Signs He Is Too Good For You

1. He ALWAYS puts in more effort than you do

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Does he always put a LOT of effort into your relationship? He's the one who initiates dates, makes you feel special, and puts time into you. But when you think about it, you don't do half of these things. In fact, you expect him to make the effort that you ourselves do not put into the relationship.

2. He's fully committed to you and you are still unsure

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He's made it very clear that he's here for you and only for you. He's committed and he wants a future. He'd probably be ready to take the next step and you never even have to question that he's committed to building your future together. You on the other hand aren't even totally sure what you want for the future and you're not willing to make huge commitments.

3. He's always respectful to you, even when you don't reciprocate it

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This guy's truly a keeper. He's super respectful - which every boyfriend should be. But the thing is you can't say the same back. You're not always respectful to him or about him. If this is the case in your relationship then you've gotta question if this guy is too good for you.

4. You betray him when he's totally loyal

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You never even question or have any doubt at all that your boyfriend is fully loyal to you. You know he'd never hurt you like that or betray your trust. But you have. Perhaps it was a one time lapse in judgment, or maybe it's even a continued relationship with another man behind his back. Either way, he's too good for this!

5. He's financially stable and responsible with money, unlike you

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You've got no savings to your name, and when you do get some money you tend to blow it all at once on indulging yourself. He's got his life together and has a regular income and puts aside regular savings for his future. You can't expect to continue the way you do just because he will support you.

6. He communicates openly whilst you struggle to tell him how you feel

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If you've got yourself a guy who openly communicates his feelings, you're on to a winner. But...you struggle to open up about your feelings and you find that you don't communicate well and he doesn't really know where he's at in terms of how you feel. Girl...he's too good for you!

7. He gives you constant reassurance and you give him none

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We all like reassurance in a relationship because it helps us feel safe and secure as well as loved and wanted! Who wouldn't love that? Especially when he does it without having to ask for it. Yet despite him doing this for you, you don't give him any reassurance.

8. He makes time for you even when he's busy, but you struggle to do the same

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Everyone's busy, everyone's got their own thing going on and it can be tough to make time. But the thing is, in a healthy relationship you have to. And he does that, but you don't. He's always the one having to make time for the relationship because you aren't willing to do the same back.

9. You always feel like a priority, even when you don't prioritize him

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Everyone wants to feel like their S.O.'s priority. You want to know that this relationship is at the top of their list. You love the fact that you know you are your partner's priority, but you don't make them yours and they know it. This is a sign that you're not good enough for him because relationships are or SHOULD be a two-way street.

10. He encourages your goals and you don't do the same

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He's your biggest cheerleader, he not only supports your goals and desires but he actively helps you achieve them. This is what a good boyfriend looks like. Can you say the same about him? Do you support and help him reach his goals? If not...you're probably not good enough for him.

11. He looks after himself health-wise when you have a lot of unhealthy habits

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A guy who looks after himself and his health is super important. It's nice to be with someone who actually takes care of themselves. Your man has a healthy lifestyle and he's physically fit. But you prefer a more indulgent/lazy lifestyle and you're not exactly in top physical health because of your lifestyle.

12. He's forgiving and you hold grudges

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Forgiveness is a very admirable trait because we all know how hard it is to forgive someone who has hurt us in some way. You've found a boyfriend who forgives you when you mess up, yet you can't do the same for him. While it's not good to forgive your partner for everything, everyone messes up in little ways from time to time and it's better not to hold a grudge but to move on stronger than ever.

13. He's super generous when you are quite selfish

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You're super selfish, you never put him first or think about him or what he'd like you always bas everything on what's best for YOU. And while it's good to put ourselves first, you are very selfish in your relationship when he gives so much to you in terms of kindness and energy.

14. He does a lot for you and you don't give much back

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We all love to feel like we've been swept off our feet. It's totally natural to relish being treated like his queen. But you can't expect him to do it all of the time with nothing in return. If it makes you feel good, then it would also make him feel good to return the favor now and then.

15. He's got a positive outlook on life and you can be quite negative

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You're more pessimistic or glass half full or as you like to phrase it 'I'm just more realistic'. He's the opposite because he has a very upbeat outlook on life which is a completely admirable quality that makes him feel good to be around. Your energy may sometimes be slightly draining.

16. He's romantic and surprises you but you rarely show any kind of gesture

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If your man is surprising you with roses, leaving you cute notes, booking dinner reservations - and he's also a really good guy - then you've found yourself the perfect man. But if you're doing none of these back, then maybe he's actually TOO good for you!

17. He's very affectionate but you struggle with intimacy

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Affection and intimacy are important in a relationship because it makes you feel close to your partner and they can also help you feel secure and confident in both your relationship and yourself. Is it always your partner initiating affection? Is he always the one to give you a hug or a kiss? Maybe you even reject him sometimes...

18. He always includes you in his life, but you keep him separate

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When you're in a relationship, fully in it, you incorporate them into all aspects of your life. He's included you in his family, and his friend group and he even lets you into his work like. But, you keep him very much separated which can really damage his self worth, as though you are ashamed or do not see this going anywhere in the future.

19. He's made plans to incorporate you into his future, but you've still not done the same

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You know exactly where you stand in terms of your partners future, you know exactly how you've been considered in all of his futures plans. You've not done the same for him. You have never laid out the future plan and even expressed an intention that he will be a part of it.

20. He keeps you updated when he's away from you, whereas you don't keep in touch

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When your partner goes away somewhere, or even if they're out with the boys or out on a girls night it's nice to hear from them to know what you're up to. Now this doesn't mean checking in and having to keep tabs on where someone is and what they're doing. But a little text saying 'hey babe, out with the guys I'll be home around 1 AM' is something that we'd all like to hear. They do it for you but you don't do it back!

21. You expect him to make all of the financial contributions

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There are many different dynamics to relationship and many different ways to support one another. But, you're with your boyfriend and you have decided to let them support you. Not because you have commitments such as children, but because you've chosen to have a certain kind of lifestyle and you want your boyfriend to pay for it all without making any contribution yourself.

22. He'd do anything for you, but you know you wouldn't do it back

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That feeling that your partner loves you so much and would do anything for you is an amazing feeling, but for you not to reciprocate this feeling can leave your partner feeling rejected and like you do not value them as much. You know that anything you need, your [partner would be right there by your side.

23. He does little things to help you but you don't return the favour

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It's the little things right? It's your partner washing your dishes that you've left because you're super tired, them getting your favorite cake from the store to cheer you up, or ironing your work shirt for you when you're too busy. They are doing this because they want to help you and they love you. But this should go both ways!

24. He's always up for new experiences whereas you are quite stuck in your ways

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He's super fun and always up for new experiences and adventures. There's nothing wrong with having a comfort zone and feeling uncomfortable doing new things, but when your partner tries new things for you it's only fair to reciprocate rather than putting no effort in back.

25. He's always compromising and you are totally stubborn

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Look, sometimes we want to get our own way and we'd rather not compromise. But relationships don't work like that. Your boyfriend can't be the one making all of the compromises for you, without you budging on any decision because you are too stubborn. If this is the case then girl...he's too good for you.

26. He's made all the sacrifices in the relationship for you

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In a relationship there usually has to be sacrifices because it's two people coming together with different lives. So at some points, there will be sacrifices to make. Yet this should be done equally. But you just expect your boyfriend to make ALL the sacrifices for you, without you having to make any for him whatsoever.

27. You take advantage of his kindness

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You've got a great boyfriend who showers you with love and kindness - and you completely take advantage of that. You have come to expect it and take it without appreciation and you do not give anything back in return. There's no two ways about it...he's too good for you.

28. He's totally trusting of you, even when you question his loyalty

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If your boyfriend is completely trustworthy and he never gives you any reason to question him, then doubting him and making him feel as though you don't trust him will make him feel unappreciated. He would never question you, because he wouldn't want you to feel like he doesn't trust you.

29. He has a lot of hobbies and you don't take part in anything

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It's good to have hobbies and interests outside of your relationship, as well as a part of your relationship. He has lots of interests and activities that he takes part in which helps somebody be a more well rounded and happy individual. Yet you don't really have any interests or hobbies of your own.

30. He makes an effort with your family and friends but you don't do the same for his

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Everyone comes as a package. And when we truly love someone, we not only accept them into our life but the people that come with them for example, friends and family. So, making an effort to embrace this part of your partner's life is so important. They do it wholeheartedly for you. But you selfishly fail to embrace their friends and family