My Husband Joked He Wanted a ‘Hot’ Babysitter for Our Kids – So, I Decided to Give Him What He Wanted in a Way He’d Never Forget

My husband was all smiles when the new babysitter showed up — until he realized who was standing at the door. What he didn't know was that I had planned every second, and his little joke was about to backfire in the best way.

Hi, I'm Anna. I'm 32, and until recently, I thought my life was pretty normal. I live in a quiet suburb in Illinois with my husband, Jake, and our three-year-old twins, Olivia and Max. Life hasn't been perfect, but I've always done my best to hold everything together. At least, that's what I believed.

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Jake and I have been married for six years. We met back in college when I was studying early childhood education and he was buried in computer science projects. These days, he works in IT, earns a decent living, and follows the usual dad routine. He gets home around dinnertime, cracks a few jokes, gives the kids a quick hug, and then vanishes into his man cave for the rest of the evening.

Meanwhile, I've been a stay-at-home mom since the twins were born. I used to tell myself it was only temporary, just until they turned three. But anyone who has raised toddlers knows what it's really like. It's a constant mix of beauty, exhaustion, and nonstop chaos.

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Going back to work feels more like a distant fantasy, the kind you daydream about while scrubbing blueberry stains out of tiny socks late at night.

Jake clocks out of work at 5 p.m. sharp every day. He strolls into the house, ruffles Max's hair, says something like "Hey, sport," tosses his backpack on the couch, and disappears behind the door with the glowing blue light that practically screams "Do Not Disturb." That's his gaming room, the space he treats like his own private sanctuary.

As for me? I handle everything else. Cooking, cleaning, preschool applications, laundry, pediatrician visits, grocery runs, meal prepping, diaper blowouts, temper tantrums, and bedtime stories. I haven't peed alone since 2021.

And yet, somehow, I'm the one who "looks tired" or "needs to put more effort in." Meanwhile, Jake's the hero who's "exhausted from work."

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The shift started last month.

I remember the moment clearly. The twins were down for their nap, and I was folding what felt like the hundredth towel of the day when my phone buzzed. It was a text from Jake.

"Hey, I invited the guys over tonight. Just a chill beer night. Can you make something decent so I'm not embarrassed?"

That was it. No please. No heads-up. Just a barked-out request like I was his assistant, not his wife.

I stared at the screen for a long second and nearly fired back, "Make your own freaking dinner."

But instead, I took a breath. I decided, fine. Let him have his precious little "boys' night."

So, I roasted a whole chicken. Not the store-bought rotisserie kind, but a fully seasoned, oven-roasted one I made myself. I whipped up garlic mashed potatoes from scratch, prepared two salads (yes, two), and even set out chips and salsa like I was catering a neighborhood potluck. By the time the doorbell rang, the whole house smelled like Thanksgiving.

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When his friends arrived, including Mark, Brian, and the new guy from his office, Kyle, I smiled politely, greeted them, and then scooped up Max, who was in the middle of a tantrum. I took both kids upstairs to start their bedtime routine.

From the baby monitor in the kitchen, I could still hear their voices drifting in and out. Laughter, bottles clinking, loud back-and-forth about sports, and a couple of dumb jokes. I tuned it out until I heard my name.

"So," someone said, probably Brian, "is Anna going back to work soon? Are you guys thinking about getting help with the kids?"

There was a beat of silence. Then I heard Jake's voice, casual and loud.

"Man, I hope so. I'm tired of being the ONLY breadwinner here. Maybe we'll get a babysitter. Hopefully a HOT one, you know? I love aesthetics."

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Laughter erupted. The kind of laughter that hits your ears and burns your cheeks.

Jake laughed too.

I stood there with my hands still resting on the baby monitor, frozen. My chest tightened, and my face went hot. I wasn't angry. Not yet. I was just... stunned. And also humiliated. That kind of sting that creeps under your skin and just sits there.

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I didn't say a word. Not that night. Not the next morning either.

But his voice kept playing over and over in my head like some broken loop.

"Hopefully a hot one. I love aesthetics."

A few days later, while he was munching cereal at the kitchen counter, I leaned in and casually dropped the bait.

"Hey, dear," I said with a small smile. "I've been thinking... I feel like I'm ready to go back to work."

He looked up mid-bite, eyes wide. "Seriously?"

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I nodded. "Yeah. The kids are three now. It's time. I guess we should start looking for a babysitter, so the kids feel comfortable."

His entire face lit up.

"You're really okay with that?" he asked, already halfway excited.

"Oh yeah," I said, smoothing out a napkin. "It'll be good for me to start contributing financially again. And we'll finally get some help around here."

Jake practically bounced in his seat. "That's great! I'll help you find a babysitter for the twins. I know what to look for: someone responsible, experienced, and professional."

I gave him a soft look and sipped my coffee. "Of course. Professionalism is very important."

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And just like that, he was on it. For the next few days, Jake became suspiciously helpful. I'd find him scrolling on babysitting websites like it was a hobby. He kept texting me "options" throughout the day.

Every profile photo looked like it belonged on the front of a yoga magazine.

One woman's description literally read: "Certified yoga instructor with experience in holistic play and organic meal planning."

Jake sent it to me with a wink emoji and a message: "She seems qualified 😉."

I stared at my phone, blinked once, and typed, "Oh yes. She looks very... experienced."

He had no clue.

He kept throwing names at me, links, and screenshots like he was running a casting call.

That's when I knew it was time to put my plan in motion.

Last Thursday, while Jake was at work, I made a few calls. I found someone who checked every box he clearly wanted: beautiful, smart, and dependable.

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But there was one tiny twist he never saw coming.

By that afternoon, everything was set. I texted him while the twins were napping.

"Hey, love! I found someone great! I think you'll be happy. The babysitter is exactly your type. Exactly the one you were looking for."

His reply came instantly.

"Can't wait to meet her 😏. Only the best for our kids."

And I sat there, staring at his text with a tight smile on my lips, heart pounding just a little.

Because the babysitter was coming tomorrow.

And Jake had no idea what was really waiting for him.

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*****

Jake came home early that day. That was the first clue.

He never comes home early.

Not unless it's something important... or something he's looking forward to.

I was in the living room, folding a load of laundry with one hand while trying to keep Olivia from drawing on the walls with a marker in the other. The second I heard the garage door open an hour before his usual time, I knew exactly what he was up to.

Then came the scent. His cologne was strong and expensive, the kind he only wore for date nights or office parties. That was clue number two.

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I didn't even look up when he strolled in.

"Wow, you look... refreshed," I said, flicking a pair of Max's tiny socks into the laundry basket.

Jake chuckled, pretending to act casual. He ran a hand through his freshly styled hair. "Gotta make a good impression, right? So, when's she coming?"

I looked at the clock on the microwave. "Any minute now."

He adjusted the collar of his button-up. It wasn't his usual work shirt or a casual tee, but his one nice shirt, the deep blue one that makes his eyes pop. He even wore jeans that weren't sagging from two days of sitting in front of the PlayStation.

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Clue number three.

He was trying. Hard.

The doorbell rang.

I smiled, setting the laundry basket aside. "Oh, perfect timing. Ready to meet the new babysitter?"

Jake clapped his hands together once, like he was preparing to greet royalty. "Absolutely."

I opened the door with the kind of grace I'd been holding back for this exact moment.

​​And there stood Chris. He was tall, athletic, and clean-cut, with a warm smile. He wore a pressed polo and khakis and held a neat folder filled with printed references. He looked like someone straight out of a TV drama about wholesome dads who are good at pretty much everything and love rescuing puppies in their spare time.

"Hi!" he said cheerfully, offering his hand. "You must be Mr. Daniels. I'm Chris, the babysitter."

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I could hear the gears in Jake's brain grind to a halt.

He blinked, trying to process what was standing in front of him.

"Uh, hi?" Jake looked at me, then back at Chris. "Wait. You're the babysitter?"

Chris nodded without missing a beat. "Yep. CPR certified, bachelor's in child development, and I used to coach Little League. I'm really looking forward to working with your wife and kids."

Jake opened his mouth, but no words came out.

He glanced back at me again, his expression somewhere between lost and panicked.

"I thought... uh, I thought you said..."

I tilted my head and smiled. "Oh, honey, remember? You said you hoped for a hot babysitter. So I found one. I didn't realize you meant a woman."

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Chris, bless his sweet soul, just grinned. "Ah, thank you! I do get that a lot."

Jake's face went from pink to red in five seconds flat. His mouth twitched, but he couldn't find anything to say that didn't sound completely stupid.

"Well... uh, I'm sure you're great, man," he stammered, "but I don't think we really need..."

"Oh, but we do!" I interrupted, cheerful as ever. "You said it yourself. We need help. And he's exactly what we need. You don't mind, do you?"

Jake was stuck. I watched him try to claw his way out of the corner he'd put himself in, but there was no exit.

"No, no... of course not," he mumbled, shoulders stiff.

"That's wonderful!" I said, clapping my hands lightly. "Chris, can you start tomorrow? The kids nap around one, and I'd love to have some time to rest."

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"Absolutely," Chris said with a polite nod. "Looking forward to it."

We chatted for a few more minutes about logistics, schedules, and the kids' routines. Chris was a natural. He even asked thoughtful questions about Olivia's picky eating and Max's love for dinosaurs.

Jake stood there quietly, arms crossed, like someone had just stolen his favorite toy.

After Chris left, the silence in the house was thick.

Jake finally turned to me in the hallway. "You're kidding, right?"

"About what?"

He raised his eyebrows. "About hiring him. A guy? To babysit? Anna, what were you thinking?"

I crossed my arms and leaned against the wall. "Why not? He's professional, experienced, and hot. You said that's what you were looking for, didn't you?"

His jaw clenched. "That's not funny."

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I stepped closer and looked him dead in the eye. "Neither was what you said in front of your friends. Or how you treat me like a glorified maid in my own home."

Jake opened his mouth, then closed it again. He didn't have a comeback. He just muttered something about "double standards" and walked into the kitchen like a sulky teenager.

But the best part? Chris started the next day, and he was amazing.

The kids loved him immediately. Max latched onto his leg within five minutes. Olivia made him sit for a tea party and called him "Mr. Chris" like he was a cartoon character.

Chris didn't just play with them. He cleaned up after meals, read bedtime stories, and even fixed the squeaky cabinet hinge Jake had promised to repair for three months. Three whole months.

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I watched Jake that evening from the hallway. He sat on the couch with a book in his lap, eyes flicking over the top of the pages toward the playroom every two minutes.

When Chris finally left, Jake shut the book and looked up at me.

"So you're just going to keep him around?"

I smiled and leaned against the counter. "Well, until I find someone hotter."

Jake's mouth fell open for a second, but he said nothing.

He didn't speak to me for the rest of the night.

The next morning, I woke up to the smell of coffee and pancakes. Jake was in the kitchen, already dressed, packing Olivia's snack bag.

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By the end of the week, he was coming home earlier. Not just by five minutes, but a whole hour. He started asking the kids questions, building blanket forts, and giving baths. One night, I walked in to find him making dinner. Real dinner. Not frozen pizza.

I leaned on the doorframe, arms folded. "Who are you, and what have you done with my husband?"

Jake looked up with tired eyes and a sheepish grin. "I get it now," he said. "I was a world-class jerk. And I'm sorry."

There was a pause. He looked like he was expecting me to bite back, to rub it in. But I didn't.

I walked over, kissed his cheek, and said quietly, "I'm glad you're learning."

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We don't have a babysitter anymore. It's not that Chris wasn't perfect; he absolutely was. But after a few weeks, I realized we didn't actually need one.

What we really needed was for Jake to understand how much I had been carrying. I needed him to see how invisible I had started to feel, and how easy it is to take someone for granted when you believe they'll never leave, never change, and never push back.

So yes, my husband joked about wanting a hot babysitter. Now he knows exactly what that feels like. And trust me, he'll never make that joke again.

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Do you think I handled things well? What would you have done differently if you were in my shoes?