Image source FreepikA girl is going to be put off if the guy swaps his personality when he's with his pals, compared to when he's with you. This shows he's either got something to prove or, worse case scenario, something to hide! If someone can't be themselves at all times, the lady is going to be back on Tinder!
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2. Lack Manners - they cost nothing!
Image source BBCIt's true that women are more self-sufficient and independent than they were years ago but that doesn't mean they want the man to open the door and walk through first, allowing it to possibly slam in their face. Females appreciate good manners like when he checks his date has put the key in the door and let herself in at home, safe and sound, before he drives off.
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3. Dressing Too Casually - it's embarrassing!
Women aren't saying men should be suited and booted at all times but being seen in public with a wrinkled shirt and old trackies or shorts in the winter, is not going to cut it in the relationship stakes. He needs to take pride in himself and be smart casual or similar, to prove he's not just damn lazy!
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4. Gym Crazy - too into themselves
Image source ViceWhen a guy sorts his social calendar and his dates around his gym routine and he refuses to budge, then the girl is on a hiding to nowhere. He obviously puts himself first and will continue to do so and he's also probably as vain as a diva. If he can't get his priorities right, there's going to be no females queuing up for him.
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5. Poor Grammar - sign of a low intellect?
Image source HuffPost UKIf he can't differentiate between 'there' and 'their', abbreviates words which shouldn't be shortened and his general intellect leaves much to be desired, then he's not selling himself well to the opposite sex. He doesn't have to have a some great IQ but being a good conversationalist and knowing what's going on in the world, news wise, will get him more positive attention.
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6. Lack Of Ambition - as slow as a sloth
Image source Preparing To LoveA man having ambition will make a lady sit up and take notice. Getting home from work, changing into his pyjamas and playing on his X Box for hours on end, won't cut the cloth in attracting a female. When he can't even be bothered to reach over for the remote control to change the channel on the telly, he needs to give himself a reality check.
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7. When They Don't Clear Up After Themselves - leaving it to the fairy godmother
Image source Alpine MaidsMen leaving clothing where it doesn’t belong such as on the banister, or stacking dirty dishes in the sink, are very annoying traits to most women. Being tidier shows respect and wanting to please the other person so Mr. Untidy needs to change his ways if he's looking to initiate a relationship.
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8. Asking The Same Questions Again And Again - and again!
Image source Capital NewsIt's usually something trivial like ' are you hungry?' or 'are you ok?' that the guy asks the girl, over and over again. It loses its sincerity after the 4th time of asking and then becomes increasingly unbearable. He's speaking for the sake of it or he hasn't be listening to her responses first time round.
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9. Poor Budgeting - running out of funds a week after pay day
Image source CrushpixelWhen a woman starts dating a guy, she will look for signs that he's a good catch for the present and the future. If he acts irresponsibly, throwing all his wages away on alcohol, clothes and socialising, when there's still 3 weeks left until his next pay cheque, she will see him as an unreliable boyfriend and definitely not on her 'yes' tick list.
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10. Over-Grooming - takes for ever to get ready
Image source Real StyleThere's a saying that a woman should never date a guy who takes longer than her to get ready and whose bathroom cabinet is bulging with beauty products. He's showing he places more importance on himself, with everyone else behind him. He'll probably get worse with age so no future for them.
Image source FreepikA girl is going to be put off if the guy swaps his personality when he's with his pals, compared to when he's with you. This shows he's either got something to prove or, worse case scenario, something to hide! If someone can't be themselves at all times, the lady is going to be back on Tinder!
Image source BBCIt's true that women are more self-sufficient and independent than they were years ago but that doesn't mean they want the man to open the door and walk through first, allowing it to possibly slam in their face. Females appreciate good manners like when he checks his date has put the key in the door and let herself in at home, safe and sound, before he drives off.
Women aren't saying men should be suited and booted at all times but being seen in public with a wrinkled shirt and old trackies or shorts in the winter, is not going to cut it in the relationship stakes. He needs to take pride in himself and be smart casual or similar, to prove he's not just damn lazy!
Image source ViceWhen a guy sorts his social calendar and his dates around his gym routine and he refuses to budge, then the girl is on a hiding to nowhere. He obviously puts himself first and will continue to do so and he's also probably as vain as a diva. If he can't get his priorities right, there's going to be no females queuing up for him.
Image source HuffPost UKIf he can't differentiate between 'there' and 'their', abbreviates words which shouldn't be shortened and his general intellect leaves much to be desired, then he's not selling himself well to the opposite sex. He doesn't have to have a some great IQ but being a good conversationalist and knowing what's going on in the world, news wise, will get him more positive attention.
Image source Preparing To LoveA man having ambition will make a lady sit up and take notice. Getting home from work, changing into his pyjamas and playing on his X Box for hours on end, won't cut the cloth in attracting a female. When he can't even be bothered to reach over for the remote control to change the channel on the telly, he needs to give himself a reality check.
Image source Alpine MaidsMen leaving clothing where it doesn’t belong such as on the banister, or stacking dirty dishes in the sink, are very annoying traits to most women. Being tidier shows respect and wanting to please the other person so Mr. Untidy needs to change his ways if he's looking to initiate a relationship.
Image source Capital NewsIt's usually something trivial like ' are you hungry?' or 'are you ok?' that the guy asks the girl, over and over again. It loses its sincerity after the 4th time of asking and then becomes increasingly unbearable. He's speaking for the sake of it or he hasn't be listening to her responses first time round.
Image source CrushpixelWhen a woman starts dating a guy, she will look for signs that he's a good catch for the present and the future. If he acts irresponsibly, throwing all his wages away on alcohol, clothes and socialising, when there's still 3 weeks left until his next pay cheque, she will see him as an unreliable boyfriend and definitely not on her 'yes' tick list.
Image source Real StyleThere's a saying that a woman should never date a guy who takes longer than her to get ready and whose bathroom cabinet is bulging with beauty products. He's showing he places more importance on himself, with everyone else behind him. He'll probably get worse with age so no future for them.