The Hardest Zodiac Sign To Fall In Love With

By Lauren Mccluskey 1 year ago

1. Western Astrology

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Western astrology is based upon the positioning of celestial bodies at the time of a person's birth, with the zodiac being based upon a set of 12 constellations.  Each zodiac sign is based upon specific personality traits, strengths, and weaknesses and it is believed that the position of the celestial bodies at the time of a person's birth can influence these traits.

2. Chinese Astrology

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Chinese astrology is a system that is based on a 12-year cycle that assigns an animal each year.  Each animal is believed to carry certain personality traits and it is widely believed that people born in a particular year are said to possess those traits throughout their lives.

3. Vedic Astrology

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Vedic astrology is a traditional system of astrology that derives from India and it is also known as
Jyotish
in Sanskrit.  It is an ancient system and is based upon the belief that the stars and the planets influence our lives.  This kind of sidereal zodiac goes off the position of the planets at the time of a person's birth.

4. Celtic Astrology

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Celtic astrology is based on the Druidic or the Celtic calendar.  And this calendar is different from what we are familiar with as it's divided into 13 lunar months.  Each of these lunar months has its own tree sign as well as an animal sign which represents certain virtues.

5. Egyptian Astrology

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Egyptian astrology is based upon the traditional practices and beliefs that were prevalent throughout ancient Egypt.  And this system of astrology is split into 12 signs.  Each of these signs represents a different deity including
Osiris, The Nile, 
and 
Mut.

6. Mayan Astrology

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Mayan astrology is based upon the ancient practices and beliefs of the Maya civilization.  This system is divided into 20 different signs and each of these signs is associated with a different day of the Mayan calendar including 
Ch'en, K'ank'in, 
and 
Muwan.

7. Aztec Astrology

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This is a system of astrology that derives from the Aztecs and this is based on this civilization's ancient calendar.  Like Mayan astrology, the Aztec calendar is divided up into 20 signs, with each one corresponding to signs including the Deer (Mazatl), Jaguar (Ocelotl), and Reed (Acatl).

8. Western Astrology: Capricorn

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Capricorns (December 22 to January 19) in Western astrology are renowned for being hard workers with really solid goals.  And because they are so driven, it can make it much harder for anyone to get close to them.  But when people persevere with a Capricorn, the effort does end up being worth it, even though they've made it difficult for you to love them so far.

9. Chinese Astrology:  Snake

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In Chinese astrology, it is believed that people born under the Snake sign (1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013 ) are very untrusting and suspicious of other people.  This makes them really judgemental which can make anyone harder to love because it might be really difficult to get them to open up to you about anything.

10. Egyptian Zodiac: Thoth

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Thoth (August 29 to September 27) is the Ancient Egyptian God of wisdom and learning and it is believed that those that are born under Thoth will possess great intelligence and the ability to problem solve and think critically.  However, it is also believed that those born under Thoth are particularly impatient and are therefore quite difficult to get along with.

11. Western Astrology: Leo

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Leos (July 23 to August 22) are believed to be extremely passionate in Western astrology and are seen as a joyous, generous, and alluring sign.  However, Leos are believed to also be quite self-involved and tend to overindulge in luxuries, which can cause problems for potential partners at times.

12. Chinese Astrology: Tiger

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In the Chinese zodiac, those born under the sign of the Tiger (1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010) are believed to be extremely self-centered.  And tigers are extremely stubborn as well and struggle to see any other perspective but their own.  This makes it impossible for them to listen to anyone else, even when other people's ideas are better than theirs...

13. Western Astrology: Virgo

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Virgos (August 23 to September 22) in Western astrology are believed to be notoriously difficult to love because it can be so difficult to get them to open up.  It is believed that Virgos tend to keep people at arm's length until they know they can trust them and appear judgemental or critical of others, making them difficult to love at first.

14. Chinese Astrology: Ox

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In Chinese astrology, those that are born under the sign of the Ox (1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009) are believed to be super honest and usually quite good-tempered.  But when Oxs get angry, they get uncontrollably angry and they can be incredibly reckless and struggle to communicate their emotions, making them unpredictable.

15. Egyptian Zodiac: Wadget

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Wadget (October 28 to November 29) is the Ancient Egyptian Goddess of the cobra and it is widely believed that those born under her sign are rational thinkers, but they may have the tendency to be overly cautious and are believed to have very suspicious and pessimistic personalities - certainly not willing to give their love so easily!

16. Chinese Astrology: Horse

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The zodiac sign of the Horse (1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014) in Chinese astrology is believed to have certain negative personality traits that make them really difficult to love.  This is because this sign can be violent-tempered and extremely impatient, as well as incredibly headstrong.

17. Chinese Astrology: Dragon

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Being born under the sign of the Dragon (1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012) in the Chinese zodiac sounds ideal, as typically Dragons are energetic but usually drama-free.  However, Dragons are renowned to be arrogant and impatient and are not afraid of letting you know when they're irritated.

18. Western Astrology: Gemini

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Geminis (May 21 - June 21) in Western astrology are believed to be energetic and witty but find it difficult to make long-lasting and meaningful connections with anyone.  This is because they are believed to have quite a flighty personality and find it difficult to make decisions, making it difficult to pin them down.

19. Western Astrology: Cancer

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In Western astrology, those born under the sign of Cancer (June 22 to July 22) are said to be incredibly sensitive and are full of kindness and patience.  But because they are so sensitive, it can take them a while for them to process their feelings.

20. Egyptian Zodiac: Horus

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Horus (September 28 to October 27) is the Ancient Egyptian God of the sky and although those born under his sign have some sought-after personality traits, like being courageous and motivated, it is also believed that they are wracked with stubbornness and unable to see another perspective other than their own!

21. Western Astrology: Aquarius

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Those born under the Western zodiac sign, Aquarius (January 20 to February 18) are believed to be extremely independent but this can come across as quite distant and closed off to the world.  They are believed to struggle to express their emotions effectively which can make it really difficult to understand them

22. Chinese Astrology: Goat

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In Chinese astrology, the sign of the Goat (1967, 1979, 1991, 2003) is believed to enjoy living quite peacefully, and they're said to be good with money.  But watch what you say or do because goats can be insanely moody too and can be quite vain.  These traits can make Goats more difficult to love.

23. Western Astrology: Taurus

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Those born under the Taurus sign (April 20 to May 20) in Wester astrology are believed to be immensely loyal and they make a stable and easy-going partner.  But sometimes, those born under Taurus can become quite uncompromising when it comes to their beliefs and lack flexibility in their opinions.

24. Western Astrology: Aries

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Aries (March 21 to April 19) in the Western zodiac system are believed to be almost as fiery and passionate as Leos, but they can become pretty headstrong and impulsive which can become exhausting for anyone who knows and loves them.  The unfortunate trait of Aries is that they might not be around long enough for you to deepen your love for them.

25. Chinese Astrology: Rooster

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The Chinese zodiac sign of the Rooster (1969, 1981, 1993, 2005) is said to carry the negative personality trait of being incredibly cocky and egotistical which can make them particularly hard to love.  They're usually successful and quite powerful but it is believed that they don't like seeing others succeed.

26. Chinese Astrology: Dog

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People born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Dog (1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006) are said to be kind and loyal.  But their personalities can be problematic for partners because they can become unpredictable and avoid communicating with you, leaving you wondering whether you've done something wrong all the time.

27. Western Astrology: Scorpio

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Scorpios (October 23 to November 21) are said to come across as quite intimidating in Western astrology.  And although they're passionate about relationships, they are believed to seek power and always seem to control any given situation.  They are also believed to be quite possessive too.

28. Chinese Astrology: Monkey

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Those born under the Monkey (1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004) in Chinese astrology can be easy to get on with because they absolutely love laughing.  But sometimes, they can cross the line and offend or upset people in their pursuit of fun and they just don't know when to stop their jokes.

29. Western Astrology: Pisces

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Those born under the Pisces sign (February 19 to March 20) in Western astrology are said to be extremely easy to love.  In fact, they're often referred to as the easiest to love out of all of the Western zodiac signs because they're known for their creativity and genuine empathy.

30. Egyptian Zodiac: Sekhmet

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Sekhmet (November 27 to December 26) is the Ancient Egyptian Goddess of War.  The personality trait associated with her sign can be very easy to love because they include imagination and resilience.  But those born under her sign also have a reputation of being rather hot-tempered and you DO NOT want to get on the wrong side of her.

31. The most incompatible zodiac signs! Aries vs Cancer

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Cancers are very sentimental and in touch with their emotions, and this can cause some miscommunication and issues with Aries. Aries likes to move in a spontaneous, impulsive way when it comes to romance, while Cancers need to develop trust, so Aries might definitely get bored of waiting!

32. Capricorn vs Sagittarius

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Capricorns are super organized, hard-workers - whether that's they're professional life, or their personal one. They don't want you to show up late for a business meeting in the same way they wouldn't want you to turn up late for a date. Sagittarius? Yeah, they're likely the ones turning up late for the date.

33. Gemini vs Scorpio

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Scorpios need full transparency, so they need to know their partner's viewpoint and where they stand at all times to feel secure in a relationship. But Geminis have a very free-spirited and free-thinking way of things, which can be a bit too topsy-turvy for a sturdy Scorpio!

34. Leo vs Pisces

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Pisces are very open to good energy and to empathy, which comes in handy for the right relationships - which isn't going to be with a Leo. This is because Leos are loyal and can often vent and need a partner to take their side. Pisces will likely take their side - but are empathic enough to see 'all sides of the story', which can rub a Leo up the wrong way!

35. Taurus vs Aquarius

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In terms of a romantic partner, you're getting a very stable and predictable one in a Taurus. For some people, this can mean a stable relationship where you know what you're getting. For others - like an Aquarius - this can mean doing the same thing over and over again and getting very bored.

36. Virgo vs Libra

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Virgos are very witty and straight to the point - they don't mince their words, but their words are likely intelligent and direct. For a sensitive Libra, this might be a bit much. They're appreciate brutal honesty in a relationship, but prefer if it was a little less brutal from a Virgo!

37. Aries vs Pisces

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Pisces can be very sensitive to matters of the heart, and an Aries in a relationship is more likely to be very direct - which can be difficult for a Pisces to put up with for the long-term. Assertiveness can likely attract a Pisces, but that assertiveness from an Aries can soon turn into no compromise in a relationship.

38. Taurus vs Leo

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Taurus and Leo is the ultimate example of two people butting heads - no surprise that Taurus is the bull, then. Leos have a bit of an ego, so they're going to need words of affirmation from their partner. But if that partner is a Taurus, they don't like giving attention to people seeking it!

39. Aquarius vs Cancer

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Cancers need security and consistency in a relationship, which is why an Aquarius is a bad match. An Aquarius can be a last-minute changer of plans, can be flaky with plans and altogether more unpredictable than a Cancer can deal with. Cancers would likely feel second priority in a relationship with an Aquarius, too.

40. Leo vs Capricorn

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We mentioned that Capricorns are super hard-workers and career-oriented - maybe even workaholics a lot of the time. This doesn't bode well for a Leo! Leos like to live on the edge. Rather than work hard to earn something, they prefer a happy go lucky 'wait for something to fall in my lap' attitude. That doesn't work well for these two dating!

41. Virgo vs Sagittarius

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Sagittarius might be a prime example of a distractible, creative soul which can be very attractive to a Virgo at first when it's all 'oh look how cute their quirks are' - but then the ick kicks in because Sagittarius is messy, disorganized, unable to finish a task and pretty much getting on Virgo's nerves.

42. Scorpio vs Libra

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Scorpios can be outgoings, flirtatious and sociable, but in a relationship, they also need quality time spent alone - and quality time focusing on the bedroom! A Libra, on the other hand, can have a more 'airy' attitude to everything, needing to be out socialising all the time and being more casual when it comes to intimate moments.

43. Gemini vs Capricorn

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Gemini is a social butterfly - Capricorn is most certainly not. That's red flag number one! Because Capricorns are so determined, they can easily complete a task from start to finish. Geminis need to flit - including from unfinished task to the next - so it's a little too much 'all over the place' for a rock steady Capricorn!

44. Aquarius vs Scorpio

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Scorpios like acts of commitment, settling down and doing things as a couple - they may also be a little passive aggressive with relationship problems! Aquarius may feel stifled by this idea of settling, and likely to do things without their partner which will slowly wear a Scorpio down!

45. Pisces vs Gemini

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Pisces, as a water sign, can go with the flow. While Gemini is more on the free spirit side, they can still very much clash. Most of this is because a Pisces, while being easy-going, likes to be easy-going in the
privacy of their own home
. They like the quiet - a Gemini does not.

46. Pisces vs Libra

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A Pisces is also likely to feel very unsupported by a Libra. Pisces is the one sat at home alone in the relationship wondering how Libra really feels, while Libra doesn't know how to cope with that - and would likely run to the nearest bar, go out with friends instead or maybe even look for a new partner!

47. Virgo vs Gemini

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Gemini, an air sign, is constantly looking for the flow of conversation, new challenges and new experiences. Virgo is an earthy sign which prefers to stay more grounded, and their opposing views of social situations can often lead to clashes! It's that classic structure vs unpredictability!

48. Leo vs Scorpio

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Leo is all about outward boldness and fiery passion for everyone to see; Scorpio, on the other hand, is a water sign that prefers quiet contemplation and maybe holding onto its own secrets. Leo needs constant attention, while Scorpio doesn't want to give it and just wants to be left alone!

49. Libra vs Capricorn

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Capricorn likes routine - Libra, which thrives on new stimulations, seeks change. Libra can also be very indecisive because they're exploring all the different options and possibilities, while Capricorn just wants a straight answer. It's the classic 'what do you want for dinner?' and 10 hours later, you still haven't decided.

50. It isn't all doom and gloom! These are the most compatible

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While there are definitely those signs out there that are the hardest to fall in love with, and those that are just completely incompatible, there's still hope people! Bold Aries and passion Sagittarius, romantic Taurus with emotional Cancer, imaginative Gemini with intelligent Aquarius and loyal Leo with dramatic Libra are all examples of how it can go very, very right!

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