30 Things That Are Never The Same After Our Child Gets A Partner

1. Family Vacations Will No Longer Be Just ‘Family'

                 

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With a newly loved up child within the family, do you really think they are going to be able to leave their partner’s side for a week? Family vacations may now include an extra guest or a complete change in destination preferences. The more the merrier they say!

2. Financial Considerations

                             

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Don’t think that your credit card is being splashed on just your family alone, an extra curry may need to be added onto family takeaway nights! Or, if they’re coming on these family vacations of yours, you’re going to have to cover for a lot more than just a curry.

3. Double the Celebrations

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Birthday and anniversary parties will become twice as fun, and costly, with an extra source of entertainment in the house! The joy of shared celebrations not only amplifies the festive atmosphere but also adds a new dimension to family gatherings, creating lasting memories for all involved.

4. Emotional support

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As the mother, you are used to being your child’s first port of call-in times of emotion. However, to your sadness, or your joy, their partner will most likely take the lead when discussing these emotions. This doesn’t mean they will not be asking you for anymore advice but expanding the network of care in anyone’s lives is an added advantage.

5. Your Phone Bills

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Not only is your child forming a new relationship with their partner but also a new relationship with their phone! Endless texting, calling, ‘ding’ sounds as they exchange sweet nothings and plan their next date. Might be time for them to start paying their phone bill.

6. Emotional Rollercoasters

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Brace yourself for a roller-coaster of emotions: joys, tears and heartbreaks. Your job is to listen to it all, even if you’re sick of hearing the same issue rotate round the conversation 100 times a day; your child looks up to you the most and wants to hear what you have to say.

7. Dinner Table Dynamics

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Bid farewell to taking control of the topic of conversation; now it’s all about their shared stories, inside jokes, and secret glances. After putting in the effort to prepare the meal you might find joy in simply leaning back and enjoying watching the conversation unfold, bonus points if the partner can deliver a good laugh!

8. Less Time with Your Child at Home

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Especially during the beginning of the relationship, get used to seeing your child maybe twice a week if lucky. All their spare time is going to be made sure to be spent with their other halves. If you become the fun house however, you might start to see your child a lot more than normal.

9. A Beautiful Change

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Despite the adjustments, challenges, and newfound responsibilities, witnessing your child in love can be one of life’s most beautiful and rewarding experiences. As a parent, all you want to see is your child happy, and watching them navigate the complexities of love adds a new layer of fulfilment and joy to your own journey.

10. Your Baby Child is No Longer a Baby

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Time to accept that your baby child is all grown up! Whilst this may bring a touch of nostalgia, it’s also an opportunity to celebrate the remarkable person they’ve become and to appreciate the evolving dynamics of your relationship, entering a stage where mutual respect and understanding take centre stage.

11. More Laughter

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Their happiness and joy can be contagious. Their constant laughing and joking around will no doubt bring a sense of second-hand happiness and pride, making your family life even more delightful. There’s nothing better than hearing your child happy! If there's less laughter from your child, they might be the wrong guy!

12. Family Planning Excitement

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With your child involved in a serious relationship, questions of a third member entering the family won’t be short from a lot of people’s curiosities! The excitement of grandchildren is always an exciting thought for any parent with children. Although, for you, this may mean a parenthood part two as your will may most likely lean on you for extra support.

13. Cultural Exchange

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Cultural differences, of any, may bring a new layer of richness and diversity to family life. New music, films, and family recipes, the merging of diverse cultural elements fosters an environment where everyone can learn, celebrate, and cherish the uniqueness each family member brings to the table.

14. Social media presence

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The family’s social media presence may change with more shared photos and updates of your child and their partner. Embracing the digital era, the posts not only showcase milestones but also become a visual diary of their shared adventures and special moments.

15. New Slang and Phrases

           

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Get ready to look up urban dictionary and google the new slang coming from your child’s mouth. No doubt some of this may be unsearchable, with inside jokes being created so that only they can understand and communicate between themselves, whilst you are left confused.

16. Social Circle

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Say hello to a new set of friends or extended family members entering conversations or you’re once peaceful home. As if you thought the list of friend’s names couldn’t get any longer, it might be time to start noting these names down so you don’t forget!

17. Life Goals

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Your child’s life goals may be influenced by their partners aspirations. You thought you still had your child for a couple more years at home, you're incorrect! They’re off to Southeast Asia travelling with their partner. Who said that you can’t go out and join them though?

18. Another Person to Worry About

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From considering their well-being to sharing in their joys and challenges, the addition of another important person in your life expands the scope of your daily concerns. While it adds an extra layer of responsibility, it also deepens the connections that make your family a support system for each other.

19. Understanding of Love

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Witnessing your child’s experience of love may deepen your own understanding of it. Through their relationship, you may gain insights into the complexities, joys, and nuances of love, contributing to a richer and more nuanced comprehension of this profound and universal emotion.

20. Travel Buddies

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Your child may have a new default travel buddy. Although they both may have the option to join your wholesome family holiday, your child may want to spend that time away from their parents and with their newfound friend. At least now there’s a beautiful thing called facetime where you can virtually feel like you are there with them!

21. Shutting That Mouth

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Hold that mouth of yours and be vigilant to not let that mouth slip out any embarrassing stories! While it’s tempting to share endearing anecdotes from their childhood, exercising caution prevents unintended blushes and ensures that your child doesn’t cut of all contact from you!

22. Alone Time

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Finding moments alone with your child may become a precious rarity. It’s a reminder to savour the intimate connection you share, creating memories that echo the unique bond between a parent and a child. Remember, if you have to make an extra effort it doesn't mean they love you less.

23. Closer Sibling Bonds

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If your child has siblings, their partner can strengthen the family ties. The addition of a new member brings fresh perspectives and shared experiences, creating opportunities for stronger connections between siblings. It's like taking in another child!

24. Privacy Boundaries

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Your child may start to place more emphasis on respecting their boundaries, no more walking into their bedroom without knocking! This newfound consideration for personal space not only signifies their growing independence but also fosters a sense of mutual respect within the household.

25. Fussy Eaters

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Your meal prepping plans may have to be altered if you’ve got a vegetarian or fussy eater on your hands! However, it is a chance to broaden your culinary horizons, fostering an appreciation for a variety of flavours and creating a delightful tapestry of shared meals that cater to the unique preferences within the family.

26. Shared Vacations

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As your child’s partner becomes an integral part of the family, planning vacations involves aligning schedules and accommodating the preferences of the in-laws. From festive celebrations to leisurely getaways, shared vacations become a collaborative effort, weaving a tapestry of memories which include both families’ traditions.

27. Wholesome Peer Pressure

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Your child’s partner might encourage healthier habits and hobbies. From invigorating outdoor activities to exploring nutritious recipes, their influence can lead to a collective commitment to well-being. The infusion of healthy habits not only enhances the overall quality of family life but also offers a supportive environment where everyone is motivated to embrace a positive lifestyle.

28. Guest Room Status

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The guest room may transform into a semi-permanent residence for your child’s partner in the early stages of their relationship. It’s a testament to the inclusivity of your family, creating a welcoming environment where their presence is not just tolerated but embraced as an integral part of the household.

29. Endless Group Chats

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You might find yourself in more group chats, planning get-togethers with both families. It’s a modern twist on family planning, creating a lively platform for exchanging ideas, coordinating events, and building a shared sense of community that extends beyond the physical get-togethers.

30. Increased Laundry Loads

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As the household expands, so does the laundry load. Your washing machine becomes a hub of activity, tackling the combined wardrobe of your child and their partner. While it might mean more work for you, it symbolizes the blending of lives and their shared space within your home.