Ranked: Flirting Techniques That Actually Work As Voted For By Women

In Last Place: Cheesy pick up lines

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Cheesy pick-up lines? Hell no. Nobody likes them, so why do guys still do it? Even if you think it sounds cool (in fact especially when you think it sounds cool) just refrain from saying it out loud because it's an instant turn-off. Unsurprisingly it ranked lowest on the list of flirting techniques that actually work.

29. Ask open-ended questions

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Is there a bigger mood killer than asking 'yes' or 'no' questions? I mean, is this an interview or is it a date? Open-ended questions are an absolute necessity and the bare minimum to showing a girl you are actually interested in getting to know her better.

28. Winking... never works

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When it comes to winking there's a very fine line between sexy and just plain creepy. And generally, winks turn out the latter. There are very few instances in which women actually felt like being winked at by a guy actually made them feel good. So if in doubt, don't wink.

27. Checking her out

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Again, this really depends on the circumstances. Sometimes, being checked out can be completely degrading and rude. In other circumstances for example, if we're on a date with a guy and he's checking out the new LBD you wore for the night, then go ahead!

26. Writing a love letter, the old romantic

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Flirting through a written letter ranked surprisingly low on the list of flirting techniques that women think actually work. For the old romantics out there, this is exactly what works. But, many modern women found that writing a love letter was far too contrived and basically just a little bit 'cringe'.

25. Jokes are the way to her heart

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Humor and cracking jokes was a flirting technique that the majority of women voted as definitely working. Humor is super important and definitely needs to be added to flirtation because when someone is too serious, it's just way too intense, and seems like they're trying too hard to flirt.

24. Making it clear they want YOU

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Every woman wants to feel wanted. And, is there anything more flattering than knowing when a guy is flirting with you and he's showing that he's interested in you, making it clear that he wants you, and ONLY you? That's enough to get anybody feeling weak at the knees.

23. Finding common ground is key

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Flirtation can be fairly dull until you actually find some common ground. That;  's the point where you actually start to think 'Hey, this guy is pretty cool'. Before that, it was all kinda of meaningless. Finding out what you both have in common is one of the best ways to bond.

22. Be completely yourself

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This one should really go without saying. But how many guys have we flirted with or dated that we feel is putting up a complete facade, rather than showing their true self? So many. It's a front to try and impress you, and an insecurity that the real them won't impress you.

21. Actually listen to her

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When a man doesn't actively listen to a woman, she instantly knows that she's not a priority and this man isn't worth her time. So, although active listening may not necessarily be the sexiest of flirting techniques, it's clearly one that works as it was voted high up on the list.

20. Give thoughtful gifts

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You arrive at your date and there he stands with your favorite flowers, the flowers that you once mentioned you loved. Now these kinds of gestures and flirting techniques make a woman turn to mush. So thoughtful gifts were ranked with a huge seal of approval.

19. Always be respectful

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Really it should go without saying that to impress a woman, you have to be respectful. In fact, in general, at all times you have to be respectful to women. But some guys get flirting mixed up with making crude or inappropriate jokes which absolutely does NOT work.

18. Keep it fun and playful

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Playfulness brings out the spark between a couple. If everything's super serious, it quickly becomes dull and the fire between the two of you goes out. According to women, they love it when flirtation is mixed with playfulness and the man brings out their free-spirited nature!

17. Create inside jokes

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There's something about having an inside joke with someone that instantly makes the relationship between you feel so much more close and intimate. You have something that nobody else knows, and it's a great flirting technique to make a woman feel special.

16. Show genuine interest

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If the intention is to steal a woman's heart, then a man needs to show genuine interest. When it came to what women deemed as a flirting technique that actually worked, showing a genuine interest was a high priority. It makes you feel that it is YOU this person is interested in, not your appearance, and not anybody else.

15. Give your full attention

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When a woman is into a man, she wants his FULL attention. In fact, women ranked having a man's full attention very highly in terms of effective flirting techniques. When a man is giving you his undivided attention you automatically feel wanted and special.

14. Touch her hair

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When a guy strokes through or gently brushes a woman's hair it sends goosebumps down her body: at least, if she's into him. If not, it; 's the last thing you want. But when a man and woman are flirting and things are going well, a stroke of her hair could be a very effective flirting technique.

13. Take charge, sweep her off her feet

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'I'm picking you up at 9 tonight and taking you to dinner', are they not just the words that every woman wants to hear? Taking charge, being spontaneous, and sweeping a woman off her feet is the epitome of romance and undoubtedly one of the flirting techniques that really does work.

12. Create tension...the good kind

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You know when you have a date and you could just cut the tension with a knife, but not because it's awkward, there's just a heightened electricity between the two of you. The kind of flirting where the atmosphere is tense with knowing you both fancy each other is what women said actually worked.

11. Act confident, but not TOO confident

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Confidence seems to be the secret key to a woman's heart. Women revealed that they love it when a man is super confident in his own skin and totally comfortable being himself. They ranked it one of the most attractive and effective flirting techniques...so long as it doesn't cross the line into arrogance.

10. Be the mystery man...

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We all love a mystery man. The mystery makes everything SO much more exciting. And when you get into a relationship and live with someone, the mystery dials down to 0, in fact, you soon get to know too much of each other. So keep the flirtatious mystery going as long as possible!

9. Brush her thigh

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If you're on a date and it's going well, a little bit of touching can be the flirtatious trick that the date needs. Women when they were asked, said that when a man brushed their leg with his hand it is one of the best flirting techniques! Guys, you heard it here first.

8. Play hard to get

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Okay, so one minute we're saying we want a man to make it obvious he wants us, and now we're saying that playing hard to get really does work. It may not make sense, but that's the complexity of the human heart summed up. Unfortunately, playing hard to get DOES apparently catches a woman's interest.

7. Put your hand on her lower back

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There really is something super hot about having a guy put his hand on your lower back. It's a gesture that shows a protective instinct and a reassuring presence that is super alluring. It definitely gets a tick when it comes to being a flirting technique that women love.

6. Smile at her, it's that simple

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It sounds so simple, yet when there's a guy you're interested in flirting with you and he smiles at you....you just melt. A smile says so much more than words can portray, which is why it was one of the women's favorite flirting techniques that they admitted really did work.

5. Remember the little details

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It's such a great way to show that you really do care when you remember the little details and not just the glaringly obvious facts. It's things like remembering your favorite chocolate bar, or the restaurant you've always wanted to try, or the way you like your coffee made - THIS is what makes a girl feel special.

4. Give genuine compliments

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A compliment from the heart can literally brighten your day and make you think about those very words for weeks to come. The flirting technique that came 3rd on the list of women's best voted for was receiving genuine compliments. And there really is nothing like it!

3. Tease her and create a spark!

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Teasing is one of the best flirting techniques, and that statement is backed up by a bunch of women who all said that being teased was a flirting method that really did work. Being teased is fun and playful but it also creates a spark between the two of you!

2. Give intense (seductive) eye contact

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Okay, who isn't a sucker for a seductive gaze? If you can resist the power of intense eye contact, then you have superpowers. By intense eye contact, we definitely don't mean staring. We mean the kind of sexy eye contact that is one of THE most powerful flirting techniques.

1. Be attentive!

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In number one place of the most effective flirting techniques, came being attentive. It turned out that a woman couldn't resist a man who was attentive to her needs and emotions. The kind of flirting that incorporates a man looking after a woman and being kind was the most irresistible of all.

And here's what you definitely shouldn't do on a first date, revealed by women: refuse to have any input

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You might think you're being laid-back or selfless by saying that it's entirely up to your date where she wants to eat, how much she wants to spend, the movie she wants to see... but really, it's just unhelpful - and also tells her nothing about your personality in what you do/don't like to do, which isn't constructive for a getting-to-know-you!

Turn up late (even a little)

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If you think it looks 'cooler' to turn up fashionably five minutes late, think again! Unless you have a very valid excuse in terms of traffic, weather or family emergency, your date doesn't want to hear it. Turning up late just makes her think you don't value the date (or her time).

Voice your opinion about them versus their photo

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Unless they've absolutely catfished you and they're a completely different person altogether, you really shouldn't rudely be bringing up the fact that they looked 'nicer' in their photo or they look different. If you feel it's not for you, at least be polite and see the date through and make a decision at the end!

Checking out all the other women in the vicinity

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If you want to date the hot waitess, bartender or that other woman on the table next to you, then go for it - shoot your shot. Just don't do it while stringing along the woman you're actually on a date with! It's not good form to openly check out other women/talk about something you find attractive about them!

Complain about the menu prices

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If you've both decided to go out to a restaurant, prices should have been checked beforehand, so it's not a good look if you start flipping through the menu and loudly proclaiming how expensive it all is. If it's too expensive, you should go somewhere else or talk about it maturely - otherwise, neither of you are going to enjoy eating!

Bringing a friend unannounced

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Sometimes you might feel like you need moral support from a friend, and when you agreed to catch a movie with a woman you're interested in, maybe you thought it wouldn't hurt if your friend tagged along and sat in the seat at the other side of you. But it does matter - definitely don't bring someone else unannounced!

Talk at her, not to her

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Even if it's because you're nervous and you're just talking and talking, it's not good dating practice not to let her get a word in edgeways! Don't be tempted to list off all the things you like to do, all your accomplishments and everything about you - make the conversation an easy back and forth.

Be on your phone

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The worse environment for this is the dinner table, if you're sat with your phone on the table, constantly checking it or - worse - texting and scrolling. But no matter where you go on your date, it should be engaging enough that you feel no need to check your phone at all! It's just rude.

Pushing your luck for something physical

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It's up to both parties whether they want to hook up at the end of a date - but the problem is if you push it when she makes it clear she doesn't. If she's making moves at the end and you both want it, sure, but if she's said goodbye with a firm handshake, definitely leave it at that.

Be awkward about who's paying

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Ah, the age old debate - who should pay? It's really down to the individual people on what they'd prefer to do, but what matters is how you act about it. If you say off the bat you're not paying full, you want her to pay half, or just act weird about it, it all comes across as you being a difficult person. It's fine if you'd rather go 50/50, but speak about it as a team and not because you're being stubborn with her!

Talking about her body all the time

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You can compliment the way a woman looks on the first date in a respectful way - but if 99% of the conversation is you talking about how good she looks, what you like about her body, something else about her looks, all she's going to think is you're objectifying her the entire time.

Pushing to pick her up at her house

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You might mean it as a sincere gesture to pick her up for your date, but it's likely she wants to feel safe in you not knowing her address just yet! It's nothing personal. So if she declines and says to meet you there, don't push it or insist that you should pick her up (or even drop her off home).

Giving advice when it's not asked for

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So you're enjoying a nice date and she's telling you about herself. Maybe you've got to the point where you're sharing personal stories and she's telling you something that happened to her. DON'T start reeling off advice of what you think she should do/should have done, or where she went wrong.

Mentioning your ex - even just once

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It doesn't matter if it's a throwaway comment about how this is your first date since so and so broke up with you - your date doesn't want to hear it! The last thing on your mind during a date should be your ex, and it's not going to go down well if you keep mentioning them.

Touching without asking

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This counts for even the slightest of touches that you might think are okay because you're on a date - nope! Putting your hand on hers at the table, putting your hand on her back, even hugging her, without her expressly saying it's okay isn't respecting her boundaries.

Overdoing the cologne

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Of course you're going to want to smell fresh for your date, but don't go for 20 spritzes across your body - that's too much for any person, but if your date is someone overly-sensitive to strong smells, she's going to be feeling pretty light-headed the entire date.

Paying - and then acting like they owe you

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If you want to foot the entire bill for the first date and insist about it - even if they push to pay half - then that's entirely fine if you're doing it with no ulterior motive. But if you pay only to then bring up on the second date that they owe you, or drop hints about how you were kind enough to pay, it's a red flag.

Switching personalities if the date doesn't go well

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Sure, it's frustrating if you've put time, money and effort into a date and at the end you don't want to see each other again - but you've both equally given up your time, and it's not the woman's fault if you just haven't connected. So don't start sulking at the end and acting like she owes you for the money/time spent. It's not a transaction!

Dressing like you've stumbled out of bed

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Deciding what to wear for your very first date can be challenging - and it should be, because you should make an effort and make a good first impression. So it's not too appealing if you turn up in loungewear that has a stain on it from last night's meal, or head over still in your grubby work gear.

Elaborate on detailed questions

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The first date is an opportunity for long conversations, so if your date asks you something about one of your interests that you have a lot to say about - don't just give a one word answer! It doesn't count for hogging the conversation if you're giving a more detailed reply about something she actually wants to know!

Now Let's Look At Some Great Date Ideas! 51. Picnic In The Park

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Escape the mundane and embrace the charm of a classic picnic in the park. Pack a basket full of your favorite treats, a cozy blanket, and let the serenity of nature set the stage for a perfect date. Whether you choose a sunny afternoon or a starlit evening, the park becomes your private haven. Nibble on delectable bites, sip refreshing drinks, and let the laughter flow as you enjoy the simple pleasure of each other's company amidst the rustling leaves and the gentle hum of nature.

52. Cooking Class

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Heat up your love life with a cooking class that turns the kitchen into a playground for two. Unleash your inner chefs as you don matching aprons and dive into the world of flavors. From chopping and stirring to creating culinary masterpieces, this interactive date promises laughter and shared triumphs.

53. Cocktail Class

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Shake, stir, and sip your way to a fun-filled evening with a cocktail class. Transform into mixologists for the night, experimenting with vibrant spirits and exotic ingredients. The bar becomes your canvas as you craft signature cocktails and engage in friendly banter about whose concoction reigns supreme. It's not just about the drinks; it's about the shared moments, the clinking glasses, and the feeling of being a dynamic duo in a world of tantalizing tipples.

54. Outdoor Movie Night

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Step into a world of romance and cinema under the stars with an outdoor movie night. Whether it's a classic film or the latest blockbuster, the open-air setting adds a magical touch to your cinematic experience. Snuggle up in cozy blankets, share a bucket of popcorn, and immerse yourselves in the storyline while the night sky provides a breathtaking backdrop.

55. Heading To A Gallery

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Elevate your date night with a touch of sophistication by heading to an art gallery. Stroll hand in hand through the halls adorned with creativity, allowing the brushstrokes and sculptures to spark conversations. It's not just about appreciating art; it's about discovering shared interpretations, discussing the profound, and maybe finding inspiration that extends beyond the canvas.

56. Heading To The Museum

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Embark on a journey through time and knowledge by heading to a museum together. Whether you're fascinated by history, science, or culture, museums offer a treasure trove of intriguing exhibits. Wander through the halls, marvel at artifacts, and engage in insightful discussions that reveal your mutual interests. It's a date that not only stimulates the mind but also creates lasting memories filled with discovery.

57. Hiking Adventure

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Trade the cityscape for nature's embrace with a hiking adventure that promises breathtaking views and shared challenges. Lace up your hiking boots, choose a scenic trail, and embark on a journey that strengthens not only your muscles but also your connection. This will give you both the opportunity to talk and get to know one another a little more!

58. Wine Tasting

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Indulge your senses and elevate your taste buds with a wine-tasting date. Whether you're seasoned connoisseurs or novices in the world of wine, the experience of sipping and savoring becomes an exploration of flavors and aromas. From reds to whites, each glass is a toast to your shared adventure, as you swirl, sniff, and sip your way through an evening that's refined and romantic.

59. Escaping An Escape Room

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Test your teamwork, wit, and problem-solving skills with a date that's an escape from the ordinary. Dive into the exhilarating world of escape rooms, where every clue and puzzle brings you closer to freedom. The clock ticks, the adrenaline rises, and as you unravel mysteries together, you'll discover the thrill of collaboration and the joy of conquering challenges as a dynamic duo.

60. Go On A Bike Ride

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Embrace the wind in your hair and the freedom of the open road with a biking adventure for two. Whether you opt for a scenic trail or a leisurely ride through city streets, cycling brings a sense of joy and camaraderie. Pedal side by side, explore new neighborhoods, and let the shared experience of biking create a date filled with laughter, spontaneity, and the simple pleasure of movement.

61. Head To A Comedy Show

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Laughter takes center stage in this date night escapade to a comedy show. Enjoy the hilarious antics of stand-up comedians or improv performers as you share hearty laughs in a lively atmosphere. The shared joy of humor not only lifts your spirits but also creates a light-hearted ambiance that makes for an unforgettable evening.

62. Go To The Farmers Market

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Immerse yourselves in the vibrant tapestry of local flavors and community spirit by strolling hand in hand through a farmers market. Explore stalls brimming with fresh produce, artisanal treats, and handmade crafts. Engage in the farm-to-table experience as you sample organic delights, choosing the ingredients that will become the centerpiece of a shared meal.

63. Volunteer Together

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Bond over shared values and make a positive impact on your community by volunteering together. Whether it's at a local shelter, a community garden, or a charitable event, the act of giving back becomes the foundation for a meaningful date. From planting trees to serving meals, the shared experience of contributing to a greater cause fosters a sense of unity and leaves you with memories of a date that made a difference.

64. Karaoke Night

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Unleash your inner rockstars with a karaoke night that turns any venue into your personal stage. From belting out power ballads to duetting on classic hits, karaoke promises a night of laughter, music, and uninhibited fun. The spotlight may not be your usual comfort zone, but with each note and chorus, you'll discover the thrill of sharing the stage and the spotlight, with the one who knows your melody.

65. Quiz Night

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Test your collective knowledge and indulge in some friendly competition with a quiz night date. Whether it's a pub trivia event or a virtual quiz at home, the intellectual banter and shared "aha" moments create a dynamic and engaging atmosphere. From history to pop culture, you'll find yourselves caught in a web of questions and answers, making this date a playful exercise for the mind and a chance to showcase your combined wisdom.

66. Indoor Rock Climbing

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Elevate your date to new heights with an indoor rock climbing adventure. Conquer vertical challenges together, relying on trust and communication to navigate the ascent. As you reach the summit, the shared sense of achievement becomes a powerful metaphor for your relationship. It's a date that not only gets your heart pumping but also strengthens the bond between you through a thrilling journey upwards.

67. Stargazing

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Escape the city lights and embark on a celestial journey with a stargazing date. Whether it's on a beach, a hilltop, or a cozy backyard, the night sky becomes your canvas. Gaze at constellations, share stories about the cosmos, and revel in the quiet beauty of the universe. Underneath the twinkling stars, you'll find a tranquil space for introspection, connection, and the magic of shared wonder.

68. Beach Day

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Let the rhythmic waves and warm sand set the stage for a blissful beach day together. Whether it's building sandcastles, taking a refreshing dip, or simply basking in the sun, the beach offers a natural and idyllic backdrop for a relaxed date. As the tide rolls in and out, so too will the waves of shared laughter and quiet moments, creating memories as timeless as the ocean itself.

69. Painting Class

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Unleash your artistic expressions in a painting class that transforms a blank canvas into a masterpiece. Whether you're seasoned artists or beginners, the act of creating together sparks creativity and conversation. With brushes in hand and palettes of vibrant hues, you'll embark on a journey of self-expression, turning a date into a colorful adventure filled with laughter, discovery, and perhaps a few unexpected strokes of genius.

70. Visit A Botanical Garden

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Escape into the enchanting world of nature by visiting a botanical garden. Wander through lush landscapes, marvel at vibrant blooms, and breathe in the fragrant air. The tranquility of the surroundings becomes the perfect backdrop for a date filled with serenity and shared appreciation for the beauty of the natural world.

71. Go To The Arcade

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Step into a world of nostalgia and playfulness with a date at the arcade. From classic video games to air hockey and pinball, the arcade offers a delightful array of interactive entertainment. Challenge each other to high scores, share playful banter, and revel in the carefree atmosphere that turns every game into a shared adventure.

72. Head To A Concert

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Immerse yourselves in the rhythm of live music with a concert date that transcends the ordinary. Whether it's a favorite band, a local artist, or a music festival, the shared experience of live performances creates a symphony of emotions. From dancing in the crowd to singing along with the lyrics, a concert date is a harmonious celebration of your shared love for music.

73. Visit The Zoo

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From majestic lions to playful penguins, the diverse array of animals becomes the backdrop for a day of discovery and delight. Stroll hand in hand through the exhibits, share observations, and revel in the joy of encountering creatures big and small. It's a date that promises laughter, fascination, and a touch of the exotic.

74. Pottery Lessons

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Get your hands dirty and play with clay in a pottery class! It's not about creating a masterpiece; it's about laughing at the wonky shapes and pretending you're in the movie Ghost. So, unleash your inner Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze and dive into a date where you'll likely end up with more clay on yourselves than on the wheel.

75. Take A Historical Tour

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Time-travel with bae! Instead of your typical snooze-worthy history lesson, take a historical tour together. Pretend you're time-traveling detectives, exploring the past with a sprinkle of humor. Bonus points for snapping goofy selfies with statues or reenacting historical scenes with a modern twist.

76. Board Game Night

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Dust off those board games and let the friendly competition begin! Forget about the "serious" strategy - it's all about laughs, trash-talking, and accusing each other of cheating. So, whether you conquer the world in Risk or bankrupt each other in Monopoly, just remember: it's all fun and games until someone flips the board.

77. Trampoline Park

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Channel your inner kids with a trip to the trampoline park! Bounce, flip, and laugh until your stomach hurts. Forget about looking graceful; it's all about attempting that front flip, failing miserably, and then collapsing into a fit of giggles with your date. You might look a little like an idiot but it's a good way to show you can open up with one another.

78. Gardening Together

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Grab some shovels and plant something together! It's not about having the perfect garden; it's about getting your hands dirty, making terrible gardening puns, and probably accidentally watering each other more than the plants. Bonus: future dates might include harvesting your own (questionable) veggies!

79. Movie Marathons

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Netflix, chill, and conquer entire TV series together. It's not about the quality; it's about the quantity. Dive into an epic movie marathon, complete with snacks, cozy blankets, and a friendly debate about who would survive longest in a zombie apocalypse. Maybe you could set up a sort of theme for your movies in order to make it a little more enjoyable for the two of you.

80. Go To A Sports Game

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Cheer for your favorite team or pretend you know what's happening - either way, going to a sports game is about the experience. Hot dogs, questionable dance cam moves, and an excuse to yell at the ref. Just remember, it's totally acceptable to go just for the halftime show. Let's hope you don't support eachother's rivals though, that could get a little messy.

81. Attend A Yoga Class

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Get zen together without taking it too seriously. Attend a yoga class, where it's perfectly okay to fall over during tree pose and accidentally laugh during meditation. Bonus: the awkward couple that can't quite nail the yoga poses becomes the cutest couple in the class. You might show yourself up if you don't have the necessary flexibility though!

82. Go To The Amusement Park

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Unleash your inner child at the amusement park! Forget about being dignified; it's all about screaming on roller coasters, eating cotton candy until you feel queasy, and challenging each other to questionable fair games. Plus, nothing says romance like sharing a funnel cake, or watching eachother scream with adrenaline on the rides!

83. Helicopter Tour

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Soar through the skies on a helicopter tour – because why not? It's not about being fancy; it's about feeling like rockstars for a day. Pretend you're in an action movie, snap tons of selfies, and enjoy the views without the hassle of traffic. Just hold on tight and try not to drop your phone. That might not make you look great... right?

84. Go For Some Drinks

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Hit up your local watering hole for some casual drinks. It's not about fancy cocktails; it's about clinking glasses, telling silly jokes, and sharing embarrassing stories. So, find a cozy spot, order your favorite beverages, and enjoy a night where being tipsy only makes everything more hilarious. You can really delve in to the secrets!

85. Gourmet Cooking At Home

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Turn your kitchen into a chaotic cooking show! It's not about being MasterChefs; it's about pretending you're on a reality show while attempting to julienne vegetables. So, grab some fancy ingredients, don ridiculous aprons, and create a culinary masterpiece together – or at least something edible. Let's hope its edible at least!

86. Go Karting

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Rev those engines and embrace your need for speed with a date at the go-kart track. It's not about being a professional racer; it's about laughing through the hairpin turns, accidentally bumping into each other, and feeling the rush of the wind. May the fastest date win – or at least not come in last.

87. Go To The Theater

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Dress up or don't, but definitely hit the theater for a night of drama, comedy, or maybe a musical about cats. It's not about understanding every Shakespearean soliloquy; it's about sharing an experience, pretending you're cultured, and discussing the play over post-show snacks.

88. Mini Golf

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Embark on a journey through the world's most challenging (or goofy) mini golf course. It's not about the perfect swing; it's about the friendly rivalry, the joy of sinking a hole-in-one, and pretending every obstacle is a major feat. Bonus: whoever loses buys ice cream! You'll find out who the competitive one is when you battle eachother too!

89. Bowling

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Lace up those snazzy bowling shoes and hit the lanes for a night of strikes, spares, and maybe a few gutter balls. It's not about being a pro bowler; it's about the hilarity of trying to coordinate your approach, celebrating the occasional victory dance, and enjoying some greasy alley food.

90. Extreme Adventuring

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For the daredevils, throw caution to the wind and try something extreme – skydiving, bungee jumping, or maybe even shark cage diving if you're feeling bold. It's not about conquering fears; it's about facing them together and sharing a story that'll top all your future dinner party anecdotes.

91. Go To The Bookstore

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Bookworms, unite! Dive into a bookstore and get lost among the shelves. It's not about finding the next Pulitzer Prize winner; it's about discovering hidden gems, reading excerpts to each other, and maybe creating a secret handshake for your future book club. You could share a similiar taste!

92. Buy Some Vinyls

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Take a stroll down memory lane (or discover a new lane) at a vinyl record store. It's not about being audiophiles; it's about flipping through dusty records, arguing over which album cover is the coolest, and finding that one gem that becomes the soundtrack to your relationship. That could be just what you need!

93. Home Brewing Class

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Become beer aficionados with a home brewing class. It's not about becoming master brewers; it's about having a blast mixing ingredients, tasting various hops, and imagining yourselves as the hippest brewmasters in town. Cheers to the couple that brews together, stays together. It might not taste great though!

94. Jazz Club

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Get jazzy and hit up a local jazz club. It's not about knowing every jazz standard; it's about sipping on classy cocktails, tapping your feet to the beat, and pretending you're part of a black-and-white film. Bonus points for attempting a spontaneous swing dance. It's not for everyone, but it would be a great way to spend time together.

95. Murder Mystery

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Step into a world of intrigue with a murder mystery night. It's not about solving crimes; it's about donning costumes, adopting questionable accents, and accusing each other of being the murderer. Unleash your inner detectives and see who can crack the case. You might be able to work together and sort out the problem!

96. Spa Night

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Transform your home into a spa retreat. It's not about being experts in massage therapy; it's about creating a serene atmosphere, pampering each other with DIY face masks, and enjoying a night of relaxation. Think soothing music, scented candles, and a blanket fort. You'll both be able to chill out in the best way possible.

97. Go To The Aquarium

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Dive into a sea of wonder at the aquarium. It's not about marine biology expertise; it's about marveling at colorful fish, holding hands in front of the shark tank, and maybe even pretending you're in your own underwater adventure. Bonus: penguin sightings make everything better.

98. Vintage Shopping

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Time-travel through fashion eras with a vintage shopping spree. It's not about following trends; it's about trying on funky outfits, snapping retro selfies, and finding that one piece that screams, "I was born in the wrong decade!" Some of the vintage clothing stores offer some of the best clothes you can get your hands on!

99. Cheese Tasting

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Indulge your taste buds in a cheese-tasting extravaganza. It's not about becoming certified cheese sommeliers; it's about nibbling on different varieties, making up hilarious cheese names, and discovering which combination is your ultimate cheesy delight. Let's just hope that neither of you have an intolerance to lactose!

100. Outdoor Yoga

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Find your Zen in the great outdoors with an outdoor yoga session. It's not about perfecting the poses; it's about breathing in fresh air, attempting tree poses on uneven ground, and probably falling over in fits of laughter. Namaste, nature. Namaste. You might even find a hobby that you enjoy taking part in!