Things All Men Do When They Are In Love

1. They slow down to match your step

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Studies have shown how men walk when they're alone, with their friends, and with the one they love. They have concluded that men slow down when they're in love and they match the pace of the person they're in love with, now that's pretty darned cute.

2. He'll give you forehead kisses

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You can totally tell by the way a man kisses a woman and how he sees her. If he's giving you tender forehead kisses, he's showing that he cares for you. Men kiss lips out of passion which could be love or lust. A man kisses your forehead when he's genuinely in love with you.

3. They'll tell you 'I love you'

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It's a popular belief that women fall in love first and tell a man they love them first. But science claims differently as many studies have shown that men actually fall in love faster and that they'll say the all-important three little words first too!

4. They'll start making references to a future together

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You'll be able to tell when a man starts to fall in love with you even without him explicitly saying 'I love you'. At first in the dating stage, he might not see it as serious or know that it's going to go anywhere serious. When he falls in love he'll be talking about future plans and he'll be getting a bit more serious in what he speaks about.

5. They start seeing other men as potential competition

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When a man falls in love with you he doesn't want anybody else to have you. He'll want to be the best man he can for you and he'll see some other guys as potential competition. Because when a man is in love with you he'll think you; 're the best girl in the world and believe every other man must feel the same.

6. His voice will change and likely become higher pitched

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Science believes that a man's voice varies depending on who he is with. So a man may use his natural voice on a day-to-day basis, but when he is with the woman he's in love with, he subconsciously mimics her voice so that his tone becomes more matched in pitch.

7. They call you perfect and believe it

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They say love is blind and it's kinda true. Everyone has faults and there's absolutely nobody that is perfect. But when he's in love with you he'll think you're perfect, or as close as you could possibly get! He'll tell you you're perfect and you can know that he truly does believe it.

8. They want to spend all of their time with you

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The feeling of being in love makes the sense of time fly right outta the window. Being with someone we love feels like no time at all. So when a man is in love with you he'll want to be with you all of the time and he won't get sick of spending every second with you.

9. They really listen to you

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Have you ever been on a date where you're talking and you know he's not really paying that much attention? But when a man is in love with you he'll listen and GENUINELY listen. He'll take in every word you are saying because he actually cares about you and your thoughts and opinions.

10. He'll spend the majority of his time thinking about you

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Some surveys have shown that men and women in love spend up to 85% of their time thinking about each other! That's a helluva lot of time. It means you're essentially on his mind all the time. So just know, if he's in love with you, he's probably thinking about you right now!

11. He'll introduce you to his family and friends

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A man who is in love with you is proud of you. He'll want to show you off to his family and friends and he'll want them to welcome you with open arms. It will be super important to him that you get involved with his life and his loved ones because he wants you to be a part of it.

12. His eyes light up when he sees you

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You don't really need to hear him say it to know if he's in love with you. Eyes never lie, and an expression can give away how a person truly feels. You'll just see it in his eyes if he's in love with you. He'll look at you differently and they'll light up whenever he sees you.

13. They laugh more

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Generally, when we're in love we're happier. And so a man in love is known to laugh more. When you're mood is positive and you feel happy everything seems lighter and funnier. If a man is laughing around you it's because he's in love with you and he just loves to be around you!

14. He remembers what you've said

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You know that feeling when a guy mentions something that you once told him and you feel all warm and fuzzy inside because he's remembering small details about you as he's not just into you, he's in love with you. Guys don't remember the little things for anyone, only when they're in love.

15. They'll do anything for you

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He'll make it very clear that he will do anything for you, he just wants to make you feel happy. You know that nothing is too great to ask him because he'd be willing to help you. When a guy is willing to do whatever it takes, he's truly and madly in love with you.

16. He'll post you on social media

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When a guy is in his single era, he's probably playing the game and he doesn't want to be posting pictures of girls to his social media because he doesn't want other girls to think he's in a relationship and 'taken'. When he does post you, he's only got eyes for you, and by this point, he's in love.

17. He'll place his hand on your knee

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Body language can tell us all kinds of things. When a guy is in love he'll do small gestures like placing his hand on your knee. This is a subconscious thing he'll do when he loves you because it's a protective gesture. You may notice that in busy settings he'll place his hand on your knee as a way to reassure you and show you he's right there.

18. He'll always be smiling with you

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When a guy's in love he can't hide the feeling. If he's around you he'll be smiling because being with you just makes him happy. When you look at him he can't help but smile. And as long as he's with you he'll be smiling the majority of the time because he's so in love with you.

19. They'll be spending way less time on their phone

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A lot of people now are practically attached to their cell phones, it's become like an extension of their bodies. And when a guy is not in love they tend to spend way more time on their phone, chatting with friends, scrolling on socials and maybe chatting to girls. A guy in love will put his phone down because he's more interested in you.

20. They'll ask for your opinion

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Have you ever noticed that the more and more a guy likes you or loves you, the more he values your opinion? If you've noticed him asking your opinion on the clothes he's buying, or your opinion on certain matters or topics this is because he's in love with you and your opinion is important to him.

21. He'll get emotionally vulnerable with you

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Men often take longer to let down their guard and show their emotional and more vulnerable side with you. It can take a long time and a man usually only reveals his true emotions when he's in love with you. By this point, he trusts you enough to show you his truest self!

22. He'll try and get on board with your hobbies and interests

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Even when you're compatible with a guy, you'll still have hobbies and interests which you don't share. There's nothing more enduring than when a man who is in love tries to embrace his woman's interests because he loves her and wants to show that he's totally in this - even if he secretly hates the hobby.

23. He'll surprise you with small gifts that you once mentioned you like

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You mentioned once that you love Reese's peanut butter cups and now every time he goes to the grocery store he brings you some back. It's the small things and these small gestures that show when a man really is in love with you because he's out and about thinking about YOU.

24. They'll be patient when you both disagree

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Patience is something that grows more and more the more we love someone. So when a man is in love with you he won't shout or lose his cool he; 'll keep a patient head and try and resolve any disagreements in a mature manner so that he doesn't hurt your feelings.

25. He'll want to be physically close to you

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When a man is in love with you he'll want to be physically close as much as possible. He'll be giving you random hugs from behind, he'll be kissing you all the time and holding your hand when you walk. He'll love being with you and near to you and of course, he's super attracted to you!

26. He'll embrace your family

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The in-laws are always the part we dread in a new relationship. If you've ever seen any movie ever about overbearing and interfering in-laws, it's pretty much guaranteed to be chaos. But when he's in love with you he'll put everything aside, even if they are a little bit difficult. He'll embrace your family because he wants to be with you.

27. He'll get a little bit jealous

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A little bit of jealousy is completely natural in a relationship when you're in love. You think they're the greatest catch ever and so when someone is being a little bit too flirty it naturally gets us feeling a little jealous. When a guy is in love he will feel jealous, even if he won't admit it!

28. His pupils will expand when he sees you

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It has become a well-known fact that our pupils expand when we see someone we love. So if a man is in love with you, you may notice that his pupils expand when he sees you because he's looking at you and his heart fills with love. Very romantic, huh?

29. He'll overlook anything gross

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Dating is a whole different ball game from being in love. When we're dating we try and do everything nicely like twist our spaghetti on a fork rather than slurping it up and watching the tomato sauce fly everywhere. But when a man is in love with you, nothing will gross him out!

30. His romantic side will come out

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After all the games and the flirting and the 'who should text first' and 'how long shall I wait before replying', you get a man's truly romantic side. His guard will be let down slightly and his romantic side will come out more and more as he wants to not just impress you, but make you happy.

31. He says how much he thinks about you

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When you love someone, you're going to be thinking about them 24/7, whether consciously sitting there thinking how wonderful they are, or just carrying around their image in your mind while you get on with your daily tasks! If he's telling you how much he's thinking about you - ALL THE TIME - he's in love. You aren't in love if you don't think about someone that much!

32. He seems to 'come alive'

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You might also be able to see the difference in him, physically and with his mannerisms, from when you first got to know them to where you're at now. They might have come out of their shell, act more excited with their body language, and truly seem like they've 'come alive' with how they talk and act around you. This could be because they're in love with you (and it's hard to keep that from showing!).

33. He starts to analyze you

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We don't mean in a negative way, but the more you love someone, the more you start thinking about what they're doing, and their daily habits. So he might have started to analyze why you act a certain way in situations, why you eat your food the way you do, why you brush your hair that way... anything, really. If they're analyzing it's because they're paying more attention - because they love you!

34. He's affected by your emotions

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If you care about someone, you're naturally going to feel concerned or upset if they're upset, or happy when they're happy. When you love someone, that's turned up to the max. So it might be there's no way he can be happy when you've had a really bad day, or there's no way he can sulk or feel down when you're happy because your happiness just makes him happy, too!

35. He changes a lot of his normal routine

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You don't have to change things you enjoyed doing alone when you're in a relationship, but a lot of people do stop doing things they used to do when they were single because they want to do more stuff that revolves around the one they love. So you might have noticed they stopped doing a lot of stuff they used to love doing because they want to open up that time to spend more with you!

36. And realizes the things that were priorities aren't anymore

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They may have also had a huge number of priorities in their life, things they never thought they'd compromise on no matter what, like 'Saturdays are for me to see my friends' or 'I need at least one night a week to be alone', non-negotiable. But now they're in love, all of that has gone out of the window, because their only priority is - you guessed it - you!

37. Him becomes 'we'

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Now he's in love, there's no way he's thinking of himself as a single entity anymore, because anything he's thinking of doing or feeling, he's thinking of it from the viewpoint of a couple, of a team and of a 'we' instead of just him alone. He also might slip in a 'we' when he's talking to people, or speak for you, like 'oh, well we just like to watch TV at the weekends!'.

38. Your needs are more important than his

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When you love someone, it's natural to put their wants and needs before your own, and especially if that person is going through a rough time or is in need. So if you tell them you need something and they're in love with you, they're likely going to drop everything to make sure your needs are met - or at the very least just be an ear for you to talk to when you have something to work out.

39. He doesn't do anything without talking to you about it first

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The perks of being single are that you don't need to consider anybody else when making plans! But when you fall in love, you don't feel happy about making any decision without talking it out with your love first. So you might have noticed he doesn't make plans to do anything (like booking the cinema, weekends away, big vacations etc.) without talking to you first.

40. They know love versus lust

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Sometimes the line between love and lust can get blurred, especially in the early days of a relationship, and it's true that a lot of the time men are the ones more likely to think they're in love with someone who actually they're just lusting over. But for him, he's taken the time to work out love versus lust and to make sure it's not just lust he's feeling - and now he's still 100% sure it's love.

41. He spends less time with his friends

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You should never stop seeing your friends when you get into a relationship, but for that initial 'falling in love' stage it's very normal for a guy to see his friends much less than usual because he's prioritizing time with you. Over time he'll get back into a good routine with them - especially when he introduces you to them - but there might be a period of time when he just wants to be with you!

42. He starts saying everything BUT 'I love you'

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When a guy is realizing he's falling in love - or already has - and he's a bit worried about saying those three words too soon, he might have started saying loads of things that are similar and that he means 'I LOVE YOU' when he says them - without actually saying it! He might say 'I love spending time with you', 'I love it when you do that' or 'I love hearing your voice'.

43. He's very eager to please you

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He just wants to make you happy, in every possible way - because he loves you! There's nothing he can think of that would bring him more joy and satisfaction than knowing he's doing everything he can to make you happy. This could also be because he wants you to love him back, so he's determined to prove to you that he can make you happy and hopefully have you love him in return!

44. He definitely isn't playing it cool with messages

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It's never fun to have someone play mind games, but in the dating world, it's normal to have someone not want to come on too strong, wait a few hours before replying a message, or try to act more 'cool' about how hard they're falling for you! But all that is in the rearview mirror for this guy now, because he loves you, so he doesn't have the patience to wait before blowing up your phone with messages!

45. He has a pet name for you

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The natural progression for couples getting into a more serious relationship is to start to have a pet name or some form of nickname. For a lot of couples this can just be 'babe' or 'baby', but sometimes it might also be a very personal pet name he uses for you that nobody else would understand. Pet names are very much synonymous with being in love!

46. He remembers certain outfits you wore

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Most men will admit they don't remember what a woman was wearing on what day, or don't even notice if she has her nails painted or not. Even when you're in love it's likely you can't remember every outfit - and that's okay! But if he's falling in love very recently, it's more likely he's going to remember what you were wearing, because he's paying more attention - like remembering what you wore last weekend or on your first date.

47. He doesn't need an excuse to talk to you

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When you were first dating and getting to know each other, the basis of the contact might have been to arrange your next date or to get to know each other and share hobbies and interests. But now that he loves you, he doesn't have - or need - a reason to talk to you. You might get more phone calls or messages from him just saying he has nothing to say, he just wanted to hear your voice.

48. Chivalry is a big sign

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It might sound like a bit of a cliché, but small acts of chivalry are a certain sign he's taking you seriously and treating you with love and respect. The more he tries to do for you in the small actions, like holding the door for you, pulling out the chair for you, standing up when you enter a room... it's basic manners for a lot of people, but for him, it's an act of love.

49. Other people have told you how happy he seems

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Sure, it's easy to see how happy he looks when he's with you, how his face lights up and everything else. But it's something even more special when you hear about how he's been when you're not around. Maybe his friends have told you how much happier he seems, his family have told you he never stops talking about you, or other people have just mentioned that he definitely looks like a guy in love!

50. You're not last minute plans

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When he's making other plans that don't involved you, it might be that he holds back until he can definitely confirm you're not wanting to do anything on that day first. Even if you're easy-going and you'll just see him another day if he makes other plans, he likes to know first whether he needs to keep certain days and times open for you, in case you're not available any other day.

51. Displaying acts of kindness

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Acts of kindness are small, thoughtful gestures that demonstrate consideration and care. This could include things like helping you with daily tasks, holding the door open, or carrying heavy bags to make your life a bit easier.  Your man will do anything for you.

52. Prioritizing your needs

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When a man prioritizes your needs, it means he is attentive to your feelings, desires, and well-being. He places importance on making sure you are comfortable and content, even if it means putting your needs before his own.  It all about putting the other person first.

53. Happy to plan a future together

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Discussing and planning a future together signifies a commitment to a long-term relationship. It involves joint decision-making, shared goals, and a vision of building a life together.  This talk of planning is way up there is professing love and commitment.

54. Always shows an affectionate touch

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Physical touch, such as holding hands or cuddling, is a non-verbal way of expressing love and affection. It creates a sense of closeness and connection, fostering intimacy in the relationship.  Your man wants to be close to you at all times and shows he's always there for you.

55. Loves celebrating your achievements

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Being genuinely happy about your accomplishments shows that he not only supports your goals but also takes joy in your successes. It reflects a positive and encouraging attitude toward your personal and professional endeavors.  He's as proud as punch and wants the world to know it.

56. Is always protective

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Displaying protective instincts means he cares deeply about your safety and well-being. It might manifest as a desire to ensure you are safe in various situations or a readiness to offer assistance and support when needed.  He may even walk you from his car to your door, although that's an excuse for a goodnight kiss!

57. Takes care of you when you're sick

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Providing care and comfort when you're not feeling well demonstrates a nurturing and supportive attitude. It involves taking on responsibilities, offering soothing words, and being there for you during times of illness.  When you're sick he almost feels your pain.

58. Gives you surprise gifts

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Thoughtful and unexpected gifts show that he pays attention to your likes and dislikes. It's a way of expressing affection and letting you know that you are on his mind.  It need not be anything lavish.  The fact that it is a surprise and you're on his mind is all that matters.

59. Makes eye contact

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Maintaining strong eye contact during conversations indicates a level of attentiveness and sincerity. It reflects a genuine interest in what you are saying and a desire to connect on a deeper level.  Eye contact, without speaking, shows they know what you are thinking.

60. Appreciates your individuality

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Embracing your uniqueness and individuality means he values you for who you are, with all your strengths, quirks, and individual qualities. It involves acceptance and appreciation of your distinct identity.  Even if you are chalk and cheese, between you, he appreciates everything about you.

61. Protects your reputation

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Speaking positively about you to others shows a level of respect and admiration. It reflects a desire to uphold your reputation and convey a positive image of you to the world.  Besides protecting your reputation, he will gush about anything and everything about you.

62. They respect boundaries

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Respecting your personal boundaries is crucial in a healthy relationship. It involves acknowledging and honoring your limits, whether they are physical, emotional, or related to personal space.  The fact that you don't have to be together 24 hours a day has no impact on the luuurv!

63. Has no issue in encouraging independence

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Supporting your independence and personal growth demonstrates a secure and healthy approach to the relationship. It involves encouraging you to pursue your interests, goals, and passions.  If you have a dream, he wants to do everything h can to make sure you get to attain it.

64. Shows public affection

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Being comfortable showing affection in public signifies a level of confidence and pride in the relationship. It communicates a sense of commitment and a willingness to share your connection with the world.  It doesn't have to be a full snog.  It can be a hug or holding hands.

65. Helps with daily tasks

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Offering assistance with daily chores or tasks is a practical way of contributing to the smooth running of daily life. It shows a willingness to share responsibilities and make life more manageable for both of you.  Most men would run a mile from daily tasks but when he loves you like he does, it's all cool.

66. Acts playfully

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Engaging in playful and light hearted interactions adds joy and fun to the relationship. It shows a sense of humor, an ability to enjoy the moment, and a desire to create a positive and playful atmosphere.  It shows that whereas you can be very serious together at the right time, there has to be a balance.

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Expresses intimacy beyond physical touch

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Going beyond physical touch, expressing intimacy through emotional connection, deep conversations, and shared vulnerability strengthens the emotional bond.  It's a difficult thing to explain other than to say that "he gets you" and that makes him a good guy!

68. They become totally reliable

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Consistently being reliable and trustworthy, keeping promises and commitments,  contributes to building a foundation of trust and security in the relationship.  When the guy drops everything to be there for you, you know he's a keeper - and he wants to be!

69. They like to cook for you

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Taking the time to cook or plan special meals, whether it's a homemade dinner or a surprise reservation at a favorite restaurant, expresses a desire to create memorable experiences together.  He realises that you would appreciate it and he aims to please.

70. Remembers important dates

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Remembering and acknowledging important dates, such as anniversaries and special occasions, demonstrates thoughtfulness and a commitment to celebrating meaningful moments in your relationship.  Only a man who's serious about his partner would take the trouble.

71. They want to create traditions with you

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Establishing and nurturing shared traditions, whether it's a weekly movie night, an annual trip, or other special rituals, will create lasting and meaningful memories.  He's hoping that, in 20 years time, you can both look back together at that film you enjoyed in 2024!

72. Maintaining  a sense of humor

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Infusing humor into the relationship, sharing laughter, and creating a light hearted atmosphere to foster joy and resilience in the face of life's challenges is what someone who is head over heels would do.  In fact, they'd do anything to keep your mood bright.

73. Proud to celebrate your success

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Taking genuine joy in your achievements and also celebrating your successes, big or small, demonstrates a supportive and proud attitude toward your personal growth.  A guy in love will be as proud as punch and will have nothing but admiration for his partner.

74. Always show empathy

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Being a pillar of strength during challenging moments, offering emotional support, and actively listening when you need to express your feelings shows a deep connection and empathy.  When a an loves you the way he does, he wants to be there for you at all times.

75. Eager for you to meet their family and friends

 

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It's important for your family to approve of your choice of partner but equally so when it comes to your partner's family.  Your partner is desperate for his nearest and dearest to adore you and realise why you're "the one."  It also makes life so much easier for everyone!

76. Loves to send love texts

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Sending affectionate texts, handwritten notes, or love messages, expresses love and appreciation even when physically apart.  It somehow feels more romantic to put stuff down in words rather than pick up the phone.  Some men find it easier to express themselves this way.

77.  Bores their friends talking about how great you are

 

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This is both sweet and annoying!  Of course their friends want them to be happy and content.  However, showing numerous images on their cell phone and telling romantic stories is maybe taking things a bit too far.  There is a limit to how gushing you can be!

78. Finds it difficult to concentrate on work

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When your man is busy concentrating on their day job but then goes into a daydream, almost a trance, you can bet your bottom dollar that they are thinking about you and no matter how hard it is to get on with the task in hand, all they see is your face - it must be love!

79. Actively working on relationship growth

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Proactively engaging in efforts to nurture and grow the relationship and showing a commitment to its ongoing health and development, are all signs that they are in it for the long haul.  Even though the relationship is perfect, there's always room for growth.

80.   They change their style of clothes

 

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Your partner will do anything to make you stay attracted to them, both physically and mentally.  If that means dressing slightly differently, maybe more fashionable or more "hip" then you'll happily go with it.  Pleasing the other person is all that matters when you're in love.

81. What a man might do to try and get someone to fall in love with him - Be genuine

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Being open about  insecurities and vulnerabilities. Genuine individuals allow themselves to be seen and understood, even in moments of self-doubt.  They should express emotions sincerely, without suppressing or exaggerating them and acknowledge that everyone has imperfections.

82. Be a good friend

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Act purely as a supportive friend, offering to be a listening ear and understanding during both good times and challenging moments.  Demonstrate trustworthiness, loyalty, and reliability as a friend. These qualities are crucial in any lasting relationship.

83. Maintain personal hygiene

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Regularly shower, groom, and maintain good personal hygiene. This not only shows self-respect but also demonstrates consideration for your partner. Wearing clean and appropriate clothing for different occasions and taking care of your appearance can contribute to a positive impression.

84. Demonstrate Confidence

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Project confidence in your abilities and decisions. Believe in yourself and your capacity to contribute positively to the relationship. While being confident, he should also feel secure enough to express vulnerability. Confidently sharing fears or insecurities shows a deeper emotional connection.

85. Introduce them to your world

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Gradually introduce them to your family and friends. Sharing important aspects of your life helps create a sense of inclusion and belonging. Involve them in your interests and hobbies, giving them a glimpse into the activities that bring you joy. This shows shared experiences and strengthens the bond.

86. Be patient and don't rush things

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Understand that relationships take time to grow and deepen. Patience allows for the natural progression of emotions and connection.  Respect the other person's pace in the relationship. Don't rush or pressure them into commitments or feelings. Allow things to unfold organically.

87. Demonstrate trustworthiness

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Be open and honest in your communication.  Avoid deceit or hiding information, as trust is fundamental to a healthy relationship.  Follow through on your promises and commitments. Consistent reliability builds trust over time and strengthens the foundation of the relationship.

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Attracting true compatibility

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Genuine individuals attract partners who are truly compatible with them. Authenticity ensures that both partners connect on a deeper level with shared values and beliefs.  Although compatibility can be worked on, it's usually something that is just there!

89. Encouraging growth together

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Genuine relationships allow for personal and joint growth. Partners can evolve together, supporting each other's aspirations and evolving into their best selves.  When the attraction becomes something more, moving to the next level, then there's a chance that the "love" word may arise!

90. Cultivating intimacy

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Genuine interactions create a sense of intimacy in a relationship. Sharing your true self allows for a deeper emotional connection between partners.  Emotional closeness is as important as physical, pretty much the same as the difference between lust and love!

91. Encouraging openness

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Genuine individuals promote an open and transparent relationship. This openness encourages both partners to share thoughts, concerns, and aspirations freely.  If you try and be something you're not, then you are kidding not only the person you are interested in but also yourself.

92. Preventing Resentment

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Authentic communication and understanding help prevent the build up of resentment. Genuine partners address issues promptly, reducing the likelihood of lingering negative feelings.  When one partner is feeling negative, it can easily rub off on to the other person.

93.  Definite DONT's if you want to fall in love! - don't ignore red flags

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Don't ignore or dismiss red flags in a potential partner. Address concerns and communicate openly about any issues.  Spotting something that's not right in the relationship or about the person involved is a recipe for disaster.  Be true to yourself and get out - into the arms of someone more worthy.

94. Don't rush the process

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Don't rush the process of falling in love. Let it happen organically rather than trying to force a timeline.  Deciding you want to meet your soul mate by a certain age and panicking that it's not all going to plan, is not the way to a healthy and organic relationship.

95. Don't compare to others

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Don't compare your potential partner to others or set unrealistic expectations based on external influences.  If your ex has dumped you and you are determined to find someone else who reminds you of them, you're in for a shock.  Don't be one of those people who make a list and try to stick to

96. Don't over-analyse everything

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Don't over-analyse every interaction or read too much into every gesture. Allow the relationship to unfold naturally.  If you try and dissect every conversation or behavior you will end up walking on eggshells and become obsessed with everything about your prospective partner.

97. Don't force feelings

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Don't try and make someone have strong feelings for you.  You cannot force their emotions unless you are brainwashing them.  Take it from us, you will end up lonely and alone if you go down this road.  Allow things to progress naturally.  If there's a connection, it will show.

98. Don't be inauthentic

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Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Authenticity is crucial for building a genuine connection.  You might want to impress a prospective long term partner and fill their head with impressive stories but it's a fact that the truth always comes out in the end.

99. Don't apply pressure

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Don't put excessive pressure on yourself or the other person to conform to a preconceived idea of what falling in love should look like.  Love is a natural emotion that can't be controlled.  Once it's made an appearance, neither of you will ever want to let it go.

100. Don't neglect self care

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Don't neglect your own well-being. Falling in love is a two-way street, and taking care of yourself is essential.  We aren't talking showering and a quick spray of deodorant.  It's about looking after yourself physically and mentally, as well as socially.  Be in the best shape, all round, before looking for your soul mate.