This Is Why Dads Are Scientifically Happier Than Moms

By Aaron Love 1 year ago

Fathers Have Better Discipline (Supposedly)

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It is often speculated as to why it seems that fathers are often found to be happier than mothers and one of the reasons for this is that dads typically have the better disciplinary skills. Dads can often enjoy more time with their children without having to argue with their children about what they should be doing as their rules and boundaries have been made clear.

They Like To Match Clothes

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The bond that parents have with their kids is truly special and as parents you always wonder if your child will look like you. Well dads are no exception to this and often like to ensure that their child is dressed just like them. There may be nothing more adorable or cuter in this world than when a dad and child matches clothing. A truly wholesome sight.

They Keep Them Grounded

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Parents make it their goal in life to ensure that their children grow up with good morals and a responsible understanding of the world. As a dad they take a lot of pride in their role and find a lot of enjoyment with seeing their children out in the world with a very responsible and selfless attitude displaying a very kind and grounded personality.

They Stereotypically Earn More

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Now it is a known fact that money can be a great source of happiness well this is also the case for dads. Yes, dads enjoy the opportunity to open up their wallets when they can and treat their other halves and more importantly their children. This is an opportunity that typically comes more often for dads due to them being expected to be the parent who works rather than mothers.

They Enjoy Protecting Their Kids

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Can there possibly be a more important and enjoyable job as making sure your children are safe? This is a job that fathers take extremely seriously and when they succeed it is one of the most enjoyable parts of parenting as there is truly no more relieving feeling than knowing that your child is safe. This makes dads happier than moms as typically they are more protective.

They Deal With Stress Better

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Is there a bigger mood killer than the endless stress that we all feel throughout our lives? But it has been said that dads feel less stress within their households and are able to relax more with their children. It is seen that due to the higher level of responsibility that woman feel due to their maternal instincts men are happier and less stressed in their households.

Enjoy The Value Of Possessions

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During our lives we will buy many things and get rid of a lot more! But it is our possessions that carry some of our greatest memories and can hold an overwhelming amount of emotional value. It is very common for dads to carry some valued possessions while they are working or away from their loved ones to boost their moods and keep them smiling.

Dads Are Respectable

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There is nothing more as parents that we want for our children than for them to be respectful young people. But it is also crucially important that as parents you are respectful in everything that you do as this will build an impression on their children. But as fathers if you are respected then this can make your relationships with your children much more enjoyable.

Dads Make Mistakes But Are Okay With It

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There is nothing more human in this world than making mistakes and you know as fathers that we do tend to make a lot. But, this is okay. Mistakes help us to learn and build on our experiences and knowledge so that we are better suited to tackle challenges. So when dads face a new challenge ge typically they will be a lot calmer and more confident to tackle them than moms.

Dads Know How To Treat Their Kids

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The easiest way to become a happier parent is to build a strong positive relationship with their children, sounds simple. But these relationships are not guaranteed and often take a mass amount of hard work and time especially as they get older. Despite this it is the relationships that come easier to dads as they are often seen as the more fun parent.

Dads Are Optimistic

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It sounds simple to always think about the positives that the future will bring but this can be a very difficult task for all parents. More specifically mother can find it hard to look to future as they don't want their precious child to move on but although this is difficult for fathers they do enjoy thinking about their child becoming independent and tackling the world on their own.

Dads Don't Get Postnatal Depressions

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There are many things about parenting that affect moms and dads just the same. However there is somethings that only leave women feeling blue. One of these issues is postnatal depressions. Due to the nature of the mental illness dads cannot gain this illness and therefore face fewer mental challenges when it comes to handling the mental load of parenting.

Dads Do Less Housework

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It can be very difficult to remain cheerful and happy while constantly dealing with all of the issues that occur during parenting and nobody knows this better than mothers. Typically, mothers handle more of the day to day parenting meaning that they face the majority of their children's issues which means that there is less stress for dad to deal with.

Dads Are Hopeful For The Future

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Everybody needs a bit of optimism in their lives and parents are no different. It can be hard to be optimistic when you are facing the issues that make parenting so difficult but it is often dads who are able to look past these issues and work towards solving issues and try to make their family lives stronger and happier so that their partners and families feel comfortable and safe.

Dads Enjoy Being Hands On

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Sometimes the key to happiness is being able to distract yourself from the world around you and be able to put all of your energy into one activity, and for dads this is very possible. Often fathers fancy themselves as skilled handy men and look to fix or improve things around the house to keep them busy. This brings a great sense of enjoyment to dads as they get to show off their skills.

Dads Enjoy Humour

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What could make someone happier than the ability to joke around and constantly have fun? A good sense of humour is something that we all need in life. The role of the family comedian can a hard title to take but with endless amounts of dad jokes it is the role of the father to provide this sense of humour. However, they are called dad jokes for a reason and it is because typically only dads find them funny.

Dads Get More Of The Active Time

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A lot of the enjoyment of parenting comes with the opportunities to do different fun activities with your children. Often dads play more physical and vigorous games. These games may include a lot more physical contact as well as lasting longer. This not only increase the happiness of the dad but also helps children gain crucial physical strength.

Dads Enjoy A Balanced Life

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It is often questioned as to why dads always seem to be a bit happier than moms. One suggestion could be that dads typically have a more balanced life. By being able to spend time with their family, time at work, and time doing their own recreational activities whereas mothers tend to spend the majority of their time working or looking after the children.

Children Often Behave Better For Dad

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There are many different factors that make up a dads happiness but ultimately it comes down to how their children behave. There has been a vast amount of research that shows that children are often better behaved for their fathers than mothers, therefore resulting in a more peaceful and happier time for dads when spending time with their kids.

Dads Enjoy Helping With Education

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A factor that brings a lot of enjoyment to parents and more importantly fathers, is their child's endeavours into education. Some studies show that a fathers positive influence can have a large effect of students attainment. This will of course bring great pride and joy to fathers when they have been able to support their child and see the excitement of their face when they succeed.

Parenting Is Important To Them

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Ultimately all parenting comes down to is how much their children mean to them and the love and compassion they hold for their kids. Dads see parenting as a huge part of their identity and this is a very important aspect of their lives which brings them endless joy despite the difficult challenges they may face. Dads enjoy being able to guide and care for one of the their own.

Dads Are House Proud

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Despite it being typically mothers who would stay at home and handle most of the childcare and the bare the responsibilities of the household chores, there has been a large change in this view recently. More dads are staying at home and are building a great sense of pride by doing so as they are able to ensure their house is a place that people enjoy coming to and the quality of home brings a mass amount of pride.

Dads Aren't Pressured To Be The Breadwinner

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Throughout history it has been the stereotypical view that men should be the people to earn the money that supports the family and provides financial security. This comes with a lot of pressure for men to succeed. However, this is changing in modern society and a lot of this pressure is being relieved as more mothers are taking on the role as the main money earner in the family.

Finding A Happy Work/Life Balance

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There is a clear correlation between having a healthy balanced life and the happiness that a person feels. Fathers are the same. Dads tend to have the happier balance between the expectations of them as a parent and their working responsibilities. However, something that has brought more joy to men in modern times is their ability to take more household responsibilities away from their partners and provide them with more support at home.

Newborns Are More Dependent On The Mother

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Although a father does play a very crucial and vital role in a newborn's development it is mothers who bare the majority of the responsibility in the very early stages of their child's  lives. Due to the nature of childbirth and biological dependance that a child has on their mothers for things such as nutrients. This means that men do not face as much pressure during the early stages of a child's life.

Dads Socialise Easier

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A key part of parenting is to try and find a healthy work, parenting and social life balance which can be very hard to do and maintain. Typically men get more of these opportunities due to the mass amount of sports and physical activity open to man compared to woman. It can also be more difficult for women to leave their children due to their natural maternal instincts.

Dads Are Typically More Active

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It is well known that children are very energetic and will take any and every opportunity to play as they can. Usually dads do not shy away from this opportunity either! Dads enjoy getting outside and involved in as many activities as they possibly can with their child to help build their bond but to also release some of their residual childish pleasures like playing little silly games.

A Child's First Words Are Often Da Da

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One of the biggest moments of parenting is the tension of waiting for your child to say their first word and there is always a competition between mom and dad as to who will gain the honour. Unfortunately for moms this delight often falls to the father as a child's first words are more commonly "Da Da" bringing joy and bragging rights to fathers.

Dads Are Usually Lower Maintenance

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It is well known that the hardest part of parenting is the workload and how you must always be alert to your child's needs. Well luckily for fathers they are able to do this as fathers often have more time to look after their children than mothers as when in the house they are typically low maintenance whether this is getting dressed or deciding what to eat.

Dads Enjoy Dressing For Fun

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There is many reasons why parents love spending time with their children and different activities they do to build strong relationships and enjoy their tie together but what is more adorable than choosing baby clothes. A dad always thoroughly enjoys buying their child plenty of clothes that make them stand out, more specifically dressing them in their favorite sports teams jerseys.

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