracted To Someone
By Joy Boyd
2 years ago
1. You can tell a lot by a man's body language
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Body language holds many subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs of attraction and interest. Some of the signs that men display you may not even realize unless you're really looking for them. So if you or your friend is trying to figure out if he's into you, watch out for these signals!2. He will stand close to you
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When a man is interested in someone, there will be an attempt to stand physically closer to that person. They might do something as simple as choosing to sit next to you. You may find them leaning in or lightly making contact with you. This shows a comfortability and attraction.3. His torso will be turned open towards you
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If you're looking for a sign of interest, look at if he turns himself towards you when you're talking. If he opens up his torso to face you vs turning to close you off, you'll get a pretty clear sign of where he's at! If he's REALLY interested, he might position himself where it would make it more difficult for other people to interrupt his conversation with you.4. He will preen himself... yes, like a bird
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Men preen themselves to be their most attractive, especially when they're around someone they like! This could be anything from unbuttoning the top button of his shirt or adjusting his jacket. It could also be shown through fixing their hair and making sure everything's in place. If you walk past a mirror and he glances at himself, he's probably making sure he looks okay for you!5. Check out his pupils
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Without being a weirdo, keep an eye on his pupils. If they dilate, then his body is signaling that he's aroused and interested. If they constrict, then you're out of luck because this happens when someone finds something unattractive, whether it be food, music, or other people.6. You can also look for this in his eyes
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If a man is attracted to someone, his eyes will likely perk up or light up as soon as they see the person they like, even if they're tired. There is almost a sparkle in their eye when they look at the person, regardless of the setting. This is something that will happen almost automatically, even if they cover it up quickly, it's likely something you'll be able to notice if you're paying attention.7. His nostrils will flare
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Your nostrils flare when you're trying to take in a greater amount of oxygen. It's common when your body is about to go into fight mode, but it also happens during arousal or attraction. You may notice a widening of the nose because of excitement and anticipation. It will also increase his intake of your pheromones.8. He'll tinker with his drink
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If you meet a guy at a bar and the conversation is flowing, you may see him circling the rim of the glass with his finger. This is a subtle indicator that he wants to touch you or be close to you and is transferring that energy to the object in front of him. If you're also interested, you can mirror his body language.9. Speaking of mirroring body language...
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When a guy mirrors your body language, it's a sign that they find you interesting and want to build trust and a rapport with you. Try crossing your arms and see if he crosses his too. Or if you're standing and place a hand on your hip, does he follow suit? It's a good indicator about his attraction towards you!10. He goes out of his way to touch you
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NOT in an inappropriate way! But if you want to see if a guy likes you, lightly touch his arm or hand and see how he reacts. If he's into you, his body language will almost automatically respond with a touch back. If he's attracted to you, he may engage in this without you even touching him first. He wants to close the distance between you.11. He will subtly show that he's fertile!
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Did you know that even if you're not aware, a man's body language is often connected to sexual excitement and attraction, due to biological fertility? For a man, this may display as standing up tall and proud when talking to someone he's attracted to, or a more feminine expression of tilting the head to release more pheromones.12. His toes will be pointed towards you
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Just like in the show New Girl, when Jess is trying to see if Nick likes her and he always stands with his toes pointed towards her. This is a real thing! Men point their toes towards whatever or whoever they're most interested in. If there's no interest, their toes will typically point towards the door or at an outward angle. The more you know!13. Licking of the lips
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If a man finds you attractive, there is a part of him that will likely be nervous around you. Because of this, it can activate the saliva glands OR lead to dry mouth. Either of these will make a man lick his lips more. It could also be his way of drawing your attention to his mouth.14. He will flex his muscles
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Did you know that men's muscles flex when they're attracted to someone? You'll likely notice them straightening out their back to increase the size of their chest. They will keep their shoulders rolled back to show off a V-shaped body and tighten their forearms and upper arm muscles. While this sounds very obvious, the movements are actually quite subtle, so pay attention!15. You may notice that he's blushing
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While some body language may be intentional or even controllable if he's trying to contain it, there are some things that a man just can't control from a physiological standpoint. For instance, if a man is experiencing attraction, you may notice that there's a rush of blood to the face, which could result in blushing.16. He gives you his full attention
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Another indicator of attraction is when a man gives you his full attention. This is his way of showing he cares about what you have to say, and he will genuinely listen to you when you talk. He will ask follow up questions and remember the details that you tell him down the road.17. He will make eye contact
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Next time you're out with your friends, be sure to look at the men around you. If someone is attracted to you, they will try to make eye contact with you. This is something that shows they want to start a conversation or show availability and willingness to talk. If you see repeated attempts of eye contact from the same person, then you're in! Their mouth, eyes, and face should be gentle... they should NOT look like a serial killer!18. He stands with his hands on his hips
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As we've discussed, a man will try to display himself when he's attracted by standing up straighter and broadening his shoulders. He will also potentially take a power stance which his feet hip-width apart and his hands on his hips. This is a way to subconsciously draw attention to his crotch. But this doesn't mean you have to look!19. He will smile a LOT
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While he may try to hide it, if a guy is attracted to you, his natural reflex will be to smile. Smiling is how men show that they're available and engaged in the conversation with you, or they want to be! Smiling makes you more attractive and inviting to someone, so be sure to flash one back if you want to!20. His face will become more expressive
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Women's faces are typically more expressive than a man's. However, a man who's attracted to someone will show more facial expressions. There are small things like the movement of his face around his eyes and the subtle but genuine smile crossing his face. Studies show that men's facial expressiveness is an attraction indicator for women.21. He moves to protect you
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If a guy is into you, he might do an actual material gesture like giving you his coat, but he will also position his body in a way to protect you. Whether it means turning so others don't have access to your conversation or moving himself to the side of the sidewalk closest to the street, he will move his body in a way to make you feel safe.22. This specific eye movement is a give away
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Apparently men say a LOT with their eyes. Do you know what the eye dip moment is? You've probably seen it happen even if you're not aware of it. When a guy is interested, his eyes will dip as if he's taking you all in. As mentioned, they will make eye contact, but it will be accompanied by the occasional dip. Studies say that men gaze from face to breasts to midsection when they're attracted.23. The way he moves his hips is a sign
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Subtle hip motions can indicate a sign of interest. It means that he feels at ease with you and could show romantic attraction. His body chemistry is pulling him towards yours. He may also lightly touch your hips to signal attraction. If you're moving through a crowd, and he touches your hips to guide you, it's a pretty clear sign he's attracted.24. His heart will beat faster
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This one may be hard to notice, but a bodily response to attraction is a rapid heartbeat. Of course, you can't take a guy's pulse on a date, but it's often also accompanied by slightly elevated breathing and warmer palms. So keep an eye out for these subtle things and make your move!25. The intonation of his voice will change
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When a man is psychologically aroused and attracted to someone, it will be shown in their voice. You may notice a change to a more positive or excited intonation. His voice will sound more expressive. If they're truly excited and trying to play it cool, you may notice an intentional deepening of the voice, trying to sound more masculine and collected.26. His body language will be open towards you
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If someone's attracted to you, then he will not be crossing his arms or putting a barrier between the two of you. He won't turn his torso away from you, but instead he'll open his posture to you, keeping his forehead pointed towards yours with uncrossed arms.27. Check out his eyebrows
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We know that a man's facial expressions might change when he's attracted. One of the most noticeable will be a quick raise of the eyebrows. This would happen within the first 1 or 2 seconds when he sees you, and it will be quick, so keep an eye out! It's an automatic response to attraction that he might not notice he's doing or be able to control!28. He will try to make you laugh
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When a guy is trying to get your attention, he might do so by trying to get you to laugh. It's said that this ability to make someone laugh is actually a dominant trait. So if he's cracking a lot of jokes, it could be a sign of flirtation. Laughing releases dopamine, which means, you will find him more attractive if he's successful!29. Did you know movements might slow down?
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It's interesting to learn that moving slowly or deliberately is actually a sign of attraction. It's said that these deliberate movements and taking your time displays confidence. If a guy is making jerky movements around you, it can indicate that he's nervous. This could also mean that he's attracted, but it's really dependent on his personality!30. He will subtly part his lips
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When a man is trying to draw your attention to his lips, he will keep them slightly open. He may part his lips when he first makes eye contact with you. This is his body language telling you that you've caught his attention. Men often also do this right before they're ready to go in for a kiss.31. Signs he's attracted to someone else: he's suddenly giving them A LOT of attention
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You might have suddenly noticed he's disappeared when you went back into the room, only to see him outside chatting to the new neighbor for the 20th time that day. Or at a work party, you turn around for a second and he's gone to his colleague across the room. Is he suddenly giving someone else a lot of his time?32. He seems a bit twitchy
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Have you noticed he seems a bit more on edge, and especially if you mention a certain person's name he seems to get all defensive and twitchy? As though he has something to be nervous about? This could be because he's well aware of his crush and he feels paranoid about it.33. He won't let you see his phone!
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One thing is for certain - if your partner is making a huge effort to hide their phone, it's because there's obviously something to hide! Especially if he never had a problem with you seeing it before. We're not saying he's saved a number as 'CRUSH <3' but he could be messaging them, or searching their social media feed.34. He doesn't make as much eye contact with you
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One big sign of guilt is when a person avoids eye contact with you, so if you've noticed him doing this a lot lately, it could be because he genuinely feels bad about his attraction to someone else and he feels like if he looks you in the eye you'll somehow know about it.35. He's very distracted in public
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There may not be a specific other person that he's attracted to - he could just be scouting out anyone! So you might find if you grab lunch at an outside table in the street or you're getting a coffee, he's a little distracted because he's noticing all the attractive people around him!36. He'd likely ignore you if he spotted someone
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If there's a specific person he's attracted to, it's likely he'll pay you far less attention when they pop on the scene. If he sees them in a restaurant, he might stop listening to you halfway through your conversation so he can wave at them or try to get their attention!37. He keeps mentioning a certain someone a lot!
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There might be someone specific he's crushing on that he just can't help but gush about - maybe he doesn't even realize he has a crush on them, and he's just saying, 'Oh the new girl at work, she's great, you'd like her, she's so funny, she did this thing the other day where...'38. You've actually caught him checking people out
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You might have even caught him obviously checking someone out if he's the least subtle person in the world! There's a difference between glancing over someone and double taking to ogle them for the rest of the evening when you're out together trying to enjoy a drink.39. Or, checking out only one person over and over again!
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Of course, there could be one person in particular who you've noticed them checking out every time you see them - a waitress at your favorite bar, the receptionist at your local gym, or anyone you see regularly enough for you both to be aware of her. And he always has the biggest smile for them!40. He seems eager to go to the same place all the time
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And one huge indicator if there is one particular person he's always checking out or crushing on is if he purposefully wants to go to their place of work all the time, or the place you know that person is likely to be. If you suggest one place to eat, do they always say, 'Oh why don't we go to (X) instead?'!41. He seems distant with you
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If he's suddenly gone more distant with you and seems to be tapping out during your time together, it could be because he's thinking about his crush, or he's feeling bad about being attracted to someone else so he's sort of pulled away from you to alleviate that guilt!42. He gets more defensive
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When someone has a guilty conscience, they're bound to get more and more defensive. They may react defensively if you ask them what they're thinking about, where they've been or what they're up to this weekend - even if you didn't mean anything by it and it's just casual conversation!43. He's stopped inviting you to certain things
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When you first started dating, maybe he always invited you to his work Christmas parties or his social meetups with friends - but now, is he saying 'oh don't worry, it's fine if you don't go to the Christmas party this year' or 'we're not inviting partners anymore'. This could be because the person he's attracted to is there.44. He keeps asking about one of your friends
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It could also be that the person they're crushing on is one of your friends! If this is the case, they may be asking about them a suspicious amount all of a sudden, like asking if they're going to be there at a social event, or even giving you a nudge to invite them along!45. His routine has completely changed
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You might have always known them to keep a strict routine, or know where you stood with their daily tasks - like you always agreed to meet up and have lunch, or he'd pick you up at a certain time. Has their routine suddenly changed? Are they now making excuses for why they can't make plans with you?46. He's started being secretive
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It makes sense why he might have also gone all secretive if he's keeping a crush from you and feeling attraction to someone else. He might not want to hurt you, might not want you to find out, or he's just viewing it as something he needs to deal with in private.47. Your communication has taken a nosedive
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Open communication in a relationship is all about complete honesty and having nothing to hide - so if he's suddenly got a crush he's feeling bad about, of course your communication is going to take a nosedive! He might pull back and not want to share as much with you.48. He avoids going to certain places with you
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While it's possible he could always excitedly drag you to the same place because his crush is going to be there/works there, the opposite could also happen - he might not want you to know about his crush, or he's avoiding facing up to it, so he'll refuse to go to a certain place in a panic if he thinks they'll be there.49. He's started comparing you to people
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He might even be getting frustrated if he's realized he's attracted to someone else more than you, so he might be making little digs about how you measure up in comparison! He might make comments on your hair color, the way you dress, the things you do... anything that he's comparing with other people he's realized he finds attractive.50. Your gut is telling you so!
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Always trust your gut - because sometimes, you just know. You might not need to pay attention to any other signs telling you that he's attracted to someone else, because you just know deep down that something is going on with him. Never ignore that little feeling in your stomach!51. What to do if he's attracted to someone else: have an open dialogue about it
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Initiate a conversation where you express your concerns without accusations or blame. Use "I" statements to share your feelings and observations rather than making assumptions about your boyfriend's behavior. Approach the discussion with an open mind.52. Listen when he shares his feelings about it
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Actively listen to your boyfriend when he shares his feelings. Give him your full attention, maintain eye contact, and show empathy. Don't interrupt or try to immediately solve the issue; instead, focus on understanding his emotions and thoughts.53. Understand that attraction is natural
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Acknowledge that attraction to others is a natural human inclination and doesn't necessarily diminish the love or commitment in your relationship. It's essential to differentiate between attraction and acting upon it. Emphasize that what matters most is how each person handles these feelings.54. Respect boundaries
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Establishing boundaries is crucial in any relationship. Discuss and agree upon boundaries that are comfortable for both of you regarding interactions with others. These boundaries might involve communication, physical contact, or socializing.55. Focus on strengthening your connection
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Strengthen your emotional bond by engaging in activities that foster closeness. Spend quality time together doing things you both enjoy. Deepen your connection by sharing your thoughts, dreams, and aspirations. Invest in experiences that create lasting memories.56. Show appreciation for each other
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Regularly express gratitude and appreciation for each other. Acknowledge the efforts, qualities, and gestures that you value in your boyfriend. Encourage him to reciprocate by openly appreciating the qualities you bring to the relationship.57. Try to reignite the romance
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Take intentional steps to reignite the passion and romance in your relationship. Plan surprise dates, reminisce about special moments you've shared, or explore new activities together. Focus on recreating the excitement and joy that brought you closer in the first place.58. Strengthen your intimacy
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Strengthen emotional and physical intimacy by fostering open communication and affection. Engage in deeper conversations about your feelings, dreams, and fears. Physical intimacy, such as cuddling, hugging, or holding hands, can also enhance your emotional connection.59. Develop healthy conflict resolution
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Develop healthy conflict resolution skills. Practice empathetic listening, compromise, and finding solutions that satisfy both partners. Resolving conflicts constructively can strengthen your relationship's foundation.60. Prioritize quality time
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Prioritize quality time over quantity. Focus on being present and engaged during your time together, whether it's through shared activities, deep conversations, or simply being there for each other.61. Offer emotional support
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Offer emotional support to each other during challenging times. Create a safe space where both of you feel comfortable discussing vulnerabilities and seeking comfort from one another. It's about more than attraction, after all.62. Align your goals
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Align on shared goals and aspirations for the future. Discuss your visions individually and as a couple to ensure you're moving forward in a direction that satisfies both of you. It might be his eye is wandering if he feels distanced from you, and your goals.63. Make sure you have your own interests
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Cultivate individual interests and hobbies. Encourage each other's personal growth and autonomy. Having separate interests can strengthen the relationship by allowing each partner to grow independently.64. Reflect on your own feelings
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Continuously reflect on your own feelings, needs, and expectations within the relationship. Understanding your emotions can help you communicate more effectively and address concerns. Practice self-reflection.65. Manage your insecurities
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Address personal insecurities by understanding their roots and finding healthy ways to manage them. Whether through self-affirmation or seeking support, managing insecurities can positively impact your relationship dynamics.66. Be transparent
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Foster a culture of honesty and transparency. Encourage open communication about feelings, attractions, and concerns without fear of judgment or backlash. This means you won't be 'wondering' whether they're looking at someone else.67. Rebuild trust if it needs it
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If trust has been strained, work together to rebuild it. This involves consistent actions that align with your words, being reliable, and demonstrating commitment to the relationship. If the trust is broken, the idea of being attracted to other people is only going to get worse.68. Consider relationship counseling
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Consider professional counseling or therapy together. Seeking guidance from a trained therapist can provide valuable tools and insights to navigate challenges and strengthen your bond. If you're in it for the long haul, it's worth trying!69. Respect each other's boundaries
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Continuously respect and uphold the established boundaries in your relationship. Ensure that both partners feel comfortable and respected within these boundaries. This makes it more likely trust will be secured and insecurities easier to deal with.70. Embrace your differences
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Embrace each other's individuality and differences. Understanding and appreciating each other's unique traits can foster a deeper connection and appreciation for one another. These strategies aim to create a well-rounded approach to navigate challenges in relationships.71. Inject some fun into the relationship!
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Sometimes, the things that's missing in long lasting relationship is fun. The problem can really be that simple, life can get in the way and the mundane tasks of the daily grind can be the vampire of fun, And what attracts us to someone in the first place is usually the fun that we have with someone!72. Actually listen to each other's point
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If he's attracted to someone else then the likelihood is that you're feeling rejected right now. But what's important is to really express to one another how your feeling and hear them out. It could help both of you get back on track in regaining your attraction to one another.73. Set aside time for one another
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When you deliberately spend (intentional) time with someone, it shows them they're a top priority. Whether it's going on regular dates, having heart-to-heart talks, or doing things you both enjoy, this intentional time strengthens your bond. It's about being truly present in the moment!74. Take your relationship back to the beginning
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Think right back tot he early days, when the butterflies were still in your stomach and it was fun and light hearted. It might feel like it's a far cry from the present, so what you both need to do is to strip it back to how it was at the beginning when the attraction began,75. Be honest - even if it hurts to hear
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Honesty is the only way to make it work, It's about being real and upfront, even if it means acknowledging mistakes or talking about difficult topics. . But saying that, honesty can still be said in the correct way. It's not an excuse to be brutal and cruel, you can be honest and sensitive at the same time.76. Remind him what it was that attracted him to you initially
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He was obviously very attracted to you at one point. Maybe he still has that, but maybe he's lost it slightly as time has passed. It doesn't mean that it can't come back. You just have to remind him of what attracted him in the first place, perhaps you've lost a part of yourself in the process.77. Focus on your similarities
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If he's attracted to someone else then you need to start focusing on what the two of you have in common and finding your common ground, rather than focusing on the things that divide you both. What is it that you both love that unites you? Why are you compatible?78. Take a trip somewhere
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Trips or holidays remove us from every day life, from the routine of responsibility, jobs, and all of the mundane tasks that we have to do. When you're removed from stress it's the perfect time for romance to blossom, and for a spark to rekindle. Booking a romantic getaway could be the perfect attraction booster!79. Remind them that you'll never be second best!
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If he's attracted to someone else then you need to make it clear that you'll never be made to feel as though you are second best. Reminding someone that you'll never settle for being second best is like declaring your worth and setting a standard for respect (which in itself is attractive).80. Make a surprise romantic gesture
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Pulling off a surprise romantic gesture can add a little bit of spice into your relationship. It's about creating a moment that catches the other person off guard, leaving them feeling loved and cherished and reminding them of how attracted to you they are!81. Signs that his attraction is purely physical:
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It's also important to know not only when a guy is attracted to you, but when he's only attracted to your looks. Physical attraction is super important, but it's definitely not the be all and end all, and it's definitely not enough on its own. He needs to be attracted to ALL of you.81. You catch him checking you out a lot
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Who doesn't want to be checked out by a guy they're into, right? But, nobody wants to feel objectified and only appreciated for your looks. It is a clear sign that he finds you attractive and can't help but admire you, but, does he admire all of you?82. He comments on your choice of clothing
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We're not saying that if a guy comments on what you wear, he's only interested in you physically. But if some of the only comments he makes are about how you've dressed, it kinda seems that way. It suggests that he's checking you out and assessing your looks as his top priority.83. He never asks personal questions
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This is a big red flag right here. If he never asks you any personal questions then it simply means he has not interest in getting to know you, which means that his attraction is purely physical. Beyond your looks, he's not interested and he certainly doesn't want to know anything about your personal life.84. And doesn't know anything about your life
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If he doesn't know much about your life, it could be a sign that there's a lack of genuine interest or investment in building a deeper connection. Perhaps it could be an indicator of a more casual or superficial relationship, he's focused primarily on physical rather than emotional connection.85. He's more interested in touch, than talking!
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You can tell he's attracted to just your looks when a guy tries to initiate physical touch constantly, even when you're trying to have a serious conversation with them. While physical touch is important, an exclusive focus on it, without am interest in verbal communication, might suggest a more superficial connection.86. He first contacted you after seeing you first
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There's no saying that this is the wrong method. Many of us have done it. But, coupled with some of the other points, having someone contact you after merely seeing you or seeing a capture of you could suggest that they are only focused on your looks!87. The only compliments he gives are physical
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Physical compliments are great, but at the expense of any other kind of compliment it can actually leave you feeling unappreciated and objectified! When admiration and affirmations are limited to your looks, it suggests an oversight of your many other (brilliant) qualities!88. He only asks to see you for dinner or drinks
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You may be wondering what's wrong with dinner and drinks? And the answer is nothing. But with these kinds of dates, a lot of attention is placed upon physical appearance and touch. More thoughtful or personal dates on the other hand give a glimpse into you and your personality.89. He's freaked out when emotions are involved
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When emotions become part of the conversation, he becomes noticeably uneasy or even 'freaked out.' This could well be because he doesn't intend on the two of you becoming something serious. He's super attracted to you, but he may not want to get involved emotionally.90. There's a lack of effort outside of physically seeing one another
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When it comes to putting in effort, it may feel like the enthusiasm takes a backseat when you're not physically together which can make you wonder if the connection is purely physical on his part. His interest is mainly focused on the moments where you are both physically close.91. He'll text you late at night
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'Are you still up?' Sadly, the late night text is a common occurrence. But, more often than not it's based solely on physical attraction. This guy doesn't want to meet up at 3am to discuss the weather. He wants to hook up because he see's you in a physical way.92. He's only interested in short term plans
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The focus on short-term plans is linked to a preference for a more immediate and physical connection rather than a commitment to a longer-term, meaningful relationship. The emphasis on short-term arrangements suggests that the attraction is primarily rooted in the physical aspect of the connection!93. Outside of intimate moments there's not much eye contact
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Eye contact reveals a LOT. Eye contact is a powerful form of non-verbal communication that often conveys connection, interest, and emotional engagement. So, when it's not present outside of physical moments it's because the emotional attraction isn't there!94. He escalated physical intimacy very quickly!
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A guy who is only physically attracted to you will want to rush the physical intimacy. A guy who likes you for you, won't care how long it takes to become intimate and he certainly won't rush it! Rapid physical escalation can be thrilling, but the attraction may purely be lust.95. He wants to see you frequently, but not for long periods of time
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The desire to see each other frequently, yet for shorter durations, shows he's focusing on physical attraction rather than a deeper emotional connection. It could indicate that the interest lies in enjoying the immediate, tangible aspects of the relationship without necessarily delving into more intimate moments.96. He messages when he wants to see you, rather than arranging in advance
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This is almost another version of the late night messaging, because for all intents and purposes it amounts to the same thing: physical attraction only. Spontaneity may seem exciting, but it's as if the decision to meet is prompted by immediate desires rather than true intentions.97. When you try to talk, he kisses you
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Once or twice, this can be romantic. But if this happens a lot, it can feel like he's interrupting you and stopping you from talking because he isn't interested in what you have to say. It's a huge red flay saying 'I'm only interested in your looks and not what you have to say'.98. He's not interested in your achievements!
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If he's not interested in your achievements and only focuses on your looks, it suggests a surface-level attraction that centers primarily on physical appearance. When someone is genuinely attracted to you as a person, they appreciate your accomplishments as well as your physical appearance.99. He tries to make every encounter physical
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We all want to be appreciated for our looks AND our substance. It's not too much to ask! While a strong physical attraction might be driving this inclination, it does make you question how much he values your internal values rather than solely how you look.100. He notices a change of appearance, but not a change in your mood
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One way to feel appreciated and noticed is when somebody notices our small change in mannerisms and mood. It shows someone knows you and they care about you. On the other hand, if he's oblivious to this but tuned in to changes in your appearance then it's a warning sign!101. If you physically pull away, his mood changes
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If he's suddenly shifting in mood when you want some physical space, his intentions may be purely physical. It's essential to consider whether the relationship is primarily centered around the physical aspects or if there's a desire to explore and nurture a deeper emotional connection.102. He doesn't want a 'label'
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We all know what it means when a guy is avoiding labelling the 'situation': a commitment-phobe! His reluctance to assign a label to the relationship suggests a certain level of hesitation or desire to keep things undefined, which more often than not means purely casual and physical!103. He's physically available, and emotionally unavailable
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When someone is physically available but emotionally unavailable, it may be indicative of a connection rooted more in physical attraction than emotional engagement. The willingness to be physically present suggests a certain level of interest, but the lack of emotional openness implies a hesitancy to invest in a deeper, more meaningful relationship.104. He frequently makes comments about your body
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While compliments about physical appearance can be flattering, but an ongoing focus solely on the body might raise questions about the depth of the connection. It makes you think, does he see beyond the external? Are there acknowledgments of other aspects of who you are?105. And here are some signs he's attracted to your personality:
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Signs that someone is attracted to your personality go beyond the physical and often involve a deeper, emotional connection which is what we want to look for in a relationship! Here are some indications that their attraction extends beyond the surface:106. His eyes light up when you speak
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You can tell so much from a guy by the way he looks at her when she's speaking. If you see his eyes sparkle as you speak, he's interested in not only your physical, but also the real you. It's a heart-warming sign of attentiveness and a shared connection that goes beyond the superficial.107. He asks for you opinions
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Who do we ask to get an opinion? The people that we care about, because we value them. Asking for your opinions suggests a genuine interest in understanding your viewpoint, and it demonstrates a strong respect for your individual thoughts and ideas.108. He stumbles over his words when he's talking with you
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When he stumbles over his words while talking with you, it's a clear sign that you have an impact on him, making him a flustered during your conversations. This means that it's your words and personality that are attracting him to you and making him super nervous!109. He initiates deep conversations
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Only when a man is attracted to YOU, will he initiates deep and meaningful conversations to try and get to the bottom of who you are. This signifies a deep attraction, not just a fleeting attraction or lust that is based purely on your looks and physicality.110. He wants to get to know you more
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When he expresses a genuine desire to get to know you more, it indicates a strong interest in understanding the depth of who you are. This goes beyond surface-level interactions and suggests a curiosity about you and what makes you, you! He wants to delve deeper into your life and history!111. You feel appreciated for who you are
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Feeling appreciated for who you are is a fundamental aspect of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. When he makes you feel valued and acknowledged for your unique qualities, it creates a positive and affirming atmosphere. This appreciation extends beyond external factors and embraces your personality, quirks, and individuality.112. Emotional intimacy came first
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Romance can blossom in many different ways. But when emotional intimacy comes first, you know that he's not only interested in your looks! The emphasis on emotional connection can create a solid and enduring foundation for a relationship and genuine bond.113. He's opened up to you
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When he opens up to you, that's when you know that he's REALLY into you. He's looking way past surface level and he has serious feelings for you. This openness is a key component of building intimacy and deepening the connection between the two of you!114. He gets shy around you
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Shyness is a super endearing trait in a guy and it can be a sign of genuine admiration and attraction towards you. In these moments, he may feel a bit vulnerable or self-conscious, especially if he truly values your opinion or wants to make a positive impression.115. He compliments your values
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This type of compliment goes beyond surface-level aspects and indicates that he sees the inherent worth in your character and the principles you hold dear. It's a positive affirmation that he values not only your physical presence but also the core aspects of who you are as a person.116. He finds you funny
117. He arranges activity dates
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Activity dates are some of the best kinds of dates to do with your romantic interest. Doing something together means that you bond whilst having a laugh doing the same activity. It shows he's trying to connect with you, and branching out beyond traditional dinner-and-movie dates.118. He's affectionate through non physical and physical means
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Affection doesn't necessarily equate to physical touch. A guy can be affectionate through words or actions. It could be that he buys you a thoughtful gift or writes you a love note. Actions like this speak loud and clearly in terms of his good intentions!119. Plans are scheduled and not only spontaneous
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By making plans in advance, there's a clear effort to prioritize and ensure that quality time is set aside for shared experiences. Spontaneity is great, but when every plan is last minute it could mean that they are contacting you when it's convenient, rather than asking you because they want to spend time with you.120. He's happy to progress physical intimacy at your pace
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Having a guy who is happy to progress physical intimacy at your pace shows that he's not only attracted to how you look, but what's inside. He likes you for you, and he's happy to get to know you at whatever pace you are comfortable without rushing physical intimacy.What To Read Next
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