12+ Reasons To Date A Younger Man

By Anna Collins 1 year ago

1. They have more energy for you!

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One of the main reasons to date a younger man is the fact that they have so much more energy! They still want to do things and have a lot of gusto for life. This is great because their energy will be infectious and he'll want to take you to new places and do new things - not just sit around watching TV.

2. They'll have less emotional baggage

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Okay, so this has to be a positive. We all have some kind of emotional baggage, but the older we get, naturally the more it grows. A younger man is less likely to have been divorced, or to have children and so he'll have less emotional baggage or responsibilities that you then have to navigate.

3. You can do fun things together

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We all want a relationship full of fun, and being with a younger guy makes this much easier. A younger man will still be wanting to have fun as he is not grown up and jaded with life and responsibility. We all have a sense of fun that is unrivalled in our younger years. He can bring this to your relationship!

4. You might have more physical attraction to them

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This is by no means saying that older men aren't hot. But, one of the main attractions that women who have gone for younger men have cited as their reasoning, is because they are more physically attracted. A younger man may be in his physical peak and he may be more physically attractive to you.

5. They'll have more sexual energy

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A younger man is more likely to have a higher libido. And, if this suits your needs more then it is a definite reason to go for a younger guy. Their sexual energy might be more aligned with yours, which can mean you can keep things spiced up in the bedroom and have some fun!

6. They won't have preconceived notions

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Preconceived notions can be really hard to overcome. And while we all have these in some capacity, it's not necessarily a good thing. It can mean that you are less flexible in your thinking and less open to new ideas and new things that you already have judgement on. Younger men are less likely to have formed these rigid ideas.

7. They've got less experience

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When we say less experience, you may be thinking that this is a bad thing. But it actually opens up a whole lot of new opportunities. Not only can you experience new things together, but it also means that they have more opportunity to learn and to grow.

8. You can both learn from one another

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A great thing about dating a younger guy is that you can both learn from each other. It's a great thing when you learn together because it means that you can both develop together, and share experiences that the other can learn from and teach one another.

9. You can feel more empowered

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There's nothing more empowering than feeling mature and experienced and almost guiding the relationship. A younger guy will look up to you in terms of how to proceed and act within the relationship and he'll love and admire your confidence and maturity.

10. You have the chance to teach him a few things

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So why not pass your wisdom onto your younger man? It's a great opportunity. You can teach him how to treat a woman, and how to act in a relationship. You can teach him how women should be respected, and all of these things can be learned by your partner leading to a fulfilling relationship.

11. The relationship will be more playful

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A playful relationship is the best kind. When you are playful and young at heart there's always something to spark the fire in your relationship and keep it fun and exciting. Bantering with each other, playfully making fun of one another and flirting will keep your spark!

12. They'll be less stuck in their ways

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Being stuck in your ways can really take the fun out of a relationship. Some older guys won't budge in their way of thinking meaning that they are totally stubborn to trying new things - or in their words 'I like what I like and I don't need to change it'. A younger guy WON'T be like this.

13. You have more opportunities to experience new things together

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When a guy is younger it means that he's not had as many experiences together yet. So, you have an opportunity to do these new experiences together. One of the greatest ways to bond and form a stringer connection is by having experiences together, and first times are always more memorable and meaningful.

14. They will try and woo you more

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Who doesn't love to be wooed. A woman wants to feel special, right? In fact, we should all feel special. And a younger guy is way more likely to whisk you off your feet and wine and dine you. Now, if this sounds appealing (how couldn't it?) then try dating a younger man.

15. Younger guys admire a woman's experience and maturity

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For a younger guy, there's nothing more sexy that a woman who is confident and knows what she wants. Maturity will be something that your younger man loves and admires. And, if you love to flaunt your confidence and experience and be admired, then why not date a younger man instead?

16. They're more open minded

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Open-mindedness is a huge turn on. To be open, not judgemental and willing to learn and accept new things is super important. Not only will it give you both more room to grow in the relationship but you can also enjoy more things and talk about different kinds of things together.

17. It will be an adventure

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Who doesn't love an adventure? With a younger guy, you just don't know what adventures you are about to embark on, where you might go together, or what you might do. With an older man, it's less likely because he'll probably be more settled in his life.

18. They will be driven and ambitious

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A younger guy is more likely to be starting out or still on his journey toward his career goals. He's at the beginning of his career path, rather than already in his groove. This means that he may be more driven and ambitious right now which you find hugely attractive.

19. There's more young men available

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Look, as we get older the options and availability of men declines. A lot of older men are married which means they are completely off the market! There are a lot more young, single men - it's as simple as that. If you want more available men then perhaps look for a younger guy.

20. They'll have different priorities

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As we go through life our priorities naturally change. As we get older into adulthood our priorities tend to grow more and more and then also usually become more serious. But, for a younger man his priorities will be more focused on enjoyment and YOU.

21. He'll make you feel young

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Who doesn't want to feel forever young at heart? When someone brings out this side of us it's hard not to feel giddy. Attention and playfulness from a younger man will of course, make us feel younger both physically and mentally which can feel extremely invigorating.

22. You'll feel in control

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Feeling in control of a relationship does NOT mean being controlling. But some people love to feel in control in terms of taking charge or making decisions and essentially wearing the pants int he relationship. If you are into this dynamic then dating a younger guy may be for you.

23. He'll be more spontaneous

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Spontaneity without a doubt adds huge sparks to a relationship. If your man whisks you away randomly for a getaway or tells you to be ready at 9PM for a surprise whose heart doesn't melt? If someone is willing to do random things at any time with you it's undeniably more exciting.

24. He'll have less responsibilities

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Responsibilities are not a bad thing, yet they do tie us down. If you date a younger guy he most likely will not have to go and collect the kids from his ex-wife at the weekend or take his niece to the movies every Tuesday. This leaves more time for the both of you to enjoy one another with less external pressures.

25. He'll be more flexible

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Dating a younger guy is cool because he'll be more flexible - in more ways that one. He'll be more flexible with his time and he'll also be more flexible in terms of the relationship or even small things such as what you both want to do with he weekend. As we get older we naturally become creatures of habit more.

26. There's more room for self-discovery

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As people we tend to do the majority of our self discovery in our younger years. So a positive of dating a younger man is that he will still be on his self discovery journey when you two are dating. Not only can you guide him, but you can join him on this path which will open your eyes to learning more about yourself too.

27. He might be more open to unconventional relationship dynamics

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You might prefer unconventional relationships you might have a totally new idea of what you want your relationship to look like. An older man is far less likely to oblige to this. But it could appeal to a younger man who may be keen to try new things and be guided by your wiser words.

28. He'll have more time for you

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He's younger so he probably isn't tied down to as many commitments. The older we get, the more our responsibilities and commitments grow. But dating a younger guy will mean he has more time for you and you will be his main priority. You'll been adored and prioritized which is always a great feeling.

29. You can live in the moment more

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Living in the present and enjoying the moment is a key part of finding happiness. A younger man will allow you to do this more. Younger people are more focused on enjoying the moment, rather than fearing the future or reminiscing on the past like older people ted to do. This will allow you bot just to enjoy yourselves.

30. He'll be open to trying new things

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Trying new things is an important part of life, yet as you get older it becomes harder. For one, you've already tried a lot of things. Two, there's just not as much time when you've got more responsibilities. And, as you get older you often prioritize different things over new experiences.

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